Am I "out of order"
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Originally Posted by JayKay
Well thats that sorted.
In town on my lunch break and my lasses ex's twin brother (if you follow me) came up to me and said hed seen dirty texts from my gf on his brothers phone.
Ive since text him asking if he gets chance can he try forward some over to me, than thats all I need
In town on my lunch break and my lasses ex's twin brother (if you follow me) came up to me and said hed seen dirty texts from my gf on his brothers phone.
Ive since text him asking if he gets chance can he try forward some over to me, than thats all I need
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The other thing is she plays with my phone all the time, doesnt look at the texts but arses about with it etc which I dont mind nothing to hide (I have 2 mobiles for a reason! )
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Originally Posted by JayKay
Well thats that sorted.
In town on my lunch break and my lasses ex's twin brother (if you follow me) came up to me and said hed seen dirty texts from my gf on his brothers phone.
In town on my lunch break and my lasses ex's twin brother (if you follow me) came up to me and said hed seen dirty texts from my gf on his brothers phone.
If he forwards texts you won't know if they actually came from her.
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Originally Posted by chewy
Originally Posted by JayKay
Well thats that sorted.
In town on my lunch break and my lasses ex's twin brother (if you follow me) came up to me and said hed seen dirty texts from my gf on his brothers phone.
Ive since text him asking if he gets chance can he try forward some over to me, than thats all I need
In town on my lunch break and my lasses ex's twin brother (if you follow me) came up to me and said hed seen dirty texts from my gf on his brothers phone.
Ive since text him asking if he gets chance can he try forward some over to me, than thats all I need
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Well, it could be a storm in a teacup, it could be purely innocent, she could be getting double teamed by the brothers grimm, she could be bored with you, the list is endless, the main thing you gott think about is what you want to do.
Look after number one in this life mate If your happy in the thought that she's texting filth to her ex then fine carry on, if not, tell the tramp straight that it's not on !
His brother giving it the "i've seen some of the text's " chestnut is a smokescreen, his brother probably said "i want her back man, make her gullible idiot boyfriend believe she's texting me filth" remember, some phones will show the text as a forwarded one, but not like an e-mail, so you won't get a confirmed source, unless you steal the phone and run some software on it
Either way, flip a coin and make a decision.
Good luck pal
Look after number one in this life mate If your happy in the thought that she's texting filth to her ex then fine carry on, if not, tell the tramp straight that it's not on !
His brother giving it the "i've seen some of the text's " chestnut is a smokescreen, his brother probably said "i want her back man, make her gullible idiot boyfriend believe she's texting me filth" remember, some phones will show the text as a forwarded one, but not like an e-mail, so you won't get a confirmed source, unless you steal the phone and run some software on it
Either way, flip a coin and make a decision.
Good luck pal
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Make sure what you think is true...is actually true...I wouldn't trust the twin brother to be honest...
When you find out it's true, get shot. If she is still involved with an ex to that degree what the fuck do you want her for. She's probably only with you so the other guy gets jealous and shows her more attention anyway.
Don't worry, as soon as she's back with him you'll be the one getting the dirty texts and ''popping round to get some stuff'' anyway...
When you find out it's true, get shot. If she is still involved with an ex to that degree what the fuck do you want her for. She's probably only with you so the other guy gets jealous and shows her more attention anyway.
Don't worry, as soon as she's back with him you'll be the one getting the dirty texts and ''popping round to get some stuff'' anyway...
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IF you really like her and can see having some sort of future with her then sit down and talk to her
otherwise
Tie her to the bed while she is naked, take some photos. do what you want with her then cover her in petrol and set her alight. Next proceed to her ex's house and fire bomb the fucker.
HTH
otherwise
Tie her to the bed while she is naked, take some photos. do what you want with her then cover her in petrol and set her alight. Next proceed to her ex's house and fire bomb the fucker.
HTH
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Originally Posted by Porkie
Chewy next time you are on that site will you pm 'dale_jeffs' and ask him if his Fiesta is a sandpiper II?!?!? that was my first car! would love to see one again!!!
Originally Posted by Katie
Make sure what you think is true...is actually true...I wouldn't trust the twin brother to be honest...
When you find out it's true, get shot. If she is still involved with an ex to that degree what the fuck do you want her for. She's probably only with you so the other guy gets jealous and shows her more attention anyway.
Don't worry, as soon as she's back with him you'll be the one getting the dirty texts and ''popping round to get some stuff'' anyway...
When you find out it's true, get shot. If she is still involved with an ex to that degree what the fuck do you want her for. She's probably only with you so the other guy gets jealous and shows her more attention anyway.
Don't worry, as soon as she's back with him you'll be the one getting the dirty texts and ''popping round to get some stuff'' anyway...
Just joking Katie no offence meant to you personally
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Originally Posted by Katie
Don't worry, as soon as she's back with him you'll be the one getting the dirty texts and ''popping round to get some stuff'' anyway...
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Originally Posted by Katie
Make sure what you think is true...is actually true...I wouldn't trust the twin brother to be honest...
When you find out it's true, get shot. If she is still involved with an ex to that degree what the fuck do you want her for. She's probably only with you so the other guy gets jealous and shows her more attention anyway.
Don't worry, as soon as she's back with him you'll be the one getting the dirty texts and ''popping round to get some stuff'' anyway...
When you find out it's true, get shot. If she is still involved with an ex to that degree what the fuck do you want her for. She's probably only with you so the other guy gets jealous and shows her more attention anyway.
Don't worry, as soon as she's back with him you'll be the one getting the dirty texts and ''popping round to get some stuff'' anyway...
Just joking Katie no offence meant to you personally
I'd say if it's this early in though and she's being a moron, she's not a keeper. If you'd trusted her for ages and suddenly she realised she needed some stuff back, then maybe...especially if she's generally forgetful and so the idea of her forgetting all her worldly belongings in some other blokes house (or..erm...bedroom) is a feesible story.
Ask her outright....then if she's found to be lying later...she's lied to your face thus making it easier to tell her to get the fuck out.
I think she's lying though...it makes for a better thread.
and Steve C...God help you if Louise sees this...she'd be performing a home vasectomy with a spanner and some bleach
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Originally Posted by Katie
Originally Posted by chewy
Just joking Katie no offence meant to you personally
Think it's great we get to hear a womans point of view which just so happens to be the smae as ours.
You HAVE to listen to these posts mate especially when a woman has come on and told you the same as us !!
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Originally Posted by Katie
Originally Posted by chewy
Just joking Katie no offence meant to you personally
Think it's great we get to hear a womans point of view which just so happens to be the smae as ours.
You HAVE to listen to these posts mate especially when a woman has come on and told you the same as us !!
You're as bad as Jaykay
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Originally Posted by Katie
and Steve C...God help you if Louise sees this...she'd be performing a home vasectomy with a spanner and some bleach
It's funny because it's true
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Originally Posted by lead_foot
IF you really like her and can see having some sort of future with her then sit down and talk to her
otherwise
Tie her to the bed while she is naked, take some photos. do what you want with her then cover her in petrol and set her alight. Next proceed to her ex's house and fire bomb the fucker.
HTH
otherwise
Tie her to the bed while she is naked, take some photos. do what you want with her then cover her in petrol and set her alight. Next proceed to her ex's house and fire bomb the fucker.
HTH
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Originally Posted by dojj
Originally Posted by lead_foot
IF you really like her and can see having some sort of future with her then sit down and talk to her
otherwise
Tie her to the bed while she is naked, take some photos. do what you want with her then cover her in petrol and set her alight. Next proceed to her ex's house and fire bomb the fucker.
HTH
otherwise
Tie her to the bed while she is naked, take some photos. do what you want with her then cover her in petrol and set her alight. Next proceed to her ex's house and fire bomb the fucker.
HTH
I'm still training.
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Although I think you can be on friendly terms with an ex, texting every day and especially encouraging filthy ones (which is what she is doing my keep responding) is wrong
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Re: Am I "out of order"
Originally Posted by JayKay
Missus' ex been texting her alot recently so obviously ive become a bit pissed off with it all the time.
Anyway, Monday I went to work and got a text off her just said "please dont be mad at me but ive gone round Matts to pick up a few bits I forgot I had but nothing else promise" so obviously I was a bit pissed off about that too.
Whats really getting to me though, is that hes texting her/shes texting him back EVERY day and its not just one or two texts, its complete conversations etc (bearing in mind he apparantly "hates her" bla bla) and the texts that hes sending her arent just your usual friendly ones if ya get me.
Anyway I took it out on her last night and had a go to which all she could say was "you gotta trust me though nothings gonna happen between us" etc and she cant see whats wrong with texting him got knows how many times a day replying to his dirty texts etc etc and apparently im "well out of order for even thinking anything else"
She then turned the tables and said "its nothing different to you textin Emma" (thats my ex) what she doesnt quite understand is that I text Emma maybe once or twice a month due to the finance on her car still being in my name and me having to prompt her monthly to transfer money from her account to mine to pay it, and the texts we send are your usual friendly texts, not full on dirty ones etc
So am I being "out of order" or not? TBH, I dont think I am, I think I have every right to be fucked off and at this rate ill be sending her back to her ex coz cba wit her
Anyway, Monday I went to work and got a text off her just said "please dont be mad at me but ive gone round Matts to pick up a few bits I forgot I had but nothing else promise" so obviously I was a bit pissed off about that too.
Whats really getting to me though, is that hes texting her/shes texting him back EVERY day and its not just one or two texts, its complete conversations etc (bearing in mind he apparantly "hates her" bla bla) and the texts that hes sending her arent just your usual friendly ones if ya get me.
Anyway I took it out on her last night and had a go to which all she could say was "you gotta trust me though nothings gonna happen between us" etc and she cant see whats wrong with texting him got knows how many times a day replying to his dirty texts etc etc and apparently im "well out of order for even thinking anything else"
She then turned the tables and said "its nothing different to you textin Emma" (thats my ex) what she doesnt quite understand is that I text Emma maybe once or twice a month due to the finance on her car still being in my name and me having to prompt her monthly to transfer money from her account to mine to pay it, and the texts we send are your usual friendly texts, not full on dirty ones etc
So am I being "out of order" or not? TBH, I dont think I am, I think I have every right to be fucked off and at this rate ill be sending her back to her ex coz cba wit her
imho id sit her down, tell her its pissing you off and if she doesnt stop texting him back then your over, its not like she NEEDS to text him for anything, unlike you who has to for a financial reason
if she is texting him back, she must still have some sort of feelings for him? depends how long you have been together like said above, though definitely sounds like a bit of a messer expecting you to be happy with her textin her ex, i wouldnt put up with shit like that though no way would i
if Lee was texting his ex id personally knock her and him out
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why dont you ask her why do you feel the need to talk dirty to other guys when you have me?
Id be pissed off and i wouldnt have it, if they want a shag they should do it with there bf not someone else, they are what i like to call sluts
Id be pissed off and i wouldnt have it, if they want a shag they should do it with there bf not someone else, they are what i like to call sluts
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I would tell her straight....
that she was being a total fucking cunt for texting her ex and that it either stops now or she can fuck off, no ifs, no buts or maybe's. Make sure she knows exactly how serious you are.
Then I would check her next phone bill and see if anything else went on after your chat. If there was anymore that 10 sms message after the day or following day after your chat (that's more than enough for her to tell him not to text her anymore etc) then I would take that bitch and her shit and put it on the pavement outside and tell to fook off and never to come back!
that she was being a total fucking cunt for texting her ex and that it either stops now or she can fuck off, no ifs, no buts or maybe's. Make sure she knows exactly how serious you are.
Then I would check her next phone bill and see if anything else went on after your chat. If there was anymore that 10 sms message after the day or following day after your chat (that's more than enough for her to tell him not to text her anymore etc) then I would take that bitch and her shit and put it on the pavement outside and tell to fook off and never to come back!
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Of course your not wrong. Far from it. My Girlfriend had a text from her ex the other day, nothing bad and I trust her, but if it was a dirty one I would have left there and then!
You need to have a serious chat with her mate, its definately not on.
I hope for your sake its nothing more than texts, but don't let her make a mug of you!
Hope it works out.
You need to have a serious chat with her mate, its definately not on.
I hope for your sake its nothing more than texts, but don't let her make a mug of you!
Hope it works out.
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aint read all the replys,,, but dump her
i know alot of people who are still giving there ex one on the sly and they LAUGH at him when they see him
infact theres a girl on the estate whos getting married soon and just today in the gym my mate was saying about how hes mates where batterying her saturday like the old days
shes got NO respect for you mate,,,, and when that happens its time to move on as you may get it back for a while but there WILL be times
oh and dont wanna worry you,, but if shes comfortable your that much of a cunt just imagine what shes been getting up to that she DONT tell you about
my best mate used to have a slut who was living with her man, had a little kid ect so she never went to work
he would go to work in the morning,, she would then go to her mums and drop the baby off and then she would chill with my mate and he would get head of her or just fuck her when he had time and then she would leave at 3ish to collect her youth and go back home
theres a saying i belive in TOTALLY
" if it looks like shite, smells like shit and tastes like shit,,,,, it aint chocolate fudge !!!"
and another one is most people NEVER have a idea there other half is a cheating slut till the other half gets sloppy/cockey and slips.... that point the THINK there maybe something going on,,,,, they are like you and try to argue comonsence and facts witha SLIM SLIM hope it might me something and you are being wrong
when you get the idea its going on,,, it cause it is mate
sad thing is NOW you will NEVER trust another bird so shes also taken more than you self respect,, shes also taken your trust
if she lives with you,,,, change the locks and go away for a few days ti think things through and be strong enough mentally to do the right thing
then DONT be a cunt to her,,, be civil and keep short conversations when she calls,,, let her lead the conversation and fuck with her head like shes doing with yours
theres 3 times as many girsl as there is guys these days,,,,, that means theres LOTS of birds to choose from so enjoy while you can
i know alot of people who are still giving there ex one on the sly and they LAUGH at him when they see him
infact theres a girl on the estate whos getting married soon and just today in the gym my mate was saying about how hes mates where batterying her saturday like the old days
shes got NO respect for you mate,,,, and when that happens its time to move on as you may get it back for a while but there WILL be times
oh and dont wanna worry you,, but if shes comfortable your that much of a cunt just imagine what shes been getting up to that she DONT tell you about
my best mate used to have a slut who was living with her man, had a little kid ect so she never went to work
he would go to work in the morning,, she would then go to her mums and drop the baby off and then she would chill with my mate and he would get head of her or just fuck her when he had time and then she would leave at 3ish to collect her youth and go back home
theres a saying i belive in TOTALLY
" if it looks like shite, smells like shit and tastes like shit,,,,, it aint chocolate fudge !!!"
and another one is most people NEVER have a idea there other half is a cheating slut till the other half gets sloppy/cockey and slips.... that point the THINK there maybe something going on,,,,, they are like you and try to argue comonsence and facts witha SLIM SLIM hope it might me something and you are being wrong
when you get the idea its going on,,, it cause it is mate
sad thing is NOW you will NEVER trust another bird so shes also taken more than you self respect,, shes also taken your trust
if she lives with you,,,, change the locks and go away for a few days ti think things through and be strong enough mentally to do the right thing
then DONT be a cunt to her,,, be civil and keep short conversations when she calls,,, let her lead the conversation and fuck with her head like shes doing with yours
theres 3 times as many girsl as there is guys these days,,,,, that means theres LOTS of birds to choose from so enjoy while you can