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Old 09-02-2011, 08:36 PM
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as above has anyone done it and got away with it or were you caught
Old 09-02-2011, 08:37 PM
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Fook that I cant even go out for a sneaky burger without her finding out
Old 09-02-2011, 08:38 PM
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i come home with alsorts
who wears the trousers guys?
Old 09-02-2011, 08:42 PM
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no i havent and basically know i couldnt lol
Old 09-02-2011, 08:44 PM
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I know of someone who bought a special subaru a few years back, for 20k+, and it was back up for sale a week later, saying the car or wife has to go!
Old 09-02-2011, 08:45 PM
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what you bought james
Old 09-02-2011, 08:48 PM
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Been there done that,been caught out a few times,usually just leads to a huff and a shoulder shrug.
Gods honest truth this,seriously weird situation.
I bought a car years ago and parked it up and forgot about it,from what I can remember it's either a golf or an astra,straight up I don't know what it is,I took it as part of a deal and had so many cars the missus would have flipped so I parked it and left it,somewhere in Swansea!!!
To this day I have no idea where it is or what happened to it,it was back in the days before sorn etc so you could leave cars wherever and just come back to them as long as they weren't getting in peoples way etc.
It was through a mate of a mate type of thing and I remember it being a complete bucket,I dropped it up his yard and just never went back.I couldn't get to the yard again if I tried!!no doubt it was scrapped years ago but a very spooky moment!!!

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Originally Posted by Dicko&Sarah
what you bought james

impossible to say lee
















































because i havent lol

i just though some funny stories might surface lol
Old 09-02-2011, 09:04 PM
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guy i work with bought a subaru about 4 mnths ago and only came clean after him and his missus finished a couple of weeks ago
still wonder if the purchase made up his mind for him
yet its still in the shed as hes only very early 20's and think hes worried about the cost to insure as he still hasnt got any quotes for it
Old 09-02-2011, 09:11 PM
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the misses may moan but she knows she wastes enough cash not to be able to tell me what i can or cant do with my cash.

It is more the case I am to tight to part with my money than not be allowed to.
Old 09-02-2011, 09:18 PM
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I can honestly say I never even think about it, I often buy cars on a whim
Old 09-02-2011, 09:29 PM
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i bought my first cossie the day after i was made redundant to cheer myself up lol , we still have the car aswell 15 years on

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I have arrived at home after work in a new car a few times much to the other halfs dismay.

Cheers Ross.
Old 09-02-2011, 10:17 PM
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yea done it a few times, she never says a word as its my money.

but they are not expensive cars tho.
i still would even if they cost a lot, as long as i can afford them.
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about 9 cosworths i had two in white for a while and she kept asking why i havent been putting it in the garage lol
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i waited for my wife to go on holiday before buying the mondeo and used it to collect her from the airport

but other than the variety i bought back in the day as breakers that i'd dump outside the hosue and merrily strip while my folks went mad about me bringing down the tone of the neighbourhood is countless
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Another question- do you and your partners have seperate money? Ie whata yours is yours and whats hers is hers?
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fuck getting married if its that bad.

If you earn money spend it on what the fuck you want within reason!
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Brought my first ST200 without telling the missus. She only found out when I suggested a shopping trip to the outlet centre in Ashford. When she had finished I told her I had to pop to another place and went got the car.
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Originally Posted by RSLUBBY
about 9 cosworths i had two in white for a while and she kept asking why i havent been putting it in the garage lol

well done lubby ,now thats what im talking about lol

has anyone tried to convince the wife that its your mates car
Old 10-02-2011, 07:54 AM
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dad went out and brought a new mondeo st tdci and my mum dont like driving it lol she wants a fiesta and my dad said get stuffed im having a new van so she kurbed the alloys on the st and my dad wernt happy lol
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Originally Posted by james kiely
well done lubby ,now thats what im talking about lol

has anyone tried to convince the wife that its your mates car
Old 10-02-2011, 07:59 AM
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my ex didnt even notice when i swapped cars!i went from a red s13 200sx to a 4 door magenta bmw 325,i asked what she thought and she said "of what?"lol
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i usually leave pics of it on the desktop etc so she already knows before i suggest it,
have been other times where i.ve bought cars left a deposit and then went and told missus, then you say "ffs i gave a deposit ill lose that if i dont buy it"
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Ive bought a few n not told her either ! she didnt know the difference between my 3 door n saph got away with that bought a nova turbo & kept it at my mums got away with that as well
Old 10-02-2011, 08:18 AM
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I bought my xr2i on ebay, the guy delivered it and I put it straight in the garage! The first she knew was when I was stripping it and bits kept on appearing in the house! She thinks I'm doing it up to sell it!
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My girlfriend always says she doesnt care when I show her cars and ask if shed mind if I bought this one or that one etc, but then moans when I say im getting a car she doesnt like lol, so I told her im just going to get the car I want since she doesnt even drive. I probably wouldnt be getting rid of my RS1800 if it wasnt for her lol
Old 10-02-2011, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted by 1.9 xr2 on 40's
i come home with alsorts
who wears the trousers guys?
same here.
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I told the wife he couldnt have a holiday in September as I was a bit short on spare cash................ then one day turned up in the X5.... Should have seen the face on it hahahahaha.....
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I almost did, I put a 700 quid bid on a Bedford Rascal of all things on eBay when I was pissed, got up the next day and had totally forgotten about it until we were just about to go out, then thought "shit, why the Fuck did I do that?", had to get the missus to show me how to retract the bid, she saw the funny side tho lol
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Originally Posted by R5FORD
Another question- do you and your partners have seperate money? Ie whata yours is yours and whats hers is hers?
hers is hers and mine is mine

but i do pay for the things i want and she pays for the things i want so it's all good
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bought all my cars like that

was on my was on way home and she called saying where the f**k are you?
your trucks here but your not! where are you then?

2 seconds later i was outside in a 500bhp r33 she nearly wee'd she was so excited cus she loves them. she couldnt belive id kept it all a secret.

couple of hours later she said "dev............so what happened to the scoobie you had this morning"
haha eeer sold it cus it was slow lol
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Fuck that, i bought some coilovers a couple of days ago and it nearly ended in divorce. Cant imagine the shit i would get if i bought a complete car
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When I buy car parts or tools, I make sure I am outside washing the car or something when the delivery man comes, "straight in the garage please!"
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I havent but my Dad has done it loads of times, trouble is im starting to turn out like him so it wont be long before im on the slippery slope .

One day we took his dogs for a walk and came back with a Mk3 Granada, we were walking past a farm in Southport and we spotted it poking out the barn covered in dust and bird shit, my old man knocked on the door and the guy said if you can start it you can have it lol.
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no matter what i buy, it's always "free"
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i bought my escos without her in doors knowing lol we were going through a sticky patch at the time.
the bird i bought the car off was a old friend who i'd always had a crush on and my misses at the time knew it.

lets say it didn't help the sticky patch!!!
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i dont tell the wide how much it all cost ie my fiesta cosworth is just a crappy 1.6 that cost £700 and my escort cosworth i paid 1k for

she dont know no different otherwise id have to spend the same on here, so a 15k car would cost me 30k lol
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Im forever buying stuff that the missus has no say in, the first she knows about it is when I tell her not to go out cos im expecting a delivery lol.

Bought the Fiesta with her having no knowledge, came home from working abroad got in the front door, before she could jump me with the usual hugs and kisses I told her to get her coat on cos we were going to pick it up
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Got a L200 warrior, figured it was essential for work. Getting that truck contributed to 20% of my marriage break up. Fortunatly its gone now and I have a ford and we're back togeather again. Happy days. We had seperate money and it didn't work after 6 years. Now she gets it all and I have a secret stash account, she sorts all the bills now and I pay regular trips to Burtons. Figured this works much better.


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