Mrs T

i work in a childrens home last night one of the boy broke into my house didnt take anythin but went through all the house and through my underwear drawers, now this boy has been givin me shit for the past 6 weeks had police out to him 3 times this week for threats etc,
he has got sexual behavior problems always playing with himself,
work has given me one day off pay on monday,
now i need to know can they expect me to carry on working there knowing that he has broken into my house or can i refused to go in and still get paid?

where do i stand ?

cheers

righthooker

tough job ,fair play . but do you want to get out of it and give up on it.

Thats what you need to decide
how the hell did he get your address anyhow

CliffRS4

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I don't know the situation but he still knows where you live if you quit etc

Mrs T

ive been there 7 years this boy has been watchin me etc,

i dont want to be there with him there

Greg Shepherd

T hunny not good dont know what advice to give so just give you these

COSSIE CAL

get a bat and hit him that will stop him or get some bloke to do him over

righthooker

Then im afraid you will have to pack in if thats how you feel .
The getting paid bit is erelavent in my oppinion .
You either stay or go ,cant see it being a works problem to be honest

Mrs T

i have raised my concern's about this boy and what he has been doing for the past 6 weeks, he has made threat to harm, rape, etc,
but surely after he has broke into my house they cant expect me to work with him and care for him?

Simon

I would of thought if you can prove he entered your house then thats a police matter also he should be placed in another home

Mrs T

he has already said he done it to the police,

but i know what hes like and what he has done in my house

righthooker

Police matter ,i cant belive that your work provider hasnt contacted the polic eabout the rape threats.
POLICE ALL DAY LONG

Mrs T

think its money to them they get Ł3000 a week for him cause he is so bad

righthooker

Then you should report it yourself if you think the threats are true ,its your safety . stuff work

RichardC

you leaving wont solve anything, just leave you more exposed as you wont have contact with your workplace.

can you get professional advice yourself, as you are the victim in this.

as said, involve the police, make official complaints, make it hard for your employer to let the situation carry on.

Does the place you work for not have proceedures with dealing with this kind of situation, its clearly unacceptable.

Lloyd

if hes a danger to people, lock him up in a straight jacket.

Simon

sex case, sex case, hang him

Mr S1

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I'm not being funny but this kid is a rapist waiting to happen - he needs locking up. You don't need this - and you don't me to tell you that - so get out and go to the Police. This HAS to be reported and this kid has to have help.

Krazy Kim

I would go to the police about the continuous threats.

F**k the home and their 3K, you are worth more than that. As mentioned by Cliff, he still knows where you live and what's to stop him doing it again, or worse, carrying out his threats?

Not meaning to scare you but it's true!

You say he's told the police that he did it? What are they doing about it?

Is he special needs or just f***ed up?

You may have to even move if he continues to threaten you! I'm sure it is the works concern if he's been threatening you and you've reported it and they've ignored it or tried to coerce you into silence, making you feel like you're over reacting and it's all part of the job!

My 2 pence.

Here's a hug for you anyway, must be hell!!!

ste F

definite police matter.. if you leave.. he still has your address and he would probably just do it to some other poor bugger..

keep a diary of all incidents and continue to report it to the police until some sort of action is taken.. or speak to your employers about having him transferred possibly? but again, he still has your address..

this matter need dealing with quickly petal.. things like this just get worse.. and they get worse quick.. good luck with it.. i hope you dont have to leave you job because of some kid with problems.

Jim Galbally

erm, surely he should be in a young offenders place, not asodding kids home?

police involved!

JjCoDeX75

Completely agree with most of the comments.

I would also add that life is too short for that kind of aggro. Is there any chance that you can find a job in a similar field elsewhere?

I know that may not be the point, but at the end of the day, anything else that happens (short of him being locked up for several years) will probably result in being a short-term fix only. Better to get away from it, and let somebody else worry about it.

JJ

B19 LBP

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thanks for all ur comments on this post

teresa is makeing a statment as we speak, so hopefuly he will get banged up for a very long time

i will let teresa reply to u when she has finished

many thanks again

Krazy Kim

Good luck, get the little f***er locked up!!!!!

B19 LBP

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yeh i do hope so,

i realy felt like killing him when i found him last nite but i just phone the police and got him arrested

ste F

btw.. i will just add to my little input..

you employers legally owe you a duty of care.. how did this kid get your address? why hasnt anything been done in the past?..

they have breached their own code of conduct if you like.. speak to your employers.. tell them this and tell them you want some sort of explanation/settlement/compensation or whatever you like or you will pursue the matter..

they should take these things seriously and im sure they know that.. corner them and put the shits right up them.. i would

Krazy Kim

Used to be a youth worker, 'normal' and special needs so i know that some of them can't help how they are whereas others are just pure evil little f**ks!!!!!

Ian M

ste f is quite correct all employers have a duty of care to employees in hse law. it is clearly there fault this has happened and you need to put the onus on them to resolve it. you need to involve the police who will point out the error of the employers ways to them, making your task easier.

Kop2381

Put yourself first and report him immediately to the police good luck

RSKim

Fookin hell T, glad your making a statement hun, can't beieve your work place haven't taken this further already, its heir duty to CARE for these kids, and its obvious this kid needs more help than what your care home can give him...

Hope it all works out hunni, and you know where we all are if you need us xxx

Chin up babe, hope it sorts itself out xxxx

B19 LBP

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just given statement he gettin interviewed this afternoon,

as for finding my address he used to hang around my area with his friends, seen my car etc, and another y/p plays football in field at the top off my road, but he knows all addresses for all staff

he is on bail for playing with himself in a park in front of a lady,

from what i can gather from my manager he tryin to blame me for how he knows where i live, and i dont think he is goin to do anythin,

but why should i be made to work knowin that he has broken into my house gone through my things,

ste F

tell your boss you are pursuing this..

they are out of order.. where abouts are you from? ill get you a number for a decent lawyer in your area tomorrow

B19 LBP

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im from ramsgate kent

ste F

right ill go through the legal services directory at work tomorrow and fish out a decent employment specialist for you..

B19 LBP

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cheers, i really need to find out if they keep boy there do i have to work with him, and are they not supportin me in my job so i will lose out,

and its going to be really hard for me to change jobs now,

COSSIE CAL

get a bat and hit him that will stop him or get some bloke to do him over

Mrs T

i have thought off that many times

SteveB

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That the problem ..... waiting to happen and until summit actually happens he hasn't actually committed an offence...



My mother in law was in a similar situation, her boyfriend had "said" he would kill her and the police couldn't do a thing..... until he had strangled her to death and then they locked him up...

Jemma

Shouldnt he in a more secure place?
My mum is a team leader in a childrens home.. i've heard some stories
Dont i just know it
Last year.. I had a phonecall of this girl saying she was gonna come round beat me up then burn my son alive!
I rang the police (i was in a state) and they couldnt do anything, wouldnt even come out .. I nearly ended up in hospital that night i got so worked up

Mrs T

he has a police record for stipping in front off staff and playin with himself,

think reason why not in secure is money to the homes he has lived in

Daviet

thats shocking and i hope your works doing all they can to make sure your ok
i wouldnt be going back to work if i was you just now.id be foning in sick on monday and seeking good legal advice as to what they have to do.
thing is even tho your the victim it will be that cooont that gets the help