Originally Posted by
dojj
as soon as she loses her money because you have more than her, you will have basiclay agree'd to look after the kids and support them financially as she won't be able to and won't get a place to stay if she's taken off the housing list
But is that the legal "maintenance" position as far as CSA and family courts are concerned??
I know when she lives with me ive agreed to support her and i dont mind (yes im insane) its just if things go wrong am i legally fucked too??
After all im not the biological father so surely my responsibilities end if the relationship ends (subject to being reasonable about rehousing etc).
Originally Posted by
dojj
tell her to stay put until she's sorted a place out for herself, then look at co-habiting in her gaff
at least that way if you leave she won't be in the shit, and more importantly, the kids won't be in the shit either, and nor will you
I dont want to rent my current place out as its only recently been completely redone prior to my purchase, not to mention finding another place to rent with a large garage isnt going to be easy!!!!
I can see your point though, make her get her own place that way i can tell her motives are more relationship based rather than escaping her current shithole.