I'm thinking you trust too easily. You say he's an honest bloke but yet he's trying to stick a tail in some other girl on here
In fairness tho you dont seem pissed off about it. Most birds would be losing the plot at this stage

 

proof part 1!
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hiya noticed your from weston, not far from me. you in any local car clubs. I am in weston quite often working etc at night, what do you drive etc.
x tom

no not in any car clubs, i have a 09 plate focus cc4 2.0i 16v. its lush been saving for ages for it, just right for me and the kids haha! oh right cool where do you work? i dont go out much in weston to busy with the kids.

thanks for messenging me

katie


I work for Reliance security, i lock the gates at flowerdown and weston retail park, i am down that way tonight. I have a 2003 focus st170, i love it to bits, it goes like a rocket lol. how many kids you got
x

thats cool, i dont live far from flowerdown, near tesco express. cool a st170 my ex had one of them. i have 2 kids, 1 boy who is 3 and half and a little girl who is 5 weeks. so still tiny. how about your self?

xx

I dont have any children, i live in whitchurch in bristol, recently moved back to my mums house after a real shitty break up with from my ex, basically i did not love her and ended up hating her guts so i ended it but she would not let go now and made my life absolute hell but now 5 months on she has finally left me alone lol, bloody mad really cause if i thought my partner never loved me i would not fight for her if they was not interested but she thought by making things hard for me i would go back to her but it made me hate her more lol.
x

 

part 2
thats well mad! some woman really give the rest of us a bad name. my ex is a complete physco! but hes locked up now n guna be there a long time, thank god. so now im just getting on with looking after the kids and myself, man free i think for a while! how about your self? ay special ladys in your life? been a bit nosey and seen a few lovey messages on here of sum girl, she ur girlfriend or a stalker? hehe

do you enjoy your job? im not sure if i will be going back to work at the moment, but as im self employed i should sort some thing out. im a freelance health and safety officer.

xx

between me and you i am seeing her and have been for about 6 weeks, (known her quite a while before that to) but she is a bit of a bunny boiler, i signed up to this forum to have a laugh etc and soon as she found out i was on here, she joined to, shes a nice girl but after that recent crap i like a bit of space to do my own thing, went to castle coombe saturday to watch the racing and did not mind her coming but its usually a thing i do with my friends but im to kind and when she asked if she come i could hardly say no lol. i dont think it is going to laugh and to be honest i dont think at this moment in time i dont really want it to. everything moving to fast with her, 3 weeks after we got together she gave me a key to her house etc. but like i said i am to soft and just go along with it as i dont want to upset her, the even harder thing is her ex is a friend of mine who i work with to and i dont like living a lie so keeping it from him is hard to cause being a friend i used to talk about everything with him but i cant no more. whats more what kind of friend am i to him to start seeing his ex behind his back lol, iam seriously considering ending it with her because i want a causl relationship with someone where there is no lies and i can feel happy and not feel like i have to lie to her to spend time with my friends (which is rare as i dont socialise much anymore, just work alot lol). i am not a sex freak i like to sit and cuddle in front of tv just as much as shagging lol. Even though we been together the time we have i still have not slept with her, i told her i dont want to rush things but the truth is i dont want to sleep with her because i am not sure what i want lol. personally i am just as happy being good friends with a woman than being in relationships. i love my car though lmao. my exes ex was in prison and i caught her writing him letters telling him she was still in love with him etc lol.
x


well i guess u cant help who u fall for if its a mates ex or what. as for they key be honest with her if its to fast maybe she thought it was a nice thing to do, means she trusts you. are you attracted to her? if you not then maybe thats why you dont want to sleep with her. you have to be honest with her, it not fair on either of you.

x

i do find her attaractive but something still dont feel right, we spoke about it last night and agreed to slow stuff down and she is having key back. probably going to end it soon though cause not ready for what she wants.
anyway how are you today, you up to much
xx

im not doing much i had to take my little girl to be weighed and thats about it, how about your self?

if you had a bad experience with your ex then are you sure your not trying to talk your self out of a relationship, as you must of thought she was worth it as she is your mates ex. my advice would be to not rush into ending it and be honest about how you feel. but if you really dont fancy her then it would be best to end it.

Also just re-read a message, you went to castle coombe? and she went with you. although i love my car and always loved cars but a day at the race track, sorry not my cup of tea. do you think she went with you to just spend time with you or do she like the same sort of things you do?

my ex we had nothing in common and at first it was fun as we both tried to get the other to like what we were doing, but it did not work, i just want someone now who likes the same things i do and for me to like the thing he does.

sorry if this sounds like a rant, but im most peoples sounding board for relationship problems, which i dont mind as it just shows me what i need to do in one! hehe

hope you have a good day

xx

seriously I am not bored, I am genuinly not ready for a relationship full time, but i am not looking for a fuck buddie either, at first i thought she was what i wanted but the last few weeks i have realised that i just want friends in my life, her included but dont want a relationship, i have been in full time relatioships since i was 17 and am now 24 and I have not had time to do my one real hobby, cars lol, driving them, modifying (no tacky bodykits though, tuning etc only lol) and watching them crash at castle coombe. when i was 17 i was living with a 34 year old woman, she asked me to marry her the lot and i thought it was great but 18 months later i realised she was a raving loony lol,then was with my first real love for 3 years and we split because she refused to move out of her parents house and even though we were engaged etc because i was not ready to change jobs at the time and work nights she refused to live with me as she did not want to be home alone, i kind of understood but from the day she said that it went down hill and i made the decision to move on as i wanted to be with someone who wanted me. then there was terri the absolute psycho, then Lynette (my high school seetheart we tried again recently but she ended it as i was not willing to quit my job on nights after only being with her for 2 weeks lmao. now joy, but i cant help thinking i wanna do myown thing for a while, i have a low sex drive so not bothered about that either but she does not understand that. i am off to work now, chat later
x

 

" basically i did not love her and ended up hating her guts so i ended it but she would not let go now and made my life absolute hell but now 5 months on she has finally left me alone lol, bloody mad really cause if i thought my partner never loved me i would not fight for her if they was not interested but she thought by making things hard for me i would go back to her but it made me hate her more lol."


OMG

this just got sooooo much more interesting!!!!


" but she is a bit of a bunny boiler," is even better,

Hob Nobs anyone???

 

just got up and showered, dressed etc, leave for work in about 15 mins, i completly understand about the ex situation, i changed my number 3 times since i left terri in april , its lovely now she has given up trying though.
its hard to give someone your trust after bad experience lol. anyway, i am in weston mon- fri next week so if the kids can sleep one evening or something and your bored then give me a text and your welcome to come to flowerdown and say hi lol.

anyway gotta sort my hair and brush my teeth, speak later
xx
tom

 

i dont think i could as i dont have anyone to watch the kids, and to be honest should you be asking to meet a woman when your with someone? even it would be innocent. with everything you have been through to be honest you should give your gf that respect. sorry if that sounds harsh but im very big on respect and trust.

do hope you have an exciting time at work? do you work every night? it seems like it. how do have time for a social life?

katie
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I dont have a social life lol, i understand, dont worry i am not trying to get into your knickers , I am not the kind of guy, just be mates thats all, I respect women more than myself thats why i am in the position im in.
was a boring night but did find a girl who had crashed her moped laid on floor injured in bristol poor girl was in agony, got her sorted with first aid etc.
off to bed now, speak later
tom
x

 

Hi hun, hows things going
I finished it with her in the end, so a single guy now, been to castle coombe again today watching the racing, it was bril
xx


THERE DONE, NOW STOP SAYING IM MAKING IT UP!

 

wooooooooooaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh

 

hahahahahaha how about big upping yourself?

There was a post here about how the mcdonalds manager dealt with it and NOT him lol

 

Bitch fight???

 

what the fuck!

i think its strange how, recently me n my ex both had our facebook accounts hacked! and now this shit!

 

"I have a 2003 focus st170, i love it to bits, it goes like a rocket"

 

ok now im pissed right off!

u r right i trust 2 easy!

 

way too much info in them conversations to be hacked Facebook acounts.

 

The shit has hit the fan now..!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cant see this ending well

 

I've been feeling really sad lately, especially now Maria has rejected me(not that she ever accepted me!), I find myself single again, just looking for a decent honest girl to be friends with for walks on the beach etc, I promise to respect you in the morning, I'm not like the others!!
tabetha

 

This sounds like some of the shit you'd hear on Road Wars, where the dregs of society fall out because their partner did such and such a thing.

I specifically like the bit which says your ex is locked up. Sounds like a lovely fucking situation!

 

I thought that too ( apart from the confirmed friend comment making it obvous)

Blokes are just as bad as women, the only difference is, there's more blokes on here than women, so the moans are always going to be more from the blokes.

 

go round drag him out of bed and slap him like a real physco woman would

 

Most men would bang anything, look at the welsh with sheep for example, just no standards these days.
tabetha

 

 

I'll pimp my sister out to you? £25 a night - Mates rates

 

you could steal his padlocks... that'll piss him off

 

right,both you ladies need a decent man,so if you both pm me your pics ill decide which one of you is worth the drive down and fuel money

 

told ya... its gonna go tits up big styleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

 

whats the point least i know how he does actually feel about me now.
only reason i gave him a key is cus he works nights and he used to come roud sumtimes in the morning, so instead of me having 2 get up at 6 2 let him in or leave a key outside, thought it was an easier option. ok i c now yeah maybe bit soon, but he did'nt have 2 take it.

 

to be fair the other girl could have pm'd you them msgs instead of putting them on here,but then again he shouldnt be slagging you off to some one he doesnt know.

this sort of thing always bites you in the arse.

 

Can you 2 just get pics up of each other now please ? so we can all see what the fuss is about.




Boobs out would be good, and if you decide to meet each other to sort this out and you become very goods friends can you send some footage my way please.



Thankyou

 

 

girl for it
Why is your ex locked up? Is he the father of your 5 week old child? Classy

 

yeah she could of pm'd me, now im made out to be a complete nut case 2 a bunch of strangers. this year has been a total shit 1!

 

Hope it gets better for you

 

So why does this "nice guy" think your a bunny boiler?

 

i duno, thats sumthing only he can answer!

thats it though now, im done with relationships. iv got my little girl 2 keep me happy, that will be more than enough 4 me.

theres always ann summers for the rest! lmao

 

 

Ill drop you a pm

Joking

 

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