I Need Some Advice, I Am Struggling To Keep Away!
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I Need Some Advice, I Am Struggling To Keep Away!
I know I shouldn't be the one trying to get in touch with my girlfriend, she has caused so much trouble. I promised myself I would keep away and I can't. I was going to go the gym and try and get her out my head, my car broke down again which has blew that idea out the window.
I've tried lots of things, walking my dog, playing on console etc, it's not working.
Any Ideas? Benni.
I've tried lots of things, walking my dog, playing on console etc, it's not working.
Any Ideas? Benni.
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Originally Posted by m4dyeti
go out with ya mates 
danger wank in woolies
danger wank in woolies
Luckily I decided to go to bed. 
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Jus remind yourself why she's not your girlfriend, rationalise it...go to the pub with your mates, phone a chinky (chinese takeaway for political correctness) or an Indian (i'd go for an Indian personally) an hire a DVD, Go on faceparty and chat up some slappers from your area just DONT go running to her if she's caused you grief...mind if I ask what she done?
just DONT go running to her if she's caused you grief...mind if I ask what she done?
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If you dont mind hairy armpits I'm sure Chip can sort you out with a nice girl... only problem is you will have to marry her and have half her family move in with you....
Alternatively, occupy your hands fixing your car !
Alternatively, occupy your hands fixing your car !
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Originally Posted by Benni
How about their parents?
I haven't spoken to my girlfriend for most of this christmas holiday, her mum and dad hate me to the point where her dad wants to break my legs and I asked her to promise me she wouldn't let them come in between us as we get on fine when there not around, she promised me and then broke it. Whenever I go around, they go out of there way to put me in a situation which is wrong. It's upsetting as I like her alot.
Sarah has a friend called Abdul, her mum invited him round for christmas eve, christmas day and then boxing day. He's just lost his mum and lives in a care home. I don't have a problem with him, I even took him out in my car for the day and took him for a long drive and something to eat.
Anyway, I told sarah I would take her for a meal around the christmas time, I booked a table and then her mum told me Adul was coming. I tried to explain it was all booked and I wanted to take my girlfriend out. I explained to Abdul the situation and told him we would all go out together another time, he was happy with this. Her parents where not. They told Sarah to finish with me because I was selfish and didn't like her having friends. I wanted to go around to there house and explain but whenever I asked what was the problem they would act all childish with comments like 'Emmerdale was fantastic tonight'. Randomness, all because they couldn't asnwer my questions.
Me and my girlfriend had planned to spent new years eve together and go out for a mean and a drink, I asked her would she like us to invite friends and she said no. So I told my friend Gary he couldn't come which wasn't very nice of me but he understood. Then she told me she had booked a tale for three, I asked who was coming and her mum shouted 'Abdul is going, do you have a problem with that Ben?' Before I even answered the question her dad starting mumbling something about 'selfish kids'. I then told her this was fine and I didn't mind, so I would reinvite Gary. Then her mum asked me was I gay? Then I asked her why she asked? And her dad started to become nasty and said 'She can ask questions, it's her house Ben'. Anyway, I invited Gary again and then Abdul couldn't go only hours before. I was then told by her mum I would have to tell Gary it's now off. I never, and as a result I spent new year with Gary and Sarah spent it with her parents.
I know you shouldn't hit women, but I would love to smash her mums face in for her, she is such a trouble causer. Sarah won't speak to me, and Abdul tells me Sarah's mum text him telling him to come round and comfort Sarah.
Benni.
I haven't spoken to my girlfriend for most of this christmas holiday, her mum and dad hate me to the point where her dad wants to break my legs and I asked her to promise me she wouldn't let them come in between us as we get on fine when there not around, she promised me and then broke it. Whenever I go around, they go out of there way to put me in a situation which is wrong. It's upsetting as I like her alot.
Sarah has a friend called Abdul, her mum invited him round for christmas eve, christmas day and then boxing day. He's just lost his mum and lives in a care home. I don't have a problem with him, I even took him out in my car for the day and took him for a long drive and something to eat.
Anyway, I told sarah I would take her for a meal around the christmas time, I booked a table and then her mum told me Adul was coming. I tried to explain it was all booked and I wanted to take my girlfriend out. I explained to Abdul the situation and told him we would all go out together another time, he was happy with this. Her parents where not. They told Sarah to finish with me because I was selfish and didn't like her having friends. I wanted to go around to there house and explain but whenever I asked what was the problem they would act all childish with comments like 'Emmerdale was fantastic tonight'. Randomness, all because they couldn't asnwer my questions.
Me and my girlfriend had planned to spent new years eve together and go out for a mean and a drink, I asked her would she like us to invite friends and she said no. So I told my friend Gary he couldn't come which wasn't very nice of me but he understood. Then she told me she had booked a tale for three, I asked who was coming and her mum shouted 'Abdul is going, do you have a problem with that Ben?' Before I even answered the question her dad starting mumbling something about 'selfish kids'. I then told her this was fine and I didn't mind, so I would reinvite Gary. Then her mum asked me was I gay? Then I asked her why she asked? And her dad started to become nasty and said 'She can ask questions, it's her house Ben'. Anyway, I invited Gary again and then Abdul couldn't go only hours before. I was then told by her mum I would have to tell Gary it's now off. I never, and as a result I spent new year with Gary and Sarah spent it with her parents.
I know you shouldn't hit women, but I would love to smash her mums face in for her, she is such a trouble causer. Sarah won't speak to me, and Abdul tells me Sarah's mum text him telling him to come round and comfort Sarah.
Benni.
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Originally Posted by xr-stu
fucks sake benni mate, i honestly dont know how you kept your cool!! id have just lost it!!
I am trying my best to show them I care for her, I have never and wouldn't let her come to any harm, she means alot to me. If I don't keep my cool and deal with this in an adult manner I will just give them what they are after, I don't want that.
They have the cheek even know to phone me up and ask me would I take Abdul home, I have said yes everytime as I don't have a problem with Abdul at all. When Sarah rang me to ask, I heard her mum in the background saying 'Has he got a problem with this Sarah'. Then when I went around there nobody wished me a happy christmas even though I wished all them one and then I asked was Abdul ready and her mum said 'He's watching the rest of Eastenders first, Don't rush him, it's my home'. Then her dad mumbled something about jealousy.
Then, they rang up some of the family and basicly told them Sarah had a mate round and ben kept asking when was he going home'. Absolutely twisted what I said and what happend.
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Originally Posted by m4dyeti
go out with ya mates
danger wank in woolies
danger wank in woolies
Luckily I decided to go to bed. if ya snoooze ya loose
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I will give you an example of what an ignorant snotty bitch her mum is, we went to tesco shopping in the Kia Rio, I came along and as I shut the door it slammed. I apologised and no more was said, the next day sarah told me her mum was thinking of having the door checked out at Kia and sending me the bill. Her dad then told me it's exactly the same as kicking the door, only you can't see the damage. He used changing from 5th to reverse as an example, there's damage but you can't see it. Apparently it was jealousy. Then I tried to explain I was not jealous and she told me I should be. Then I tried once again to explain her door was alot lighter than mine and I did it complety by accident. The matter was settled until we was all watching top gear and we seen I think what was a jaguar with very light doors? Clarkson was in the petrol station and blew the door to show you how light it was. She then told me how he never slammed the door. Then she told me my car was crap because the doors where heavy and she shared the same design as a jaguar. The matter wouldn't go away until I apologised about 25 times. I asked sarah if I was to come round would anyone mention it. She said it had all been forgotten but had it shite. I went to sarahs auntie who has a zafira and her mum in a nasty manner told everyone to watch I didn't slam the door as I have one hell of a temper.
Benni.
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Originally Posted by Chip-3Door
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You are coming across as a right sad and desperate cunt, cant imagine ANY bird wanting to be around someone so pathetic
Pull yourself together FFS
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You are coming across as a right sad and desperate cunt, cant imagine ANY bird wanting to be around someone so pathetic
Pull yourself together FFS
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in a more sympathetic way i do agree though Benni..you always seem to have some drama going on in your life........maybe you should find some new mates and another bird
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What age are you mate? i find it pretty childish that you should get bossed about by someone else`s mum, it seems to me as if her mum wants abdul in her life more than you, if it was me id go with the flow, phone a few mates, go for a few nights out , get some cow for the rebound and forget about it
easier said than done? probably but whats isnt
easier said than done? probably but whats isnt
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Originally Posted by Chip-3Door
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You are coming across as a right sad and desperate cunt, cant imagine ANY bird wanting to be around someone so pathetic
Pull yourself together FFS
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You are coming across as a right sad and desperate cunt, cant imagine ANY bird wanting to be around someone so pathetic
Pull yourself together FFS
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jeezo, sounds like her mums a complete baird! Only one thing you can do IMO...Tell Sarah if she wants to go out with you then your having nothing to do with her family and dont wish to speak to/see them in light of their behaviour, if she likes you and understands then sorted but if she takes their side and thinks they are in the right then theirs your answer!
Personally to me it sounds like way too much grief! 
Personally to me it sounds like way too much grief!
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Why the fuck would you want anything to do with this family, they seem like a right stuck up pack of snotty nosed cunts, nd the fact they drive a fucking kia rio indicates to me that there old fella isnt richard branson. So just fuck them off and get a cheap tart who takes it up the wrongen
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Originally Posted by vroooom ptssssh
jeezo, sounds like her mums a complete baird! Only one thing you can do IMO...Tell Sarah if she wants to go out with you then your having nothing to do with her family and dont wish to speak to/see them in light of their behaviour, if she likes you and understands then sorted but if she takes their side and thinks they are in the right then theirs your answer!
Personally to me it sounds like way too much grief!
Personally to me it sounds like way too much grief!
Do it now. Then tell us.
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abdul isnt the guy that pumped her at the gym or tried to was it 
can you honestly see it getting any better with the family and her? sound like your on losing battle imo and as vroom said not worth the grief
can you honestly see it getting any better with the family and her? sound like your on losing battle imo
and as vroom said not worth the grief
i mentioned, in another thread, that you should tell her you are dumping her because of her nutjob parents
don't tell me you actually went ahead and did that
and, if you did, why the fuck are you moaning like a little puppy that's been left out int he rain?
if she comes back to you then consider a rekindling of relations, but otherwise stay the fuck away from this one, she's not worth it mate
don't tell me you actually went ahead and did that
and, if you did, why the fuck are you moaning like a little puppy that's been left out int he rain?
if she comes back to you then consider a rekindling of relations, but otherwise stay the fuck away from this one, she's not worth it mate
Originally Posted by Daviet
abdul isnt the guy that pumped her at the gym or tried to was it
can you honestly see it getting any better with the family and her? sound like your on losing battle imo and as vroom said not worth the grief
can you honestly see it getting any better with the family and her? sound like your on losing battle imo
and as vroom said not worth the griefedited to say that it's looking more and more like she's taken him in for both the pity factor and that he'll be much more compliant to her talking down to him than benni was
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Congratulations, it sounds like you've met the year 2007 Adams/Burbs family
She sounds like a fuck-wit for putting up with it and more so, so do you! Walk away now while you can as it sounds like they'll bury you instead of putting up with you!
I bet Abdul's hanging out the back of her while your reading this!
She sounds like a fuck-wit for putting up with it and more so, so do you! Walk away now while you can as it sounds like they'll bury you instead of putting up with you!
I bet Abdul's hanging out the back of her while your reading this!
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Life is far too short to be worrying about one woman...go out and get wankered, shag 'til your dick hurts and then do it all again!!!! Sounds like her parents should be on Jeremy Kyle or the like....and I would give her old man a slap and tell her mother to fuck off and die!! If she shacks up with Abdul let her crack on...she'll be knocked up with a shit load of rug rats and claiming benefits in no time. Then when he fucks off and leaves her and she has to go back to her parents you can just put a big smile on your face and laugh.
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