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Old 01-04-2009 | 04:12 PM
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following on from my other thread, got my bioscy results back yesterday and its really shit news, i have a very nasty cancerous tumor and all i can do now is go for an intence chemo treatment and radio treatment to help blast the little shit.. they cannot operate where it is.
now i just have to see how i respond to the next step in treatment.

as you can imagine i really dont know how to react just yet and i must stay positive.
i am so lucky to have a fantastic supportive group of people around me.
Old 01-04-2009 | 04:16 PM
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All the best mate. As you say, got to stay positive on these things to get it beat!
Old 01-04-2009 | 04:17 PM
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horrible news, but just remember nothing is set in stone, the fight in your heart is the most important thing in my opinion.
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Sending positive thoughts your way, and really hope that the treatment is usccesful x
Old 01-04-2009 | 04:19 PM
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Shit news mate

Very importantly though, keep your chin up and stay positive.... i have a good friend who`s daughter was diagnosed with an inoperable tumour over 2 years ago and it was all doom and gloom, but she stayed very positive and the chemo went very well and she is now in remission

Sincerely hope everything goes well for you mate, the treatments are so much better nowadays too so stay positive mate.
Old 01-04-2009 | 04:20 PM
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lee im wishing you all the best.your a top bloke.girlfriends dad has just finished his chemo and they have got rid of the tumour all together so even tho he suffered for months of treatment it has paid off
Old 01-04-2009 | 04:23 PM
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All the best, I hope everything turns out ok for you. Keep positive
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Yep, as above: stay positive! Hope things work out for you.
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Sorry to hear this

can i ask where the tumour is?

i lost my dad to cancer aged 57 and its not nice to deal with

however there are a lot of sucess stories of people who have had cancer, so you've got to keep a positive mind, eat the right foods, cut out sugar/ glucose.

i've got lots of useful links to info with regards to foods etc

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Old 01-04-2009 | 04:34 PM
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Old 01-04-2009 | 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by LHD220Turbo
Sorry to hear this

can i ask where the tumour is?

i lost my dad to cancer aged 57 and its not nice to deal with

however there are a lot of sucess stories of people who have had cancer, so you've got to keep a positive mind, eat the right foods, cut out sugar/ glucose.

i've got lots of useful links to info with regards to foods etc

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in my brain mate. here is the original thread
https://passionford.com/forum/general-car-related-discussion/291577-life-is-quite-fragile-but-im-still-here-at-the-mo.html
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in my brain mate. here is the original thread
https://passionford.com/forum/showthread.php?t=291577
shit news fella


all i can say to you is dont give up, do lots of research on the internet and educate yourself

all the best

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shit news big fella.

keep strong -we are all behind you.

good luck mate
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im sure there is plenty of support on here for you if you need it pal keep positive
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Originally Posted by biglee
following on from my other thread, got my bioscy results back yesterday and its really shit news, i have a very nasty cancerous tumor and all i can do now is go for an intence chemo treatment and radio treatment to help blast the little shit.. they cannot operate where it is.
now i just have to see how i respond to the next step in treatment.

as you can imagine i really dont know how to react just yet and i must stay positive.
i am so lucky to have a fantastic supportive group of people around me.
'kin 'ell! Don't know what to say to that really.

Stay positive - I really do hope the "little shit" gets vapourised.!
Old 01-04-2009 | 05:09 PM
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I wish you all the good luck in the world Lee, just stay positive.
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Good luck mate. No one knows what's next, but stay strong and be positive, it's the only way to beat it!
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Chin up fella, stay strong and pull through!
Old 01-04-2009 | 05:21 PM
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all the best and just stay positvie no matter what and just keep kicking till its gone

wish you luck
Old 01-04-2009 | 05:25 PM
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All the best, chin up and fight that f****r.
Old 01-04-2009 | 05:31 PM
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All the best mate!as above stay positive!
Old 01-04-2009 | 05:52 PM
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Best of luck,all the best.
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shit news fella, .

but you aint dead in the water yet , if there offering you any treatment then take it ,

and keep your fucking chin up ,

if it means me driving down there to stand on your front singign im a little tea pot in me boxxer shorts , then bloody hell thats what ill do !!!!!!!!!!


at least i could pick me bike up that way lol



but yeah , always at the other end of the fone kid and you know the numeber

anything you need just say ,

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Old 01-04-2009 | 06:55 PM
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Best wishes mate..... I cant begin to imagine how youre feeling!!
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All the best pal
Old 01-04-2009 | 07:36 PM
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I cannot begin to understand how it must feel to be told this, but as others have said, theres a whole army of pals right here on PF waiting to listen if you need us. I just hope that everything goes your way
Old 01-04-2009 | 07:44 PM
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thanks for all the positive msgs peeps..... and yea Beefy i know your here for me mate, i thankyou mate..

Lee x
Old 01-04-2009 | 07:54 PM
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i hope all goes well for you lee i will speak to you soon and keep my fingers crossed for ya
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hey mate,i know i dont know you but,my father in law has just been told today that his cancer has pretty much gone, he was diagnosed it sometime in January and has had radio and chemo (sp) he had it 3 different places and i know its hard to believe, its gone almost, now this dont mean hes off the hook for good so to speak but its looking good at the moment.

So keep ya chin up matey,stay posotive and hang in there, youre gonna have your good days and bad days aswell, but you have to remain possotive!!!!!

good luck.

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Old 01-04-2009 | 08:44 PM
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Good luck Lee,

I know from personal experience what it's like, I had cancer and needed 4 lots of chemo. Just make sure yu take lots of things to keep you occupied as there's nothing worse than getting bored in hospital. All I can say is that chemo is like your worst hangover ever and lasts about a week. Having said that the first two sessions were ok, but the 3rd and 4th were a bit rough - I never puked though!

All the best chap.
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all the best lee, hope it gets sorted
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Ive got my fingers crossed for you mate.
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Best wishes Lee...You HAVE to stay positive mate
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If anyone can rise above and fight this, it's you!

Keep positive big fella.
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Stay positive, good luck I am sure you will be fine
Old 02-04-2009 | 10:40 AM
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DEfo as everyone says stay positive - fight it
Old 02-04-2009 | 11:24 AM
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In shock mate! just red this i didn't know it was going on til now, i pop round before the weekend keep your chin up buddy!
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Oh thats such sad news Lee

Try to stay positive and do all the things you want to do...

xx
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thanks for all the great msgs peeps, had my consultation with the oncologist today and i will be going for my treatment planning very soon then i will be started on both treatments sometime within the next 3 weeks.
thanks everyone


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