Friends.. How many "Real" ones do you have?
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Friends.. How many "Real" ones do you have?
Ive recently been led to consider this due to the fact im moving house...
Ive had the usual hastle of phoning every company in teh world to stop gas and electric, start new contracts, cancel services and deliveries, move addresses and numbers, try to syncronise it all etc etc.. im sure your familiar with the pain of it all
Well, i thought id ask a few mates about the loan of a van and some labour this weekend, as you do... and got all the half expected replies:
"Um.... saturday.. erm, sure my missus has planned summat"
"Erm.. got no tax pal sorry" Saw him 3hrs later in town in it
"Soz Stu... any other time pal, but not this weekend"
Etc Etc Etc......
Was then chatting to a mate i have in another town about life in general and the fact im moving house...
"Wounder, loads of stress Stu" he says.. lol
He then says:
"You need help? A van perhaps? Helping hands?"
"Erm.. well, yes" i reply, "but your miles away pal so no worries"
"No bother... give me 2 seconds"
He then dissapears to run it by his brother who has access to a work van.....
He comes back with:
"Right pal, me and Craig will be down at your work Friday tea time to help you move, Craigs sorted the works truck. We will help you out friday night with the small stuff and then have some beers together. On Saturday you go to work and we will move everything with Nicole and the kids whilst your at work so you dont lose any Money and Baz has said hes coming to help too!"
The shocking thing is these particular mates are in fooking Sheffield.. some 1.5hrs away in a van and theyve just dropped everything to help an out of town mate out at short notice...
Im touched folks, makes you realise just who your friends are at times like this.... best of all, many of you know these fellas..
Rs Gus
Rs Craig
Monte_Baz
Take a bow Gentlemen.. dont know what id do without pals like you sometimes!!
Ive had the usual hastle of phoning every company in teh world to stop gas and electric, start new contracts, cancel services and deliveries, move addresses and numbers, try to syncronise it all etc etc.. im sure your familiar with the pain of it all
Well, i thought id ask a few mates about the loan of a van and some labour this weekend, as you do... and got all the half expected replies:
"Um.... saturday.. erm, sure my missus has planned summat"
"Erm.. got no tax pal sorry" Saw him 3hrs later in town in it
"Soz Stu... any other time pal, but not this weekend"
Etc Etc Etc......
Was then chatting to a mate i have in another town about life in general and the fact im moving house...
"Wounder, loads of stress Stu" he says.. lol
He then says:
"You need help? A van perhaps? Helping hands?"
"Erm.. well, yes" i reply, "but your miles away pal so no worries"
"No bother... give me 2 seconds"
He then dissapears to run it by his brother who has access to a work van.....
He comes back with:
"Right pal, me and Craig will be down at your work Friday tea time to help you move, Craigs sorted the works truck. We will help you out friday night with the small stuff and then have some beers together. On Saturday you go to work and we will move everything with Nicole and the kids whilst your at work so you dont lose any Money and Baz has said hes coming to help too!"
The shocking thing is these particular mates are in fooking Sheffield.. some 1.5hrs away in a van and theyve just dropped everything to help an out of town mate out at short notice...
Im touched folks, makes you realise just who your friends are at times like this.... best of all, many of you know these fellas..
Rs Gus
Rs Craig
Monte_Baz
Take a bow Gentlemen.. dont know what id do without pals like you sometimes!!
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Had huge bust up with my dad - needed somewhere to live v quick
....End up living with lambchop, beaky.....(and somehow matty :P) by the next evening! - met em all off the old RS board LOL
Had 3 other offers same day too! 2 in very messy flats and one with a copper so i took the above lol
Ace when you "notice" how good your mates are
I would have done a big up thread but their heads are big enough LOL
....End up living with lambchop, beaky.....(and somehow matty :P) by the next evening! - met em all off the old RS board LOL
Had 3 other offers same day too! 2 in very messy flats and one with a copper so i took the above lol
Ace when you "notice" how good your mates are
I would have done a big up thread but their heads are big enough LOL
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What stu doesn't know is gus is now on "The Manor" estate, screwdriver in hand, finding a suitable van. Once stu goes to work on Saturday, Gus and his boys are going to fill the van and do a runner, leaving stu with only a beanbag to sit on and a gameboy.................. with no games
Only joking, big up the big man and his pals. Gus truly is a gent
Only joking, big up the big man and his pals. Gus truly is a gent
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they only using you stu, they just want the beers
but seriouslt nice one boys
it's weird thing friends, i bend over backwards to help people
but when it came to working on MY car, no-one help me with my head gasket problem bar 1, yes 1 friend.
and when it came to stripping my car, again only 1 friend helped
so i'd like to BIG UP 3DR-RALLY-SLAG, aka Paul
but seriouslt nice one boys
it's weird thing friends, i bend over backwards to help people
but when it came to working on MY car, no-one help me with my head gasket problem bar 1, yes 1 friend.
and when it came to stripping my car, again only 1 friend helped
so i'd like to BIG UP 3DR-RALLY-SLAG, aka Paul
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andy r came all the way from galsgow then on to essex to tow my s2 on a trailer with a chance of being pulled for being overloaded fookin top boy and gee too takeing me to get my staples out yesterday a few good mates is all ya need met so many willing to stabya when ya not thier and only got me into trouble jelousys a bitch and a mate killa
andy r came all the way from galsgow then on to essex to tow my s2 on a trailer with a chance of being pulled for being overloaded fookin top boy and gee too takeing me to get my staples out yesterday a few good mates is all ya need met so many willing to stabya when ya not thier and only got me into trouble jelousys a bitch and a mate killa
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Aye Craig & Andy r top lads!
It is times like this ya know ur m8s!
remeber last year when I was movin about 45mins form where i was! the day b4 nat day! which is also the same day as rally super car day!
bunch of my m8 didnt go to rally supoer car day to help me cause they knew how much goin to national day meant to me as if we didnt get it all done on the sat i coudlnt go on the sunday!
also when ya crash ya car & u get ppl from all over fookin country offering to give ya a hand strippin it down!
& when ur mrs rips yer heart out in front of your very eyes & starts chewin on it yer good m8s r there to pick ya back up & get ya drunk!
Good m8s r very hard to find!
It is times like this ya know ur m8s!
remeber last year when I was movin about 45mins form where i was! the day b4 nat day! which is also the same day as rally super car day!
bunch of my m8 didnt go to rally supoer car day to help me cause they knew how much goin to national day meant to me as if we didnt get it all done on the sat i coudlnt go on the sunday!
also when ya crash ya car & u get ppl from all over fookin country offering to give ya a hand strippin it down!
& when ur mrs rips yer heart out in front of your very eyes & starts chewin on it yer good m8s r there to pick ya back up & get ya drunk!
Good m8s r very hard to find!
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This is a good question Stu.
As in my circle of friends outside RS's about 2 i could depend on in crisis and i known these for many many years....BUT some people i met from this board and have known for hardly anytime at all are considered more reliable than known mates from childhood/young adult life!
Mike Rainbird
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I am touched by the level of genuine people this forum/rsbb has produced,you just couldnt find the kindness of some anywhere else!
As in my circle of friends outside RS's about 2 i could depend on in crisis and i known these for many many years....BUT some people i met from this board and have known for hardly anytime at all are considered more reliable than known mates from childhood/young adult life!
Mike Rainbird
Billabong
I am touched by the level of genuine people this forum/rsbb has produced,you just couldnt find the kindness of some anywhere else!
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You know with Gus on the job he will be able to lift the 3-piece suite on his own
Remember when he was doing an engine rebuild, he was picking the block up like it was made of cardboard
Remember when he was doing an engine rebuild, he was picking the block up like it was made of cardboard
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always cool to have peeps u can rely on no matter wot
and for anyone who knows me i would prob do my utmost to help them in any way i possibly could
x x x
always cool to have peeps u can rely on no matter wot
and for anyone who knows me i would prob do my utmost to help them in any way i possibly could
x x x
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youve always goot loads of mates to OFFER a hand but theres only usually a few true friends who are there when u actually need the hand
its also good to see that these forum to bring folk together as we would probably never ever meet these folks if it wasnt for them.
like a dating agency really
its also good to see that these forum to bring folk together as we would probably never ever meet these folks if it wasnt for them.
like a dating agency really
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Originally Posted by B19-TRB
Originally Posted by louturbo
i would prob do my utmost to help them in any way i possibly could
x x x
x x x
x x x
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Tho it pains me admit it got loads of mates at the match(Rudey saw the extent of this when i took him to Forest v Sheep)
But true friends are hard to come by i mean real true friends
my list is very short........
Rudey deffo he like me Bro
Andy R..........top Geezer
5/6 other not from ere
IMO dont need loads and loads of friends just a few good peeps and ya sorted
But true friends are hard to come by i mean real true friends
my list is very short........
Rudey deffo he like me Bro
Andy R..........top Geezer
5/6 other not from ere
IMO dont need loads and loads of friends just a few good peeps and ya sorted
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Originally Posted by louturbo
Originally Posted by B19-TRB
Originally Posted by louturbo
i would prob do my utmost to help them in any way i possibly could
x x x
x x x
x x x
u must just be thinkin of that when u think of me!
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Yet, there a loads of people I would drop everything for for some reason
It's nice to hear stuff like this, I know for sure there's 2 people on here that always want to help:
Flashpoint
Nath
They've offered to come over and help in the past, only thing is, I don't want the fookers knowing where I live
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Originally Posted by B19-TRB
Originally Posted by louturbo
Originally Posted by B19-TRB
Originally Posted by louturbo
i would prob do my utmost to help them in any way i possibly could
x x x
x x x
x x x
u must just be thinkin of that when u think of me!
x x x
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i "know" a lot of peeps, but true friends i can count on 1 hand,
everones quick to be yor mate when they have a prob, or ring at home with a PC prob or summit, but I have found to my cost that when i need propoer help it is not very forthcoming, i get more help from people of here to be honest, how sad is that as the majority dont even really know me
everones quick to be yor mate when they have a prob, or ring at home with a PC prob or summit, but I have found to my cost that when i need propoer help it is not very forthcoming, i get more help from people of here to be honest, how sad is that as the majority dont even really know me