Huggy Bear

just seen a gay kiss on emerdale WTF . not prejudiced but how do i explain to my 5 year old daughter about two men kissing. thought there was a watershed time on tv.

Martin-Hadland

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saw it too

Anonymous

...i wouldnt worry Huggy Bear its unlikely that daughter is yours

Pete.W

who was it ??!!!

Beach

You have a point there must be quite awkward

Huggy Bear

well she certainly isnt yours you dog fucking pervert

XRdodgybird

Damo V

With the greatest respect... why does a "Gay" kiiss need to be after a watershed, but a "normal" kiss is ok to be on before


Dunno what you will tell your daughter though sorry...

Anonymous

Can we have proof like a birth certificate?Or maybe her holding up a sign with "Huggy Bear is my Daddy it just wernt his sperm"

JamesH

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Totally agree

Stavros

they only kissed, its not like they was sucking each other off FFS

RichardPON

Right, that should liven up the debate!

Hob Nobs!

andyhardy

Just tell your daughter that they're the kind of men she'll be able to rely on for fashion advice when she's older

Stavros

is that some kind of gay slang?

MikeR

This is a dicy situtation i can se your point what do you tell your daughter but then there is the other argument about it is 2005 and all,

Out of pure curiosity are there any fudgeys that use PF ?


Mike

Pete.W

yes i'll let someone else say their name

andyhardy

I was wondering this too - just out of curiosity of course, honest!

Damo V

Damo V

TBH when I was 5 years old I would've been in bed HOURS ago maybe that expalins my disturbed nature

Rich_w

What would you tell her if 2 girls were kissing?*

And why are you watching Emerdale Farm anyway? Are you trying to tell us something


Oh and yes there are "fudgys" on Passion Ford. Though I bet you probably cant guess who they are as they dont act in the stereo typical way of mincing about. They are just car enthusiasts. And dont feel the need to announce their sexuality as its got fuck all to do with anything!

HTH


* EDIT
Actually you should tell her that if her and her mate do this when they are 18-21 Men will do ANYTHING for them

MikeR

I am well aware it has fuck all to do with me or anybody else for that matter but it was just a question and if it is not a problem then what is the problem in asking it

mike

SteveB

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If it were my 6 year old daughter (or even my 9 year old) asking me i'd tell her.....

"they both prefer men to women and when you are older you'll understand"

AlexF

so flocking right!!


Well said


Alex

AlexF

The problem is its offensive....

Graceland

oh dear

The Sludge

it is a hard one i guess.

i buy the sun paper evry day. Only day my lad sees me with it is a wednesday as its my day off. i go to papershop and then take him to school. my lad is 7 and he now says to me dad, have you bought that paper to see the tits

thing is i reckon in this day and age is to not deny or hide anything at all. What we DONT tell em in terms of the truth as parents will only be brought out in truth at school vy their mates etc thus causing more grief for our childrenif we try to hide stuff if that makes sense???

Alan s1

well said imo

ps Alex caim down i think it was a "frendly" post on whys/how to explane whot his littlen had seen ect if she asked tbh i would'nt have been able to of think/put it better then Sludge did

The Sludge

thanks matey

i think we all need to be aware of stuff. I mean was we all that naive at the age of 13 or under we didnt know what a blow job was?

Alan s1

[quote="the sludge"]thanks matey

i think we all need to be aware of stuff. I mean was we all that naive at the age of 13 or under we didnt know what a blow job was?[/quote]

Whots one of them

The Sludge

i say that to me missus quite often recently

aduz

if she is only 5 then tell her anything

BlueSmoke

gurnE

I'm with Damo & Smidsy. How is a homosexual kiss any different to a heterosexual one?

With regard to what you tell you kids. If they too young to understand, tell them any old bullshit, if they old enough to understand explain the concept to them.
They will have to learn sometime.

Can't believe it's taken so long tbh, how long did we have the first pre watershed lesbian kiss?

THEYGOTMETOO

Too long


Seriously though even thinking about two blokes kissing turns my stomach, sorry just does... not homophobic or anything like that but it doesn't mean I want to see to blokes swapping spit..(not like I watch Emmerdale, but I could have seen it by accident!)

AlexF

lol was that said in a certain accent alan?

Alex

Paddy

Tell her the truth, just like some people like different types of food or colours or TV programmes, some men prefer men and some women prefer women.

My nephew is 4 and he calls me "Gayboy" all the time, I had a bird with me last time he was at my house and she said "That's not very nice, do you know what it means?" he said "Yeah he kisses other boys" he hit her with his home made lightsabre and ran off

Needless to say I still got the root with the bird

RSKim

I think personaly you'll do more harm than good lying to her, yes its hard to explain but its gota be done at some point, what you gonna do when she starts asking you about sex or something along them lines, coz I dont reckon thats too far away, its exactly the same ??

My parents never hid anything from me, and to be honest they did right, I got to learn the truth about everything, instead of having my head filled with bullshit from other kids, like most youngsters do, even at 5 year old, kids DO talk about this stuff at school and in the playgroud, thats life if I were you Id be more bothered about making sure my kid knew the truth

AlexF

Paddy are you gay?

I've been meaning to ask for ages





Alex

andyescos

I've had my suspicions!lol.