Mr.T

Untill a few weeks ago i had a really close friend. She worked at the same company as i did. The first time i called her we talked more then 1 hour. After that we called more and more. We told our problems to each other etc. She knows everything of me and i from her. Now the past few months it was getting really close. Even know the color dildo she had

Anyway i started at a new trucking company and after a few weeks i asked her to go with me for a week. She said yes and i picked her up on sunday. We had a really nice week. Laughing some serieus conversations but also just nice talks. Anyway there are a few things that happened that week that well....if my own GF knows that i got shot. On the friday we where back in Holland after a week of south germany and she wanted to go home. No biggie there so after loading my trailer i got here home. Had a hug and a little kiss and i went off to home.

That same weekend someone close to her sister died (twins) and i had to call her to know that. The monday after that i called her again and asked how things are going. If she was ok etc. The normal things you ask. She got all pissed off etc etc and that never got normal again. I asked here what ive done wrong and she told me i didn't understood her. I asked to much etc. And then she hung up. Didn't talked to her for 2 weeks. I then crashed my truck but never got the chance to tell her that. Anyway a week or 2 back i got a call and she we had a nice talk. Allmost like everything was ok. I then tried to call her but she didn't awnser and when i send her an sms i never got something back. Few days later i got a phone call from an mate of mine (wich works at the same company as she does) and he told me that she keeps asking him how it goes with me??? Wich is wierd. Why doesnt she just call me?

In that time the company i worked for got bankrupt and it was news in the Transport world here. Anyway got a phone call of my mate again and she still is asking how i am doing etc etc. Wierd thing is she told me that she doesnt want to know me anymore etc. So i never called her but she still keeps asking about my via my mate. Now thats not just wierd but even very irritating as i am trying to forget her. Wich is hard if i keep hearing she asks about me and i keep seeing her on the road.

Wierd thing is. She told me i was her soul mate. Well not for long then i geuss

ProjectBobcat

She probably likes you and is gutted youre still with your girlfriend after what happened with you two.

rog

iTrader: (2)

That's women for you mate......fucked if i know

Mr.T

yes i geuss so. Problem is she was the one to talk to if i had a problem. Didn't matter how late it was. And vica versa. It was the biggest mistake i ever made that i took her with me for that week. She always said she could be her self with me. And that shows cos she had no problem changing clothes in my truck or changing bra's. She got a massage from me etc. She even let my unhook her bra so i can do my job right . But i would never ever leave my own GF for her. I love my gf even with the problems we had. She is my first love i always will be. Even after 13years (with a little break from a day)

Csm

Probably not wanting to let her real feelings out too much matey for the fear of a potential big letdown if your still with your currant partner

Mr.T

i keep hearing that. But she told me she i wasnt her type etc. But she also told me i was the only one she could tell all her secrets to and problems.

Isaac.Hunt

Hold on a second, am I correct in thinking you already have a girlfriend and you are messing about (or at the least clearly have/had some inappropriate relationship) with some other bird from work AND you expect it to be trouble free? If so you are as clever as you are faithful.

Furthermore, if the bird in question is that old Heifer in the photo you posted ... I wouldn't get too pissed off about it, just get yourself along to your local weight watchers meeting - I'm sure there will be an abundance of similarly obese women to pick from.

Paddy

Which one is she?

So your missus doesn't know you've spent a week with another woman unhooking her hammock to grease her down etc.

You said if she finds out you've technically been unfaithful, you'd get shot? Hope she doesn't have a spare harpoon.

Mr.T

Hehe well the one on the pic is the friend. My GF does know she went with me. She even met her. Well there wasnt any sex. We just got to close for just friends.

eoeumc

iTrader: (1)

The texts and calls you send, are they actually her that receives them or is someone else answering or not answering them as the case seems to be?

Mr.T

Doesnt metter how people look mate. Its how they are. As its was just a friend. My own gf looks better. I mean how do you look? Six pack and all?

Mr.T

She is getting them. She told me later. But she didn't wanted to awnser them. I didnt send anymore texts or called her. But even tho she keeps asking my mate about me.

BM08

I knew when i saw your name that the reply was going to be funny as hell, all be it abit harsh

BM08

Thats what id say too

eoeumc

iTrader: (1)

Tell your mate to tell her to either contact you direct or arrange to meet her at some where neutral, but get your mate to tell her when and where.
If that don't work then tell your mate not to tell you if she asks after you.

xHayleyx

Yeah thats not just being good mates with some one if you done something you shouldnt have.. soon as you overstepped that mark thats wen things went tits up because she may have possibly thought more was gonna happen. besides you cant take another woman away for a week if your already spoken for.. even if you are 'good friends' ... i mean massages unhookin bra's surely your missus wouldnt agree with that,, and i wouldnt blame her. so technicly you've been unfaithful ...

Mr.T

Yes about the unfaithful part i disagree. But the rest i think you are right. But its to late for that. Before it all happened it sounded like a good idea. We are both drivers etc. But after that week i could shoot myself for taking her with me. Was just one step to far i geuss.

BM08

I didnt read all your replys until i read hayleys and realised what else you have said.

You have been unfaithful, pure and simple, i dont feel sorry for the loss of your good friend at all, i just feel sorry for your GF.

If you really love your gf then dont piss about with other women

Mr.T

Wasnt planned to. It just well...happend. After that week everything cooled down and i know now it will never happen again. Even after 13yrs i love my own gf. But there are just some things i can't talk about with her. Happend some sick shit when i was young and when i start about it she just starts crying.

It's Czech Mate

Clearly she fancies your mate who she keeps asking about you

Mr.T

my mate allready told her to or phone me or stop asking. Since then she doesnt call him that much

escort_2f2f

Looking at it, people have already said, she fancies you but cant express because of fear of being knocked back and obviously your already with someone.

Makes me glad I am gay, most women are head fucks. lol.

BM08

Then maybe you should dive in the deep end and send her a text saying sorry if you thought more would happen, i think i over stepped the mark and led you on etc etc, if she doesnt want to be mates after that then you know you were right, if you were wrong and she still doesnt talk, well at least you tried, you lost nothing.

If she comes round then tell her you made a big mistake and it cant happen again, and that you will just be friends, not touchy feely buddys

furqall

i wouldnt worry about it mate she's a munter anyway

Mr.T

Allready told her i love my own gf. And i don't fancy her.

Mr.T

don't know about being gay mate. I think some men can be fucked up to.

Mr.T

allready said before... Doesnt matter how people look like its how they are. You will realize that when you have a GF for a couple of years. I have mine for 13. And believe me there are better ones in looks but doesnt make her less of a GF.

xHayleyx

+1

x

It's Czech Mate

Yeah fucked up the ass......hence they gayness

It's Czech Mate

Dont see the problem then, you have a munting friend who behaved inappropriately whe she knew you ha da girlfriend whom you love, and you're complaining she doesnt talk to you anymore

Fucking result IMO

Mr.T

you're prob right But then again. Its wierd how someone can be your best friend the other day and 24hr later she is a totall diff person

Mr.T

you don't have to be gay to get fucked in the ass

xHayleyx

does this mean ur hintin u done it!
pmsl!
x

It's Czech Mate

She strapon-ed him in the cab when they were away together

xHayleyx

we shouldnt laugh lol
x

Mr.T

why not? you can cry about it but doesnt make things better

Mr.T

So you know how it works then? Didn't know you liked strap on's

xHayleyx

its your problem nnot mine im in no position to laugh!
x

Mr.T

well i'll live. There is more in life then just one girl tho. I have a nice job,house and a sweet son. Wich can be a real pain sometimes And those are the good things in live

It's Czech Mate

So you must like the bum fun as well then