Relationship adivce !!
10-07-2007, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Stavros
The bit in bold is the thing.
Me not doing anything wont make anyone else not do anything if they never knew in the first place.
Could go for years being all lovely and tuning down various firm breasted lovelies, and then you suddenly find out that person cheated on you years ago, and you never knew.
How much of a cunt would you feel? Less of one than if you slyly did get on the aformentioned fanny and it never even crossed her mind, thats for sure.
Dont make it right, but what somebody never knows about, cant affect them, hence why if you never found out she got gangbanged behind your back 2 years earlier it wouldnt affect you.
Ive got a very unromantic but very realistic outlook on life...
Me not doing anything wont make anyone else not do anything if they never knew in the first place.
Could go for years being all lovely and tuning down various firm breasted lovelies, and then you suddenly find out that person cheated on you years ago, and you never knew.
How much of a cunt would you feel? Less of one than if you slyly did get on the aformentioned fanny and it never even crossed her mind, thats for sure.
Dont make it right, but what somebody never knows about, cant affect them, hence why if you never found out she got gangbanged behind your back 2 years earlier it wouldnt affect you.
Ive got a very unromantic but very realistic outlook on life...
That was my attitude when I was younger, but these days I would sooner not be unfaithfull.
At the end of the day, your mrs could die one day when you arent with her, and visiting her grave remembering that you were balls deep at the time it happened wouldnt be a nice thing to live with if you have a conscience.
(an extreme example, but the sort of thing I mean)
10-07-2007, 04:00 PM
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Ive got a very unromantic but very realistic outlook on life...
no, your a hypocritical cunt * sorry, need to edit this bit...its not cunt is it, its cant....you mag
if you think for one second you should cheat on someone just in case they MIGHT have done, or MIGHT do in the future, then your a very sad person
fucking unbeliveable
10-07-2007, 04:01 PM
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If you cant trust her, then your the one with the problems,for your realationship to work there has to be trust.
just relax an play it cool, dont bombard her with texts while shes away either an make sure u tell her to have a good time andont be sour about it at all.
At the end of the day if it works out it might be you going away next year an leaving her at home.
just relax an play it cool, dont bombard her with texts while shes away either an make sure u tell her to have a good time andont be sour about it at all.
At the end of the day if it works out it might be you going away next year an leaving her at home.
10-07-2007, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Mark B
If you cant trust her, then your the one with the problems,for your realationship to work there has to be trust.
just relax an play it cool, dont bombard her with texts while shes away either an make sure u tell her to have a good time andont be sour about it at all.
At the end of the day if it works out it might be you going away next year an leaving her at home.
just relax an play it cool, dont bombard her with texts while shes away either an make sure u tell her to have a good time andont be sour about it at all.
At the end of the day if it works out it might be you going away next year an leaving her at home.
[stavros]
And THAT is when it will pay dividends that you trusted her this time and didnt question her, cause you can nail eleventy seven sluts up the wrong'un and then when you get back if she dares to question you then you can point out that you didnt question her and she shouldnt either as your relationship is based on love and trust
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10-07-2007, 04:09 PM
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TBH Chip, my last long term mrs is the only one who ever found out ive ever cheated on em, and as a matter of fate the one I loved the most.
I always still think about her, the biggest regret ever is her finding out, and the memories of how she was when she found out still haunt me, so yeah, your right in most senses.
Im not a nasty person and the thought of hurting someone I care about by them finding out I cheated appalls me as I know how bad someone cheating on you or finishing with you feels.
Still dont mean I wouldnt though.
How many of you can HONESTLY say that if you had the oppertunity to have a really conveniant night of no holes barred action with Carmen Electra that NOBODY would ever find out about in the slightest, you still wouldnt?
Yeah, exactly.
I always still think about her, the biggest regret ever is her finding out, and the memories of how she was when she found out still haunt me, so yeah, your right in most senses.
Im not a nasty person and the thought of hurting someone I care about by them finding out I cheated appalls me as I know how bad someone cheating on you or finishing with you feels.
Still dont mean I wouldnt though.
How many of you can HONESTLY say that if you had the oppertunity to have a really conveniant night of no holes barred action with Carmen Electra that NOBODY would ever find out about in the slightest, you still wouldnt?
Yeah, exactly.
10-07-2007, 04:13 PM
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If you care about someone enough, then you dont want to lie to them, as you want to be able to have an honest relationship that means something.
If you dont want to lie to them, you cant cheat on them.
Depends what you want from a relationship Stavros, in your case honesty isnt what you are worried about or sharing your life, or having a family, you just want to get laid reguarly.
I used to be of the same mindset, im not quite so much anymore, so I think it changes as you get older.
If you dont want to lie to them, you cant cheat on them.
Depends what you want from a relationship Stavros, in your case honesty isnt what you are worried about or sharing your life, or having a family, you just want to get laid reguarly.
I used to be of the same mindset, im not quite so much anymore, so I think it changes as you get older.
10-07-2007, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted by xr2i-carl
SATVROS mate, you sound like you have really been hurt in the past by a bird
what the fuck,...
did you not read his last post
he did the dirty...his bird found out, and
and the memories of how she was when she found out still haunt me
yet hes still on about doing it.....
i cant believe this post, im off...
carl
10-07-2007, 04:23 PM
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BMW Carl-
Yeah, course I have, no more than most people though idve thought, prob less than many.
Dont know ive ever been cheated on though, I can put money on I did, im not a mug, but theres nothing I know that ever hints to that, so it doesnt affect me.
Turbo Carl-
?????
And I was caught that time, but thats not my only long term relationship FFS.
Yeah, course I have, no more than most people though idve thought, prob less than many.
Dont know ive ever been cheated on though, I can put money on I did, im not a mug, but theres nothing I know that ever hints to that, so it doesnt affect me.
Turbo Carl-
Originally Posted by Stavros
How many of you can HONESTLY say that if you had the oppertunity to have a really conveniant night of no holes barred action with Carmen Electra that NOBODY would ever find out about in the slightest, you still wouldnt?
And I was caught that time, but thats not my only long term relationship FFS.
10-07-2007, 04:29 PM
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me and the missus have been together for 13 years and married for 10 yes in the early years thoughts go though your head, but me never lie to each other.
we had been together for 2 years and it was new years eve and I wanted to hit a rave club, but we could not get into one. so one of her non drugy mates phoned her and we went ended up in a shitty meat and pisshead club. I fooken hated it and though a strop and fucked off to the pub. she stayed.
she said she was so pissed off with me she thought about going home with a bloke to fuck me off, but she did not. but she told me about it when she got home not long later.
she said realy did think about it, as she was so agry.
I told her about getty realy drunk and sticking my tongue down some sluts mouth. just never lie and lit it get to far.
and your relationship will last for years
we had been together for 2 years and it was new years eve and I wanted to hit a rave club, but we could not get into one. so one of her non drugy mates phoned her and we went ended up in a shitty meat and pisshead club. I fooken hated it and though a strop and fucked off to the pub. she stayed.
she said she was so pissed off with me she thought about going home with a bloke to fuck me off, but she did not. but she told me about it when she got home not long later.
she said realy did think about it, as she was so agry.
I told her about getty realy drunk and sticking my tongue down some sluts mouth. just never lie and lit it get to far.
and your relationship will last for years
10-07-2007, 04:32 PM
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It also depends on how desperate you are to fuck different birds I guess as well Stavros, personally ive nailed enough different birds now and the novelty has worn off really, these days I only really pull birds out of habbit and im really not that fussed either way about the sex really, so if I settle down with the right person I wouldnt risk it just for yet another notch on the bedpost, it just isnt a thing that means enough to me to be worth losing the feeling I was honest in my relationship to get it.
10-07-2007, 04:33 PM
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things have got so much better sence we have been swinging sex is fucking mental togther.
and if I need a wank I just get the pictures out of her fucking another girl
and if I need a wank I just get the pictures out of her fucking another girl
10-07-2007, 04:35 PM
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chip-
its nothing to do with just shagging other birds. its who. pointless cheating just to for the numbers, please to pigeon hole me in that scenario, id rather just have a wank.
jonny-
cheating to piss someone off is the wrongest reason as you clearly doing it so they would know.
its a cuntish thing to do, and not even remotley what i was talking about.
but you two allow each other to fuck other people anyhow, so cheating would be a bit irrelivant.
its nothing to do with just shagging other birds. its who. pointless cheating just to for the numbers, please to pigeon hole me in that scenario, id rather just have a wank.
jonny-
cheating to piss someone off is the wrongest reason as you clearly doing it so they would know.
its a cuntish thing to do, and not even remotley what i was talking about.
but you two allow each other to fuck other people anyhow, so cheating would be a bit irrelivant.
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Originally Posted by Stavros
How many of you can HONESTLY say that if you had the oppertunity to have a really conveniant night of no holes barred action with Carmen Electra that NOBODY would ever find out about in the slightest, you still wouldnt?
Yeah, exactly.
For every beautiful girl in the world, their is a guy sick of shagging her
10-07-2007, 04:47 PM
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Well I was planning on proposing to the missus soon but after treading this thread I don't think I'll bother
I've been cheated on before & it isn't nice at all!
I've been cheated on before & it isn't nice at all!
10-07-2007, 05:07 PM
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Sorry mate but she'll be up to the buffers with some wanker.
It sucks but it's how women are. All untrustworthy fucking wankers.
That's my experience of them, anyhow. I'm not bitter.
It sucks but it's how women are. All untrustworthy fucking wankers.
That's my experience of them, anyhow. I'm not bitter.
10-07-2007, 07:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Stavros
How many of you can HONESTLY say that if you had the oppertunity to have a really conveniant night of no holes barred action with Carmen Electra that NOBODY would ever find out about in the slightest, you still wouldnt?
10-07-2007, 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted by JohnnyB
but there is one couple we meet were the hubby is hung like a fooken donkey.
but its works out fare as his missus can suck a tennis ball though a hose pipe
but its works out fare as his missus can suck a tennis ball though a hose pipe
And who mentioned about not cumming any where but a condom? Chip? Anyway, some are OK with facials etc. but sometimes only when you feel you know each other a bit more.
11-07-2007, 10:44 AM
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Swinging, sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle, is "non-monogamous sexual activity, treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple." The phenomenon (or at least its wider discussion and practice) may be seen as part of the sexual revolution of recent decades, which occurred after the upsurge in sexual activity made possible by the prevalence of safer sex practices during the same period. Swinging has been called wife swapping in the past, but this term is archaic, as it is androcentric and does not accurately describe the full range of sexual activities in which swingers may take part.
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Exhibitionism: having sex with a partner while being watched.
Voyeurism: watching others have sex (perhaps with the above mentioned partner).
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Group Sex: An all-inclusive term for activities involving multiple partners in the same vicinity.
Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in sexual activity with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. These acts can occur in the same room (often called same room swinging) though different or separate room swinging does occur. On these occasions, swingers will often refer to sex as play.
11-07-2007, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted by JohnnyB
but there is one couple we meet were the hubby is hung like a fooken donkey.
but its works out fare as his missus can suck a tennis ball though a hose pipe
but its works out fare as his missus can suck a tennis ball though a hose pipe
And who mentioned about not cumming any where but a condom? Chip? Anyway, some are OK with facials etc. but sometimes only when you feel you know each other a bit more.