The Sludge

anyone fear it?

I didnt really until recently........i just find days go so very quickly and stuff and i suppose its the fact that you leave someone behind you really love, as indeed i do, or they leave you behind......then theres emptiness....i think as long as i have a good innings in life i think ill be okay lol but i kind of get paranoid now ie what if i do this, what i do this, i get a tad paranoid being in cars with other people etc etc
or is it just me?

Dangerous Malcolm..

I was always so scared of dying, thinking I have to live to at least 60 to get me moneys worth. I'm not too fussed anymore, as long as it's quick.

Madbradz

I didn't used to care.... Took silly risks never was afraid of dying....

Until I met my partner who has changed my life, really has changed my view on how valuable every day is.

boothy

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yeh me to couldnt give a fuck. at the min would do me a favour..........

james kiely

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as long as i leave something for my wife and kids i dont mind it

JTECH James

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i could do with a sleep in

matts1

never cared until I was walking to the docs fearing I had testicular cancer!!

Was thinking, please god let me be ok.

After five minutes of having maggie thatchers look a like stroke and fondle my balls I was told they are fine, after that I always had a bigger respect for life.

Think when I have kids it will also have a bigger part in how you live your life.

dovboy

if i'm 80 ,got home from a good sesh at the pub and float off in my sleep! then no.

all other scinarios(sp) then... well... no too,there is nothing i can do about it so why fear it.

i'm off to heaven anyway


and yes matt kids change things LOTS.

The Sludge

i think thats what has hit the nail on the head for me also if im honest

xr_craig

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I don't fear my own death at all but i do appreciate life.

However, i do fear those that i love dying/suffering in anyway. And also forgetting those i love.

mrjenrst

it's gonna happen so fuck it, enjoy life.
I'd rather die at 40 and had a good life then die at 80 and it been bland.

Either way i'm not welcome up there and him down there thinks i'm gonna take over

dovboy

thats what i thought untill i hit 30(32 now) and thought "wait a min i was 20 about 2years ago,fuk i will be 40 soon!!"

Psycho Warren

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I used to fear death as a child but dont now.

Id say theres 2 kinds of fear of death, concious fear and the inbuilt survival instinct.

Its very hard to overcome your survival instinct except during serious mental illness, but it is easy to consiuosly not to fear death. eg suicidal thoughts etc

Ad4m RST

Thats some concise shit...

Been liberated just by properly knowing everyones a products of them and theirs, easy concept but very easy to overlook. Long as your humble across the board lifes as long as it's gonna be IMO.

And yeah FAR too short so just aim above anything you thinks possible and live it, won't get any jump up's or favours generic as that sounds. Can imagine what kids can bring to your life now....

Thrush

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Not afraid of death in the slightest. If it comes tomorrow then so be it. If it comes in 60yrs, then thats how it's supposed to be... So absolutely no fear of death, or when I'll die, at all...

Dying on the other hand - not sure I'm too keen on that! Not sure I'm looking forward to dying as such - when it comes it comes, just hope it's not painful or prolonged!

Chip

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I fear an accident which paralyses me from the neck down more than death itself.

After all, if you are dead you dont know anything about it anyway.

XRdodgybird

I can't really say whether I fear death or not, to be honest I have never thought about my own death.... however, since having Enya, I do fear for her safety and wellbeing.

mrjenrst

Mate i'm nearly 30 myself and tbh yeah i've thought the same, where the fuck did the last 10 years go

But i'd rather live my life the way i want not how i should with the healthy eating and all that bollocks thats rammed down your throat.

dovboy

Chip

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Couple of years of utter agony as you slowly rot away from cancer from the inside out might change your mind, but of course by then it'll be too late for you to do anything about it.

_DAN_

Death gotta be easy, 'cause life is hard.

Glenn_

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I used to be scared of death but i realise we all have to die at some point.If there is such thing as spirits and a better life after this one,well i hope its better than our lives now.

Dicko&Vacant

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not scared of death, but tbh, everytime Lee starts nailing the car, i always have images of having a blowout at high speeds and us crashing and both being dead leaving the kids with dead parents is that paranoia? lol

Sarah

Dicko&Vacant

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and in 10 years time, when youve had a few strokes, lost 1 side of your face, cant depend on yourself to look after yourself and think about what a miserable life you have, maybe you will think back at how eating healthy and looking after yourself seemed like a much better option in the long run

Sarah

charlie luciano

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I often think of death and fear it, the 64 million dollar question is how you go,

when you're 90 odd years old with all your family round your bedside and you slip off into a deep sleep, that's the ideal way to go imo.

getting an illness that cuts you to the bone, getting shot, stabbed, burned, blown up are a few ways that are not too pleasant


Luciano

bigryrs

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When your times up youve gotta go!! 25 or 95 lifes a bitch that way but yeah you think about it more when you have kids etc

Mr S1

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When you're numbers up it's up. I don't worry about it, I'm more concerned about how I go. I wouldn't want to be one of these people who lingers on for ages, not being able bodied, can't get out of bed and unable to do anything. That's what concerns me. If I went tonight in my sleep, then so be it. As long as it's quick and doesn't hurt I'm not fussed. I live on my own and have no kids so no-one to be concerned about left behind, my brother is settled down and mum and dad have got each other so they'd all get through.

**Claire**

I am terrified of dying, since I've had Bethany my mortality has been on my mind a lot. I'm also frightened of losing members of my family, I just want them to go on forever.

Things that play on my mind a lot are the choices I've made in my life and whether those choices will have a bearing on my future health and ultimately lead me to die young(ish). I don't know why but I've always had a feeling that I wouldn't die in a normal way and that I would 'go before my time'. God that sounds so morbid doesn't it, I guess feeling like that compounds my fear though

Mr S1

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And I also think euthanasia should be legal in this country for terminal illnesses. Why prolong the agony when you can go with a bit of dignity and not suffer ?

biglee

i wasnt afraid untill now and the only reason im afraid is beacause i will leave people behind who i love dearly and i worry so much about it.

Glenn_

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I just look at life as ONE LIFE LIVE IT i dont worry about anything.Ive done some crazy shit in my life so far.Death is certain life isnt.Live everyday like its your last one.Ive lost a few family members and it just makes you think more about life.The dead carnt hurt you its the living that does.

dvid

Yep I'm petrified.... I don't want become a frail weak person like my grandad, I agree re the days going so quickly, scary stuff! Kinda makes you think "what's the point?"

foreigneRS

in your opinion

Mr S1

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That's the attitude I like

PeterD

Not scared of dying, I just don't want to. Far too much potential left for good times

One things for sure though when its time, its time.

Gazzonator

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I dont have any family, kids, partner etc, so I have to admit that it doesn't bother me in the slightest (might explain my driving style! Lol! ).

I'd rather not die though! I'm only 26 so got a few more things to do and see yet!

Less.

Nope dont fear death

TrevCos

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I just want it to be quick and not see it coming, and I'd rather there wasn't anything after this life, I just want to disappear into the air, like a big fart.

smila

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ye thats the one thing that i do fear

orion85

no i did not untill a close friend died in a car accident but it only took me 4 months and after we forget what we have been into so you don't care once more. but hey life is great if you see it form the bright side else ouchh!!!