What should he do?
09-04-2006, 08:02 AM
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What should he do?
Had a lads night out last night with a few mates and during the course of the night my mate ended up getting with this lass he'd met. Granted they only kissed a few times, but he has a girlfriend and now he's at a loose end, does he tell her, or take the "what she doesnt know doesnt hurt her" attitude.
Personally, i'd tell her, but what do you's think?
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P.S: Got to be at work in an hour, got a banging hangover; anybody any quick remedies?
Personally, i'd tell her, but what do you's think?
JK
P.S: Got to be at work in an hour, got a banging hangover; anybody any quick remedies?
09-04-2006, 08:12 AM
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Yeah boys will be boys and you will laugh among yourselves,that he only kissed her...
But from a female point of view if i was his gilfriend who had been kissing a lad on a girlie night out she wud be all the sluts and slags under the sun!!!
A lad does it and its all ok and just one of them things that happen.
But from a female point of view if i was his gilfriend who had been kissing a lad on a girlie night out she wud be all the sluts and slags under the sun!!!
A lad does it and its all ok and just one of them things that happen.
09-04-2006, 08:17 AM
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as much as id like to argue that with you king of bling you are right that is the way in most cases, but i werent suggesting just shrug it off and laugh about it it was wrong and if he feels so bad about it maybe he will learn from it.
09-04-2006, 08:28 AM
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Day off?
Errm, i'm doing a double shift so i'l drop them in the shit bigtime as i'm on my own all day 10-4, then 4-9.30
Nevermind
Errm, i'm doing a double shift so i'l drop them in the shit bigtime as i'm on my own all day
10-4, then 4-9.30Nevermind
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09-04-2006, 09:24 AM
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like all gd women luv one ova nothing lol
as long as non of his girfriends mates seen him and doubt he got nowt to worry about,as thats when the shit would hit the fan...
but if it was only a few kisses and it was ova before it started im pretty sure he not gonna tell her..
Tell him not to start spoiling her to much thought when he starts to feel guilty coz thats when she will no somethin has happened lmao...
as long as non of his girfriends mates seen him and doubt he got nowt to worry about,as thats when the shit would hit the fan...
but if it was only a few kisses and it was ova before it started im pretty sure he not gonna tell her..
Tell him not to start spoiling her to much thought when he starts to feel guilty coz thats when she will no somethin has happened lmao...
10-04-2006, 10:34 PM
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The shit has now hit the fan
Have just got off the phone to his (now ex) g/f - my ears are killing (it hurts when you have somebody screaming down a bluetooth headset on full volume )
Apparently she found texts on his phone between me and him discussing this; duh
Have just got off the phone to his (now ex) g/f - my ears are killing (it hurts when you have somebody screaming down a bluetooth headset on full volume
)Apparently she found texts on his phone between me and him discussing this; duh
10-04-2006, 10:39 PM
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to be honest, if it was me...the guilt of doing that to someone i loved would rip me apart and i'd have to tell them.....!!!! 
and then it would make me think...."did i actually love them in the first place??"
anyhows....i wouldn't do it to my other half!!! she's worth too much to me..any other woman is 2nd best to her!!
god i'm getting old!!!
buts thats only in IMO!!!
and then it would make me think...."did i actually love them in the first place??"
anyhows....i wouldn't do it to my other half!!! she's worth too much to me..any other woman is 2nd best to her!!
god i'm getting old!!!
buts thats only in IMO!!!
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10-04-2006, 10:42 PM
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cant believe someones so stupid he would even need to ask the questuion.
course he dont bloody tell her!
whtya dont know cant hurt you
and what she dont know cant fucking ruin everything, as if she did know it bloody well would
the art of a good relationship is the art of being sly.
course he dont bloody tell her!
whtya dont know cant hurt you
and what she dont know cant fucking ruin everything, as if she did know it bloody well would
the art of a good relationship is the art of being sly.
10-04-2006, 10:43 PM
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only a complete retard would ever consider telling her. even if they stay together itl get brought up at every possible opportunity, itl be used as bribery, he wont be allowed out again 
the list goes on.........
Whats she doing going through his phone anyway? he should force feed her it for that. if youre gonna cheat at least have the man skills to get away with it, leave no clues !!!
the list goes on.........Whats she doing going through his phone anyway? he should force feed her it for that. if youre gonna cheat at least have the man skills to get away with it, leave no clues !!!
10-04-2006, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by keithG666
anyhows....i wouldn't do it to my other half!!! she's worth too much to me..any other woman is 2nd best to her!!
awwww how sweet
10-04-2006, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by keithG666
Originally Posted by Itsmeagain
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Women arent as stupid as men
10-04-2006, 10:52 PM
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Originally Posted by keithG666
Originally Posted by Itsmeagain
amatuers
10-04-2006, 10:52 PM
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Originally Posted by -_-Sally-_-
Originally Posted by keithG666
anyhows....i wouldn't do it to my other half!!! she's worth too much to me..any other woman is 2nd best to her!!
awwww how sweet
joking aside...i've met lots of women....and now found what i would call 'the one'....so why blow it all on some 'snog'???
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Sheer amatuers!
He should have kept it on the down low...
That means deleting texts, and making sure all of the boys are on the same level, that way she'll never know
*i dont condone cheating at all, but once its done its time to cover it up as much as possible!
He should have kept it on the down low...
That means deleting texts, and making sure all of the boys are on the same level, that way she'll never know
*i dont condone cheating at all, but once its done its time to cover it up as much as possible!
10-04-2006, 10:53 PM
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Originally Posted by chip-3door
Originally Posted by keithG666
Originally Posted by Itsmeagain
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Women arent as stupid as men
10-04-2006, 10:59 PM
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Originally Posted by chip-3door
Originally Posted by keithG666
Originally Posted by Itsmeagain
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Women arent as stupid as men
not that i'm bitter!!!
