James Raby

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Right, my best mate is a female (Sam)

Went round hers today, as I do most days when not at work to be honest

Just recently been feeling like she don't want me there or just get the feeling she ignoring me somehow

She has a little lad who is 4 next week and also has a fiancee who I get on with

Anyway, she knows I really like her (well love her infact) but she has said as long as I don't try anything we are ok

but I really get the feeling she has an alteria motive but what do I do, am I getting mixed feelings 'cos I really don't feel like an argument with her as she is a fierce bitch when she wants to be

Oh FFS, I couldn;t read the signs if it was offered on a bloody plate

Rick

what u think her motive is?

James Raby

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Fook knows, I want her so will probably always WANT it to be that (mis-interpretation etc)

james_birch

she might just be out growing your friendship!...or it could be all in ya head!!!!!

or it could be she having probs with her finacee' about you and tho she dont wanna hurt you she may need some space from ya!

why not try making the first space saving move!...like say next time she calls and asks where ya are!...just say ya busy or with a friend ya aint seen ina while!....but make it seem like your the one that wants the space not that your doin it for her!

or just hire a hooker to take ya mind off her!

either way...you got space!

Moose 130

If she really is your best mate, just ask her.

Rick

could be that her fella is gettin annoyed. Just ask her what the problem is, it'll come out.

James Raby

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Her fiancee don't care to be honest is too trusting

I get on with him as far as I can to be honest

She don't go anywhere cos she has to look after Connor, so therefore doesn't have a job, doesn't drive, never got any money etc etc

So maybe depression????

All I want is to cheer her up, even suggested I take them out for a day, but she won't 'cos she'll want to spend money and going on holiday next week

She needs to get out of the house, but how the hell do I do that!!!

Smit

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James, been in this situation before....Fell out with Chris/Kev Knights about it..hence why they don't come to the meets no-more!

Be careful as you have a lot to lose if u do the wrong thing!

I was in a situation simliar with Kevs ex bird...we were best mates (nowt else) told each other everything and wer ejust mates...then started to feel a bit more than this........and opened up and told her how i feel...she kinda flipped out and we ain't been as NEAR as close as we were when we were just best mates...

So tread carefully.

James Raby

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She knows my thoughts mate and always has done

Maybe she just pissed off with being at home all the time, I'll speak to her and find out

i have ways , mohahahaha!!

James Raby

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She knows my thoughts mate and always has done

Maybe she just pissed off with being at home all the time, I'll speak to her and find out

i have ways , mohahahaha!!

Kev.H

is her fiancee the father of the kid if so stop thinking about getting ya nudges and let em be a family

st3v3

ask her if she's your best friend she will be happy to tell you,but you might not want to hear what she has to say and thats the danger for you..

Lee Reynolds

My advise is to see her only on a very rare occasion. You CANT be in love with ya best mate. If your in love its all or nothing. If you dont want to risk losing her for good by trying it on with her, then walk away and get yourself another woman and stop holding out for lost causes James. Also aint fair on her fiance to be putting his woman in the situation that you are thinking of

James Raby

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I want to be friends with her, you will always love someone and that can't stop

Kev, I understand mate - don't worry LOL

Am looking for another 'woman' it's just finding one and trying to to compare that's the hard part and if I do... (is it me or are all woman fooking twisted or summit??) I always seem to meet the fooked up ones

MM_RACING

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James

Its good to talk - Just ask her "what up?"

All the best

Ginge !

james are ypu posing for mad mac

serious mate just give her ANd YOU space as theres more birds in this world than blokes ( yes thats a fact ! , man shortage peeps )

and tbh women are the most common cause of a man fucking up if life and not doing what he wants to do

look at all the most successfull men in the world, there either sinlge or settled down after they made it


james its hard mate i know but stay away for a bit and get ya end wet on a few other birds then see how ya feel


being lonely aint nothing to be ashamed about as tbh me and the missus never spend time apart as one of us will miss each other


just stay away mate as tbh if ya feel that way about ehr and she knows then she should keep a distance

i know i lost a mate who was being real real friendly to my missus when we forst got together but he was just waiting and lurking for the right moment

glad i fcuked him off when i did too

if anything happened i would be well messed up and i do loose it and act a cunt when i get fucked about


james go pub and download porno


take care and give ya self distance

i know ya will never listen to anyone but ya know who is right regardless what ya do

but then to learn ya have to make mistakes so

good luck

Ginge !

james are ypu posing for mad mac

serious mate just give her ANd YOU space as theres more birds in this world than blokes ( yes thats a fact ! , man shortage peeps )

and tbh women are the most common cause of a man fucking up if life and not doing what he wants to do

look at all the most successfull men in the world, there either sinlge or settled down after they made it


james its hard mate i know but stay away for a bit and get ya end wet on a few other birds then see how ya feel


being lonely aint nothing to be ashamed about as tbh me and the missus never spend time apart as one of us will miss each other


just stay away mate as tbh if ya feel that way about ehr and she knows then she should keep a distance

i know i lost a mate who was being real real friendly to my missus when we forst got together but he was just waiting and lurking for the right moment

glad i fcuked him off when i did too

if anything happened i would be well messed up and i do loose it and act a cunt when i get fucked about


james go pub and download porno


take care and give ya self distance

i know ya will never listen to anyone but ya know who is right regardless what ya do

but then to learn ya have to make mistakes so

good luck

yogi

i would just let the grass grow for a bit mate she probally not want to say nothing to you incase she hurts your feeilings so giving you the cold shoulder so just leave it a few days and see if she phones you if she does then everything is ok if she dosent then you no theres a problem

Christian and Beccy

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James, you still trying to crack onto Sam??

LOL.

Maybe its one of those friendships that may once have been something more, but has now gone too far for that. IMO move on.

There's always ya right hand. At least that won't argue with you or complain that you only lasted 5 minutes!! (Just trying to lighten the mood, before you get a complex!!)

Stavros

If you want her, steam in, i always do, fiancee or not

NUTS RuS

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Write to "The Sun" and see what they say

Then I can say to all the monkeys at work...... I know that guy

Only kidding JR go and ask her direct whats the problem

FletchCossie

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James mate, women are the 2nd hardest thing to work out in this world. First is a miss-fire that just wont go away

Seriously mate, if that was me I would just keep a distance. If a woman is attracted to you I find they always come running one way or another, weather it be 1 week or 20 years......... Life is about patience mate and if you want something bad enough wait for it

James Raby

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Just going to ask what the hell is worng with her, be it boredom etc etc

She came round earlier as parents only live next door anyway (wanted to borrow DVD lol) she says nothing wrong

Friends is good enough for me to be honest

jayRS

whats more important to you, her as a friend or her as a possable girlfriend? i know it sound a stupid question because you really like her, but you may try it on and get no where and the friendship could be harmed.
you say she is with someone, while she is with him i would stay clear, if she splits up with him step in to be a sholder to cry on but dont try and get her on the rebound as it probley wont last.
what people are saying is right, she is a good friend and you tell her everything, you could ask whats up but watch your step. you dont really want to loss such a good friend do you?

DanRSturbo

Want me to send you some smut to take your mind off it ?

Baby blĺ

I´m a magician at miss-fires, does it mean im great at ladies to WOHOOO!!!!!

Serius m8, give her some space. It takes time to figure out ladies.
If its meant to be it will happen, if its not...you will know soon.

Dr. Phil

Kev.H

didnt mean that to sound harsh just when small people are invovled they should allways come first and sometimes that dont allways mean whats right for the parents

MrsFrog

Seen from the other side... just let her be.

If there is nothing wrong an it was just a bad patch she was going through, she'll ring you soon enough to ask what is wrong WITH YOU!!

If there is something wrong and she needs your help, and if you two have been good friends as you say you have been, then she'll come and ask for your help.

Because if you ask and all is well, then she'll laugh it off...
But if not all is well, be warned and be prepared for what she has to say.... and maybe to loose a friend too...

We always come when we are ready.....

CraigN

I am in a similar situation

but my mate hasnt got a clue lol

and i havent got the bollocks to say anything

James Raby

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I have been friends with her for at least 12 years now

Friends is good, more would be nice but to be honest I just don't think that will happen

Move on Jim, move on

MM_RACING

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James

What dvd did she wanted to borrow DVD?

All the best

James Raby

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50 First Dates, bloody good film too

The Youth.

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Me too and I'm married!!
Nowt worse than wanting to shag your best mates wife

steve

MM_RACING

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James

lol - 50 Fisrt Dates

Sound like she need some space - hide in a cupboard for a few days

James Raby

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Mate, I couldn't fit IN a cupboard!!!

Saw her today in Tesco whilst shopping, she said to come round Saturday, so maybe she having an off day or something???

I didn't ask, she just approached me and actually TOLD me to go round LOL

She goes on holiday next week so will be a nice change for hee

Less.

Fuck her get it owt yer system

MM_RACING

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James

There must be some nice ladyboys working within your dept

Play hard to get - An week away from her will do you good

All the best

M Brian

ah youre in the friend zone!!

once youre in that its big trouble to get out!!

women always say nothings up aswell!

Less.

yEP lES

nOWTS UP

yEAH I breluiebv that pmls