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Old 07-04-2005, 11:04 AM
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been together for 9 years! And last night she packed her bags and left.

How shit do i feel!
Old 07-04-2005, 11:05 AM
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Shit news mate! know how it feels!

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shit mate that ain't good, been with my missus 9 years and couldn't imagine how it would feel without her

Was it an amicable split?
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Gutted for you mate, been there and done that in the past myself, crying myself to sleep every night etc. (i actually had feelings once upon a time)

Thats kind of why im the way I am now instead.


Best way to get over the last one is to get under the next one mate.
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Originally Posted by Wes RS
shit mate that ain't good, been with my missus 9 years and couldn't imagine how it would feel without her

Was it an amicable split?
Yes it was
Old 07-04-2005, 11:07 AM
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sorry to hear that mate
Old 07-04-2005, 11:08 AM
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sorry to hear that mate,split up with my missus in jan after 4 years so I
know what your going through and it aint nice

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Not as bad as it could be then mate, but still bad enough
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Hope you came down her throat as she was leaving so that if she was off to see another bloke straight away you could smile knowing she was going to kiss him to say hello.
Old 07-04-2005, 11:08 AM
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Gutted for you mate

This stuff sucks big time. Given time though you will get over it and move on. Just need the suport of your friends.
Old 07-04-2005, 11:09 AM
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Gutted
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Bad News mate......

Been thru it myself over the last few months, chin up mate it will all work out
o.k in the end......

Al....
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Sorry to hear mate, At least chelsea won!!
Old 07-04-2005, 11:13 AM
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if she only packed her bags and left in aint too bad mate, its when they take half your house and car that its a real pisser
Old 07-04-2005, 11:16 AM
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Sorry to hear that mate - me & the wife split up a while ago so i know exactly how you feel
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Cheers for the coments everyone, makes me feel a little better. true chelsea did win although i missed the end as we were talking at the time
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bit inconsiderate leaving on champions league quarter final night.

some women just dont think.
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Originally Posted by RSCAT
bit inconsiderate leaving on champions league quarter final night.

some women just dont think.
She could've waited until the end of the game
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Does she have any financial interest in the house or anything?
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Originally Posted by chip-3door
Does she have any financial interest in the house or anything?
No the house is mine.
Old 07-04-2005, 11:27 AM
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How long has she lived in it?

did she have it as her official address, did she pay bills, did you have a joint account?

mate of mine had his own house, got with his bird, she fooked off and left him years later, and got awarded half the equity, by which point the house has now gone up in value so much that on his wages he probably cant afford the mortgage on it now after paying her half the equity so will probably lose the house.

charming some of these birds!
Old 07-04-2005, 11:28 AM
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Shitter mate,

You still got yer cossy, yer friends and of course yourself chin up
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Originally Posted by chip-3door
How long has she lived in it?

did she have it as her official address, did she pay bills, did you have a joint account?

mate of mine had his own house, got with his bird, she fooked off and left him years later, and got awarded half the equity, by which point the house has now gone up in value so much that on his wages he probably cant afford the mortgage on it now after paying her half the equity so will probably lose the house.

charming some of these birds!
Thers no problem there, shes not that way inclined, we split 4 years ago and that time the house was ours and she just signed it over to me, thats the way she is
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Originally Posted by Chipperx2
Shitter mate,

You still got yer cossy, yer friends and of course yourself chin up
Have to rework my finances but should be able to keep the car
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gutted for ya mate - hope it all works out in the end.
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Originally Posted by B11GNS
Originally Posted by Chipperx2
Shitter mate,

You still got yer cossy, yer friends and of course yourself chin up
Have to rework my finances but should be able to keep the car
and Make sure you do mate she looks a minter
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Originally Posted by B11GNS
Originally Posted by chip-3door
How long has she lived in it?

did she have it as her official address, did she pay bills, did you have a joint account?

mate of mine had his own house, got with his bird, she fooked off and left him years later, and got awarded half the equity, by which point the house has now gone up in value so much that on his wages he probably cant afford the mortgage on it now after paying her half the equity so will probably lose the house.

charming some of these birds!
Thers no problem there, shes not that way inclined, we split 4 years ago and that time the house was ours and she just signed it over to me, thats the way she is

Ah nice one, fair play to you for finding one like that in the first place mate!


































so whats her number?
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chin up mate



sorry to hear it tho
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Originally Posted by Chipperx2
Originally Posted by B11GNS
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Shitter mate,

You still got yer cossy, yer friends and of course yourself chin up
Have to rework my finances but should be able to keep the car
and Make sure you do mate she looks a minter
she is

@ chip 3-door
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Fook it, cossie still there so bollox, chin up
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Been through this too this year.

Just think mate - loads of shows to go to, get a few beers in with the lads too, and then watch Chelsea lose the Champions League final
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Still got the house and motor mate. Get back on the scene - plenty of women out there, not many 3dr Cossies.....
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sorry to hear that.
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Originally Posted by RSKieron
Still got the house and motor mate. Get back on the scene - plenty of women out there, not many 3dr Cossies.....
True but the sad thing is i'd give them both up for her
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Originally Posted by RSKieron
Still got the house and motor mate. Get back on the scene - plenty of women out there, not many 3dr Cossies.....
Fair point
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Chelsea lose the Champions League final
No chance of that, at least my team's winning and they wont let me down
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Originally Posted by B11GNS
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Still got the house and motor mate. Get back on the scene - plenty of women out there, not many 3dr Cossies.....
True but the sad thing is i'd give them both up for her
Yeah, I can imagine mate. Been there myself. Just have to tell yourself that she wasn't "The One" and that it's just a chapter closing in your life. New chapter starts today mate.

As somebody once told me, breaking up and then making up with a girl is like dropping a vase - you can glue it back together but you will always see the cracks.....

Or......

If you want her back then don't chase her - when you chase a dog in the park it runs away from you, but if you walk away from it it'll follow you....

Not that the missus was a dog or anything!!

I'd get back out there mate, come over to Blackpool - we'll show you a good time up here!
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Originally Posted by B11GNS
Originally Posted by RSKieron
Still got the house and motor mate. Get back on the scene - plenty of women out there, not many 3dr Cossies.....
True but the sad thing is i'd give them both up for her
Oh dear mate, thats not good, ive felt like that before as well.

Sometimes you just meet one person who you get on so well with that nothing else seems to matter

Trouble is if she doesnt feel the same (which she obviously doesnt) then its all a bit pointless.

Still, seeing as you have been through it with her before, should be easier this time i guess, although ive split with my current bird about 3 or 4 times now and its hurt a fair bit the first couple of times, now if it happens i just think "silly bint, ill see you in 6 months when you realise you cant live without me anymore than i can without you!"

Maybe if thats the case she will be back?
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sorry to hear it fella went thru it b4 xmas everyone told me chin up someone better out there etc and i didnt belive em but it was true!!! i was completely devastated but its amazing how quickly u do get over someone good luck mate
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Originally Posted by RSKieron
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Still got the house and motor mate. Get back on the scene - plenty of women out there, not many 3dr Cossies.....
True but the sad thing is i'd give them both up for her
Yeah, I can imagine mate. Been there myself. Just have to tell yourself that she wasn't "The One" and that it's just a chapter closing in your life. New chapter starts today mate.

As somebody once told me, breaking up and then making up with a girl is like dropping a vase - you can glue it back together but you will always see the cracks.....

Or......

If you want her back then don't chase her - when you chase a dog in the park it runs away from you, but if you walk away from it it'll follow you....

Not that the missus was a dog or anything!!

I'd get back out there mate, come over to Blackpool - we'll show you a good time up here!
cheers m8, some good points there


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