Big G

Kin Ell Jay,
At least you not sat here, having problems breathing with chest pains waiting for a Doctor to turn up

BlueSmoke

Well when you put it like that..... lol

Everyone thinks I'm sat here wallowing but I'm actually fine just now. Just fooked off at the phone in the toilet and the bloody insurance!!

Stu @ M Developments

iTrader: (12)

Or: "Some Twats stolen my glass and it was half full"

Anonymous

Being a disorganised coont isnt the same as being cursed.

As for whether the world would miss you, of course it fooking wouldnt, you are just one of 6 billion people, and almost all of them couldnt give a shit about you.

If you dropped down dead tomorrow you would leave a few devestated family members and a few upset mates, and that would be about it, the rest of us would be over your death in more or less no time, even though we like you, cause thats what life is like.

So no, in the grand scheme of things you dont matter a fuck mate.

And guess what, nor do the rest of us.


If stu dropped down dead tomorrow there would be a MASSIVE post on here from all the people whose lives he has touched a little through this forum and his business etc, but how many of them would be genuinely be so devestated we couldnt sleep or eat etc for months?
The answer = not many would REALLY be effected, even though he is the centrepoint of the site effectively


Thats just life mate, and even people like pop stars who think they are important cause so many millions of people say they "love them" etc, its all just bollocks to.


All you need to do is realise that none of us actually matter a fuck in the grand scheme of things and just get on with enjoying life anyway

Anonymous

And i will land with one up my arse just as a copper walks by and arrests me for public indecency and Nicole leaves Stu cause he has been involved in a gay public scandal

Anonymous

A friend of mine who is an engineer jokingly responds to that question with the answer:

"The glass is wrongly specificed and is twice the size it needs to be"


If you start thinking about that with your "deep" hat on, its actually a very good point.

If "the glass" is all the postivie possibilities in life, like being a millionaire, being hung like chip, having an awesome car, having a few fit randy birds around you etc

Then i think he has a point, because the glass is bigger than it needs to be, you dont need all of that in your life to be happy, and thats the problem people dont actually realise that the bit at the top of the glass thats missing isnt actually needed anyway, its only the lemonade in lifes shandy, and so long as you have the beer (your health, your family and a couple of good mates) nothing else is actually important anyway.

Most of the people i know who are unhappy about things are unhappy about things that i personally think are just a fucking waste of time anyway!

Stu @ M Developments

iTrader: (12)

I would say that is a pretty fair assumption old Chipper

Lou Lou.

Well said Chip

BlueSmoke

Fair play Chip, I like that

As I say, the only thing I'm really bothered about now is the loneliness factor

Just don't like having nobody to spend time with on a week night

Everything else I can deal with

And just for the record, I would have married Lalia, the french chick, in an instant before she did what she did

Anonymous

Jay, i agree on the loneliness thing, thats the ONLY thing you actually have worth worrying about, but im sure it will sort itself out, and if not, lean on your mates a bit more for company, IME its impossible to feel lonely and miss having a bird around at the same time as chatting to one of my mates, even if its only on the phone.

In fact on the subject of phones, PM me your number mate as just realised i havent got it (assuming your new phone will be on the same number?)

BlueSmoke

Yeah I don't feel so bad if I'm out having a drink withf riends. It's when I'm sat in my bastid house on my own thinking "I have absolutely NOTHING to do...... I hate being alone like this" that it hits me.

an't go out drinking every night to cover that over

I did try...

Anonymous

Phone a friend?
Internet?
Pop round a mates house?
Have a wank?

Or do the whole lot, go round a mates house and knock one out in front of his PC while you talk to some bird on the phone

BlueSmoke

I knocked one out on the plane to Tenerife. Joined the mile high club with myself

PM sent

Stu @ M Developments

iTrader: (12)

At least you will be happy on Boxing day

BlueSmoke

Certainly will Stu-pot. It should be a good night

Anonymous

Gutted its so far from me, just cant justify coming along

Have a good one without me, dont worry about me, i will cope somehow

BlueSmoke

Sure you can't do it mate? Had a right laugh with you last time and it won't be the same

Anonymous

Ive got family stuff im obligated to that date im afraid mate, and then its a 4 hour drive or so, its just not going to be an option for that reason, plus its going to be the best night for the car meeting locally over xmas break, and also if i dont come my 3door will be back on the road by that night hopefully.

BlueSmoke

Fair enough mate. I'll be sure to text you and let you know what a great time you're missing out on if I have a phone that works

Anonymous

Damo V

BlueSmoke

With the greatest respect mate, do you use Dope/marijuana/canabis/weed?

BlueSmoke

No, never pal

Damo V

Perhaps you should then


No seriously If you had said yes I wouldve suggested laying off it, as I know in some instances it can bring on bouts of depression etc

BlueSmoke

Aye I was sure you were going that way. I think I have that SAD thing tho to be honest. I always feel great in summer, like I can turn my life around etc lol

MikeR

Jay it is all relative mate,

I have had what i consider to be very bad years but i am sure in other peoples minds they would consider them to be great years.

Always try to be positive, and rememeber you can achive what ever you put your mind to, because if somebody else can do it so can you. The right person always comes along when you least expect her or him if thats your gig.


Just my opinion


Mike

Nicole

Jay, see your other topic for a giggle at Stu's expense....

petermintrst

Well, this is an interesting thread.

Have a pal that lost his mum to cancer and baby to drowning, that all happened last yr. 2005 has been suicide watch but there u go

At least u actually had a girl to lose in 2005.

I sound as if im having a go. Things that go wrong are all relative but as long as u have your health then ALL others aspects can be worked on and sorted.

But, hope things start looking up for u as i do for everyone if they have had a crap time this yr

BlueSmoke

That's shit mate

As you say it's relative. You can only judge good and bad by your own experiences.

petermintrst

yes mate, it wasnt good. since then i have always attempted to look on bright side as compared to that what has happened to me is minimal.

i keep having people smashing into my cars and i keep putting weight on and i keep quitting and starting smoking again but nowt bad.

its funny, but sort of relate to your state of mind at times. it does just seem to get too much even though in reality its not the end of the world.

im just seeing the yrs rolling on by and im still the same thing day in day out yr in yr out