So ****** off what do I do
31-05-2009, 08:29 PM
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Why didn't you just wash your hands and take the baby? Thing to consider is that she may realize that she's better off without you, best get grovelling sunshine 
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31-05-2009, 08:31 PM
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theres plenty in that sort of trouble just now, theres no shame in it just got to get by the best you can just now until things pick up again.
31-05-2009, 09:56 PM
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Lol my thoughts exactly. You only live once, and I know what I'd rather have. I'd happily scrap my car tomorrow if I could have my ex back in return, but unfotunately I behaved like too much of a twat and it's too late.
Don't let the same happen to you, especially since you have kids together.
Don't let the same happen to you, especially since you have kids together.
31-05-2009, 10:05 PM
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Why didnt you say, "i'll just go wash me hands" then come pick the baby up??
Sounds like shes a bit of a moody/emotional one. Try talking!!!
in the morning you better get down the bank and rape the joint account for all the money you need to pay the household bills this month as knowing woman, she'll spend every penny to get back at you, not realising that shes spending some of the money shed need for her kids and especially if she comes back, not realising shes fucked up your finances for the month or two all because stupid woman cant seem to control themselves when acting emotionally and do such things!!!
Oh and of course despite her spending all the money, it will still be YOUR fault
are you married?? if so and you divorce, she will file to get the car, just to spite you.
Sounds like shes a bit of a moody/emotional one. Try talking!!!
and especially if she comes back, not realising shes fucked up your finances for the month or two all because stupid woman cant seem to control themselves when acting emotionally and do such things!!!Oh and of course despite her spending all the money, it will still be YOUR fault
are you married?? if so and you divorce, she will file to get the car, just to spite you.
31-05-2009, 10:15 PM
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its horrible when the kids get dragged into the situation, i havnt read the whole thread so if its been said already then ignore, but how was the relationship before this ?
if it was good then try and sort things out, not just for the sake of your relationship but for the kids, dont let them get in the middle of it neither, if you end up going your separate ways, try and stay friendly and sort out times you can have the kids, its much better than going through the system/csa ect
feel for you mate, i would hate it if i had kids and they got taken away from me, do the best for your family, im sure you will
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if it was good then try and sort things out, not just for the sake of your relationship but for the kids, dont let them get in the middle of it neither, if you end up going your separate ways, try and stay friendly and sort out times you can have the kids, its much better than going through the system/csa ect
feel for you mate, i would hate it if i had kids and they got taken away from me, do the best for your family, im sure you will
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01-06-2009, 05:12 AM
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If you grovel she will play on this and have demands. Her feelings haven't gone anywhere, they don't dissapear over night. If I was you I'd leave it to cool off, she'll wonder why you haven't grovelled and phone you. You seem like a nice man, who puts the her first. However, she is jealous. A man needs his own things, or he will crack up.
Now here's my none sensible advice, which I'd never advise. When she phones up tell her to ring back later, as you are busy fixing the car.
All the best - Benni.
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01-06-2009, 11:00 AM
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01-06-2009, 03:25 PM
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01-06-2009, 03:27 PM
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woohoo great news mate!!!! reading some of ur comments,me and my missus are similar,always arguin over stupid things,and money is well tight 4 us at the moment to.after so many arguements weve had we worked out that we need to comprimise.i needed to help her with the kids more,and she also had to let me have time for myself/eg the car.hopefully has tought u both some stuff,and reckon youl all be good now.well done m8
01-06-2009, 04:52 PM
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We had a argument today cos I couldnt pick the baby up hands plastered in oil and shit
So she kicked off big so I kicked off BIGGER then shes talking shit I care more about the cossie than the family
Ok if thats the case then why do you 3 sleep in the house and the car lives on the road she didnt see the funny side then things got proper fucked up
You know trading insults etc things got said that werent meant and now we our at this stage
So she kicked off big so I kicked off BIGGER then shes talking shit I care more about the cossie than the family
Ok if thats the case then why do you 3 sleep in the house and the car lives on the road she didnt see the funny side then things got proper fucked up
You know trading insults etc things got said that werent meant and now we our at this stage
Well Barry you aint on your own bud my wife complains because i throw £££££s
at my cars and trys to say that aswell but here is something i say i dont know if your the sam bud i would rather have something to show for my money i only drink once a week only 1 time durring the week when lost my gran
i dont gamble at the bookies or football i only spend on cars and my kids
my wife asked me her or my car...... i told her you aint going to like the answer so dont aski sold my bmw and went and spent it on my escosdont worry bud as stated above she will be back no need for argueing over this especaily if you have a kid or kids and been toghther along timekeep your chin up bud as stated above keep it cool dont loose your head it the worst thing you can do
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