DROPTOP

mate just rang me saying hes been trapped by some sneaky tart . he found her in a club , nailed her a few times after . she had a boyfriend and my mate made it clear he didnt want more and she knew he never wanted kids. 3 months later she rings saying shes missed a few periods , he says why didnt you say earlier etc and says he still doesnt want kids and to get rid. 5 months later she texts saying my mum knows / ive said its you / come round for a chat blah blah .

is he evil to change his number and hide? personally i think if he made it clear from the start that he didnt want kids its unfair for her to lay it on him now! it was an unavoidable accident and if she decided to keep it then its her business .

Dan

Mate, we all know, you HAVE to bag up if you don't want kids! Especially with on one night stands!

craig todd

agreed, after all it is his seed

Mark B

So she had a lad, he was nailing her, an she can tell hes the farther? yeah she seems a special lass.

A lass up the road from me tryed this said she wanted 1500 for a private abortion. only cause she didnt want to go through the nhs cause her work could find out, (shes in the forces i dont know how it all works) i told her to fuck right off as shes a tart an sleeps around. she ended up getting rid ot it then i got talking to a lad in the pub who told me it was his. shes a fookin psycho, great ride but fooked in the head.

But doing a runner will only fuck your mate in the long run.

Taylor

iTrader: (1)

Even if he hides mate a think it would only be a matter of time before then folks from the CSA caught up with him.

Alvyn

iTrader: (1)

guess he should of put a bag on!

run and hide WHERE? should count him self lucky THAT'S ALL he's getting a call for

DROPTOP

true ... but as said accidents happen when they do they should be sorted out quick as! she knowingly didnt tell him straight away and carried on even though she knew he didnt want kids. i reckon she should sort it herself being as she made all the decisions.

Alan s1

Its a hard one

Eagle

iTrader: (2)

if you can't do the time don't do the crime ...
harsh but true ...
no doubt that the csa will get involved once its born then ..

but how sure can he be that it is his??

DROPTOP

she doesnt know where he lives lol . could be her now ex boyfriends but matey doesnt want to get involved in dna jeremy kyle shows

Phil

iTrader: (1)

I think she is probably talking poop!

Eagle

iTrader: (2)

sorry but i bet she said that too

S3an

yes mate the cause of many problems

DROPTOP

why should the woman make all the decisions yet the bloke has to accept responsibility??????? both made it happen so both should get a say in things

Lee Reynolds

Should have wore a condom.... Tough shit if ya ask me...

As for ..just 'getting rid' cos he aint been precautious...what an arse..Getting rids so nice aint it

Our friend has just had to have an abortion at 20 weeks due to baby having a massive tuma, and she SO wanted this baby...Heartbraking!!! And people like your mate think its ok to just fuck around and then 'get rid'....

Dan

Get the stupid bitch to get a DNA test then, be sure about it before he goes paying money out...

If it's his then it's his responsibilty at the end of the day, think how that kid will feel without a Dad If it's not his then no harm done is there, lesson learnt...

DROPTOP

no my mate thinks the worlds over populated enough and isnt selfish enough to knowingly bring a life into this shit hole of a world . hes said if he wants kids in the future he'll adopt and take care of a child that is here and needs someone

SassyRS

What kind of a chick is she anyway,, she had a boyfriend and was sleeping about etc... it could be her bf's kid

Anyway aside from that, hes stupid for not being careful, and will now have to pay the consequences IF it IS his baby..

Slut

Taylor

iTrader: (1)

True mate,my boss has spent 40k on IVF and then you get situations like this!

DROPTOP

what kind of girl???? a seriously hot one!!! lol ive seen the video's

he was carefull! i asked him about protection and he said its ok he always carries a knife .

still , she knew she was misleading him and knew he didnt want kids! sneaky whore imo

DROPTOP

fair play , it does alway seem that way i tried for a year and a half with my ex and nothing happened well something happened lol we had alot of sex but my swimmers just didnt swim . then you get people who slip up once and theres an unwanted popping out

Alan s1

Eagle
K5SSY

How did i know that was coming He will regeat it in time (ie may not beable to have any kids in the future ect)
He's got to find out 100% that its his tbh then go from there I would'nt like to think about not having my boy its tight on money @ times but its well worth it when you can take them out and see them enjoying them self with there "dad"

Crowder

deny everything, u cant be forced to have a paternity test. deny all and they have got no rights. If shes trapped him, do this imo.

DROPTOP

but cars , nice stuff and no overdraft is nice too lol

DROPTOP

seriously? so the csa etc cant legally force you to take a j kyle test?

Anonymous

csa = cunts end of

Dan

Harris.

Just go out with your mate as much as you can before the babys born, because he is now a CSA cash machine

Oranoco

She sounds like a special kind of girl but he gave her one without a raincoat on so he's just as responsible.

diesel2000

Regardless of whether she is a slut or not, he should have worn his wellies before he went plodging!!

Dannn

Your mate sounds like an immature selfish cunt! Did he miss the sex education lessons while at school ? Its really simple, you fuck a woman and even with precautions there is a chance she may get pregnant!

Find out if the baby is his....

If it is then he needs to start being a dad which includes both being a part of its life and paying for it.

And any bloke that needs the csa to force them to pay is the biggest cunt of all and needs their face smashed in. Fook the csa, pay your way even if that more than what the csa are demanding.

S1rst

Cause it wasnt!!! Unfortunate yes, but not unaviodable.

Eagle

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you have not dealt with the csa then ... guilty until proven otherwise..

KSA-Cossie

iTrader: (4)

Thought the csa were disbanded now ?

Martyn

Tough shit!
If you want think you are man enough to go round shagging birds with no protection, then be man enough to deal with any consequences that happen after!

Anonymous

i was paying my ex direct
£100 + a month
she thought she'd get more by going to the csa
she's now found out the hard way that isnt allways the case

Martyn

My missus gets 230 a month off her ex, you got off lightly!

Terry Tibbs

I'd kick her in the cunt.. hard.

No but seriously, if it were me, I don't know what I'd do. Running away won't sort anything though.

Dan

As with everything else in this country Pete

Physio

Havent read anymore of the thread other than the opening post....

What an irrisponsible idiot!!
Use protection ESPECIALLY IF YOU DONT EVEN KNOW THE OTHER PERSON!