I totally agree that its unfair to judge others which I have not met which is why I never stated a specific individual, however speaking from personal experience and observations I feel is valid. (although I must admit my humour can be a bit tasteless at times )
I do not think people split for the wrong reasons, in general I find they get together for the wrong reasons, so many women marry men who are known to be serial philaners and then complain when they continue to bed hop after they are married.
Likewise tough and violent bad boys which some women are attracted to ultimately bring this behaviour into the relationship.

I think people always split for the right reasons !!

Most women I am personally aware of which are of a certain age and attracted to me are either broke, or carry baggage both emotionally and/or physical

It may very well be the circumstances which I find myself and the area where I live which brings me in contact with such women, however every single women of 35+ I seem to meet who is not widowed are either desperate not be left of the shelf or confident or very successful and happily single.