pissed and very pissed off!!!!!!!!!!
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pissed and very pissed off!!!!!!!!!!
Wish I never had any fucking debt!!!!!
Would be out of this fooking house asap other wise (yes I live with my parents} if I had plenty of cash I would fookiningh ber long gone.
Fuck my parants couldnt give a fuck tbh. yes Im pissed but still would feel the same otherwise.
Bebn fee;ing like this for aghes, basically eversince my nan died ()real tears by the way for the dim fuckers )
Basically this has been brewing for a long long time, just had a big argument with my brother, he was pisse das usaul and so am I a bit lol, Said loads of p[ersonal things aimed at me and the missis and how I kept my cool I dont klnow.
Mum as usual stood up for the "prodigal son" (my brother).
Then after all that asked to borrow my bike , yeah go ahead
Missis heard all of it and I just wish I wasnt so fucking soft, I could feel it building up in me but something was stopping me!!!!!
I really miss my nan and fucking wish she never died as I edidnt get to say a final goodbye
She knew that my brother was the fav (being younger and all that bollox!!!}
I would be far away if I could be afford it with my missis as I love her to bits but for some reason I cant say it like I should If you know what i mean
Seriosly as soon as my parents have gone to spain the fucking better as far asim concerned.
fucking xmas with family, fooking hate it
Would be out of this fooking house asap other wise (yes I live with my parents} if I had plenty of cash I would fookiningh ber long gone.
Fuck my parants couldnt give a fuck tbh. yes Im pissed but still would feel the same otherwise.
Bebn fee;ing like this for aghes, basically eversince my nan died ()real tears by the way for the dim fuckers )
Basically this has been brewing for a long long time, just had a big argument with my brother, he was pisse das usaul and so am I a bit lol, Said loads of p[ersonal things aimed at me and the missis and how I kept my cool I dont klnow.
Mum as usual stood up for the "prodigal son" (my brother).
Then after all that asked to borrow my bike , yeah go ahead
Missis heard all of it and I just wish I wasnt so fucking soft, I could feel it building up in me but something was stopping me!!!!!
I really miss my nan and fucking wish she never died as I edidnt get to say a final goodbye
She knew that my brother was the fav (being younger and all that bollox!!!}
I would be far away if I could be afford it with my missis as I love her to bits but for some reason I cant say it like I should If you know what i mean
Seriosly as soon as my parents have gone to spain the fucking better as far asim concerned.
fucking xmas with family, fooking hate it
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Seriosly now and this aint the drink talking, I have never liked my parents for a long long long time!!!!!!
Never been alowed to do any thing by muyself, for example, I would get a pressie of my dad, a model kit, but I wont be allowee to build it incase I do it wrong , Im sure this is why I have no real self confidence in my self.
Never been alowed to do any thing by muyself, for example, I would get a pressie of my dad, a model kit, but I wont be allowee to build it incase I do it wrong , Im sure this is why I have no real self confidence in my self.
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not good benn sorry m8
know how you feel on some points i live at home and cant move out because of my large debt i do love my parents but god they have held me back alot by knocking mt confidence when i was younger
christmas is supposed to be a happy time but im homa alone pissed off with my shitty life hoping that 2006 will change for the better,
know how you feel on some points i live at home and cant move out because of my large debt i do love my parents but god they have held me back alot by knocking mt confidence when i was younger
christmas is supposed to be a happy time but im homa alone pissed off with my shitty life hoping that 2006 will change for the better,
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Originally Posted by Stu.H
u'll get it sorted!
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Originally Posted by PT
sorry to here mate, you ll be ok, least you ve got your girl
We always arue but I do love her and fooking trying my hardest to get her pregnant
Thats what ive wanted for fooking years is kids , iM A DIFERANT person when with her brothers kids.
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Benn you and Chell know we will do anything to help you both out, even the borrow of our sofa bed. We are in exactly the same position as you and yes it's just big fooking bolox.
Chell knows how much you love her. Money isn't everything even when it's the bain of your life, as long as you can be together, cherish that moment and laugh as much as you can.
Christmas is false and I look forward to the day I have kids and we can have the fun and laughter my Gramps gave me and the christmas' we always wish for.
Chin up babe. xxx
Chell knows how much you love her. Money isn't everything even when it's the bain of your life, as long as you can be together, cherish that moment and laugh as much as you can.
Christmas is false and I look forward to the day I have kids and we can have the fun and laughter my Gramps gave me and the christmas' we always wish for.
Chin up babe. xxx
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sorry to hear about ya nan mate, ya must a been close. dont worry about christmas man it gets a bit samey and boring and after all it is just another day. if ya not in the mood for it, fuck it off. it sounds like you have a similar problem to me with my old man. he never trusts that im capable of doing anything for myself either and so interfere's with everything i do and we end up fighting quite a lot . try an talk to them mate honestly, just say whats in ya head, but dont swear an piss em off. but if they just dont listen dont waste ya breath, it'll just wind you up more. i felt real bad not so long ago cos of money and health and dads lack of understanding. but with time and communication things are starting to look better. i hope you can sort it out man really i do. take care!
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Well as long as you have a clear out when ya get here and put the tolilet seat down and don't complain that the baath isn't big enough until we put the shower in.
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Originally Posted by * Rudey *
benn mate give it time and you,ll be in your own place and able to dictate your own pace make that your goal aswell as independance confidence will follow hang in thier
She's not on much better either.
Befdore all the twats start, yes I know we should wait till we are in a better situation before we have kids but thats what I and the missi wants, and the way I see it no matter how wealthy you are, yoiu will never be able to afford kids
Must admit, even though he can smoke for britain and drinks and does drugs atleast my brother has a house of his own
then theres me, car not dont drink (Well only about 4 times a year pf piss ups not acceptyed lol~) never and never will take drugs, and I live with my parents
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i have to say am with you on the wish i had never got into debt and my grandparents haven't died but am real close to my grandad and they have moved away from us over 150 miles away which has really pissed me off as they didn't need to they just did it with out even talking it over
and i don't tend to see eye to eye with my dad ask graceland the guy can be a right cunt at times proper embarassing and that and just won't leave me to it at times to which i went out and bought a fiesta rs turbo this year without him just turned up at home with it one day but he didn't say nething untill the rings went and i have a spare engine sat here now and a mate to put it in for me for a ton so that'll shut him up when its sorted
chin up mate and just keep going your one step ahead of me still mate you have your girl and she sounds to be a right star myne left me back in august but chin up and you can over come ne thing put in our way
and i don't tend to see eye to eye with my dad ask graceland the guy can be a right cunt at times proper embarassing and that and just won't leave me to it at times to which i went out and bought a fiesta rs turbo this year without him just turned up at home with it one day but he didn't say nething untill the rings went and i have a spare engine sat here now and a mate to put it in for me for a ton so that'll shut him up when its sorted
chin up mate and just keep going your one step ahead of me still mate you have your girl and she sounds to be a right star myne left me back in august but chin up and you can over come ne thing put in our way
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well you aint staying round ere you lard arse
anyway i have told you if you want some help with chelle i have plenty man juice to go round, just pop it up her and bam,,,,, a good looking kid for you
ps,,,,, stop moaning
anyway i have told you if you want some help with chelle i have plenty man juice to go round, just pop it up her and bam,,,,, a good looking kid for you
ps,,,,, stop moaning
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Benn - im real sorry to hear about all this, i know how you feel ive been going through a real bad patch for a good few years now (some patch hey)!
I hope you get everything sorted - hang in there mate & if theres anything i can do for you let me know dude.
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i know what your saying about your nan mate mine was like more of a mum to me than a nan and she died 4 days ago on the 22nd im gutted mate sounds like you was also close to yours
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a lot of the above applys to me too mate!
need to move out asap but having a 14k student debt around your neck doesnt help matters! and agree it does nothing for your self confidence being at home and being looked after! does more harm than good for me. i dont know if you've lived alone before but as i have for the last 3 years its a nightmare going back to live with the rents!
but at least i know what to do about it. there is always a bright side if your willing to look for it - no matter how dark it may seem at times!
all the best!
need to move out asap but having a 14k student debt around your neck doesnt help matters! and agree it does nothing for your self confidence being at home and being looked after! does more harm than good for me. i dont know if you've lived alone before but as i have for the last 3 years its a nightmare going back to live with the rents!
but at least i know what to do about it. there is always a bright side if your willing to look for it - no matter how dark it may seem at times!
all the best!
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If you want kids have them have them NOW, I'm 38 years old and have two great kids 2 1/2 years and 6 months and wish I had done it earlier in life The council will let you jump the housing list with kids and you can leave the oppressive parents behind.
Good luck mate .
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Good luck mate .
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Benn - sad to hear mate, I am in the same boat and as soon as I have the money I'm out on my own ASAP...
But come one - you moan about having debt and wishing you had the money yo move out - yet you have a Rouse Saff and a S1 resto underway, not to mention the other cars you're always showing pics of - if you're serious about clearing debt and moving out, why do you still have these cars?
I am serious about clearing my debt and moving out - so I sold all my cars and drive around in a piece of shit, Ł300 Orion thats cost fuck all to run (in comparrison to my 3i and 2 S1's)
Don't moan about not having any money while you have the best part of Ł10k sewn up in cars - that Ł10k would be far better off as a house deposit would it not? Or clearing some/all debt to be able to pay a mortgage?
I don't mean offence or owt, but I see a lot of people on here who have WAY more than I will probably ever have, and then some with way more money, cars etc than I will ever have who moan about it not being enough I live at home (I'll 24 in an hour) and I don't want to live here anymmore, so I'm trying to do something about it.
My bro earns quite well, has a good job and a great fiance - he also had three cars, all of which were projects with loads of money invested in em.
But he wanted to move out, and luckily with his finace they managed to find a place that the bank would allow them a 100% mortgage for.
His sacrifice tho for this new house and more importantly, new LIFE together is he has got rid of all three cars to clear out some of his debt. He also has to travel 35miles each way to work now via the M25. So he's lost a lot of money tied up in the cars, lost a lot of time what with travelling etc, but he's happy cos he now lives with his finace and has a completely new life for himself.
But come one - you moan about having debt and wishing you had the money yo move out - yet you have a Rouse Saff and a S1 resto underway, not to mention the other cars you're always showing pics of - if you're serious about clearing debt and moving out, why do you still have these cars?
I am serious about clearing my debt and moving out - so I sold all my cars and drive around in a piece of shit, Ł300 Orion thats cost fuck all to run (in comparrison to my 3i and 2 S1's)
Don't moan about not having any money while you have the best part of Ł10k sewn up in cars - that Ł10k would be far better off as a house deposit would it not? Or clearing some/all debt to be able to pay a mortgage?
I don't mean offence or owt, but I see a lot of people on here who have WAY more than I will probably ever have, and then some with way more money, cars etc than I will ever have who moan about it not being enough I live at home (I'll 24 in an hour) and I don't want to live here anymmore, so I'm trying to do something about it.
My bro earns quite well, has a good job and a great fiance - he also had three cars, all of which were projects with loads of money invested in em.
But he wanted to move out, and luckily with his finace they managed to find a place that the bank would allow them a 100% mortgage for.
His sacrifice tho for this new house and more importantly, new LIFE together is he has got rid of all three cars to clear out some of his debt. He also has to travel 35miles each way to work now via the M25. So he's lost a lot of money tied up in the cars, lost a lot of time what with travelling etc, but he's happy cos he now lives with his finace and has a completely new life for himself.
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First move for ben is find a better paying job, or sell whats around you.
We all have shit lives mate, as you can read your not the only one, My past year has been shit as my friends know, but I've still gone out there and stood up to face it, Now I have my own company and a kiod on the way and I'll do my up most to make my family and work life good
Keep ya chin up and sort the problems.
First move for ben is find a better paying job, or sell whats around you.
We all have shit lives mate, as you can read your not the only one, My past year has been shit as my friends know, but I've still gone out there and stood up to face it, Now I have my own company and a kiod on the way and I'll do my up most to make my family and work life good
Keep ya chin up and sort the problems.
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Time for at least one of the cars to go Benn.
Has to be done mate, as you know you'll be happier without the burden.
Anything you need etc, you know where I am.
Use the opportunity of the New Year to clean the slate, and start all over.
Has to be done mate, as you know you'll be happier without the burden.
Anything you need etc, you know where I am.
Use the opportunity of the New Year to clean the slate, and start all over.
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Sorry to hear this Benn.
Got to agree with the above saying its time to get rid of one of the cars,sad i know but how the hell are you going to afford to get them finished etc....
You might aswell get rid of one now and get one out of the way.
tbh aswell,if you are trying for kids the last thing you want to do is spend precious spare money on cars.
Hope everything turns out soon for you two and you get what you wish for in the new year.
Got to agree with the above saying its time to get rid of one of the cars,sad i know but how the hell are you going to afford to get them finished etc....
You might aswell get rid of one now and get one out of the way.
tbh aswell,if you are trying for kids the last thing you want to do is spend precious spare money on cars.
Hope everything turns out soon for you two and you get what you wish for in the new year.
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Hang in there Benn, nothing to add that hasnt been said really other than if you want it, it will come. Ive been to the bottom and almost went that little bit lower, somewhat lower i expect than the point you are at now i hope, so i talk from experience sadly. I spent a year and a half of my life living rough on the streets due to my Oppressive Father, and when finally we made up and arranged to go to the Pub as father and son for the first time ever on my Birthday, the Bastard Died on me the day before.
Life can really be a fooker mate, just hang on in there as one day you will look back and think "Things werent so bad really" it just requires some hindsight and more life experience to make you realise just how much things can change in a very short time.
Best of luck with the family plans
Life can really be a fooker mate, just hang on in there as one day you will look back and think "Things werent so bad really" it just requires some hindsight and more life experience to make you realise just how much things can change in a very short time.
Best of luck with the family plans
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Originally Posted by Greg shepherd
christmas is supposed to be a happy time but im homa alone pissed off with my shitty life hoping that 2006 will change for the better,
I dont think ive had a year of being so depressed as this
I hope to God next year will be better, good luck with getting it sorted Benn