How about their parents?
I haven't spoken to my girlfriend for most of this christmas holiday, her mum and dad hate me to the point where her dad wants to break my legs and I asked her to promise me she wouldn't let them come in between us as we get on fine when there not around, she promised me and then broke it. Whenever I go around, they go out of there way to put me in a situation which is wrong. It's upsetting as I like her alot.
Sarah has a friend called Abdul, her mum invited him round for christmas eve, christmas day and then boxing day. He's just lost his mum and lives in a care home. I don't have a problem with him, I even took him out in my car for the day and took him for a long drive and something to eat.
Anyway, I told sarah I would take her for a meal around the christmas time, I booked a table and then her mum told me Adul was coming. I tried to explain it was all booked and I wanted to take my girlfriend out. I explained to Abdul the situation and told him we would all go out together another time, he was happy with this. Her parents where not. They told Sarah to finish with me because I was selfish and didn't like her having friends. I wanted to go around to there house and explain but whenever I asked what was the problem they would act all childish with comments like 'Emmerdale was fantastic tonight'. Randomness, all because they couldn't asnwer my questions.
Me and my girlfriend had planned to spent new years eve together and go out for a mean and a drink, I asked her would she like us to invite friends and she said no. So I told my friend Gary he couldn't come which wasn't very nice of me but he understood. Then she told me she had booked a tale for three, I asked who was coming and her mum shouted 'Abdul is going, do you have a problem with that Ben?' Before I even answered the question her dad starting mumbling something about 'selfish kids'. I then told her this was fine and I didn't mind, so I would reinvite Gary. Then her mum asked me was I gay? Then I asked her why she asked? And her dad started to become nasty and said 'She can ask questions, it's her house Ben'. Anyway, I invited Gary again and then Abdul couldn't go only hours before. I was then told by her mum I would have to tell Gary it's now off. I never, and as a result I spent new year with Gary and Sarah spent it with her parents.
I know you shouldn't hit women, but I would love to smash her mums face in for her, she is such a trouble causer. Sarah won't speak to me, and Abdul tells me Sarah's mum text him telling him to come round and comfort Sarah.
Benni.
