really good freind split from g/f, and he moved into mine, and has also used my bm for the last 4 months

he is not very tidy and we had light "words" about this, and every time he agreed to clean up after himself, and generally keep in mind that he should respect my home, and my car...

so
for the past week, ive been woken to the sound of him raping my car from when he starts it up..
i asked him not to rape my car, and the following has happened


we rent a yard with 2 big workshops and other buildings where we both work from, and he has moved into a campervan there...


he says its so we re not under each others feet, which is fair enough, but i feel like its some sort of sympahy vote....



carl

 

Tell the ungrateful cunt to go fuck himself & enjoy his stay in the camper van!

 

mark

 

you reckon thats how hes seeing it....
real good mates etc, but just seems like he using my place as a "i dont give a fuck, its not my place, stop gap/...."

his untidyness became an issue and i know the following is a tiny "thing" to winge about but.....

ie: asking me to move up on the one couch, so he could sit down, but the other couch was full of his clothes/books etc....
i said no sod off, clean your shit up and sit there....he took offence, and was in a strop for the rest of the day


carl

 

most people would of said the same

mark

 

Sounds like you are a "really good friend" as you put it, but it doesnt sound much like he is!

 

not sure if thats sacrasm chip knowing what your like on here
but ill take it as a compliment

thing is, he s had a real rough time of late
lost his house
split with g/f
and his much loved dog had to be put down,
and although it can be annoying him living here at times, i feel a cunt that he has decided he would prefer to live in a van...


carl

 

Sounds like the two of you are married .

 

mate you've done your bit by the sounds of it, he needs to learn some respect maybe thats what this will teach him.

 

tell me about it...
he keeps giving it
"your not getting owt off me until you ve brushed your teeth and cleaned that kebab off your face, you pissed up bastard"

 

Sound ideal!

You get peace & quiet, less mess and Security at the Yard*














*has he discussed wages yet

 

lol,...didnt think of it like that

 

Carl - If he hasn't stuck by your house/car rules then let me stay in the shitty camper...

You've told him about it and he hasn't helped out or changed his ways. So he's shot himself in the foot IMO...

Give it a couple of weeks and he be grovelling for his room back...

Then promptly tell him to go forth and multiply unless the messy cunt sorts his ways out

 

Wasnt sarcasm mate, you sound like you have done your best to be a really good friend to him, he doesnt sound like has done the same, but obviously thats probably becuase of all the factors you mentioned.

 

looks like he's already had the sympathy you can give him

sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind

 

He's been $hitting on your good nature

Don't worry about it

Steve.

 

Seconded.

 

if he cant respect your belongings, then id personally have kicked him out, id just let him stay in the campervan, how bloody ungrateful can you get....

some people these days really do make me wonder

 

ok

get a call saying he s in preston,(24 miles away) and i need to drop the keys off with him for the yard because hes left his in the yard




errrr no...
i live 2 miles away from the yard, come and get the keys, in MY car, on your way to the yard....

what the fuck is wrong with some people

 

it's about time u knutted the twat innit..........................sorry.......... .....but he does need a slap.....in a nice way

 

im with chip,sounds to me like he aint exactly a good mate.you have gone out of your way to help a friend in need and all he has done is disrespect you,your home and your car.thats just not on.let him stay in his pikey home and he may learn some decent respect for others.

 

Carl he sounds like he is being a tosser, if he is a good mate have a proper 'discussion ' about it and go thru what your annoyed about and get him to have empathy for you!!


Carl

 

he needs to be told were to go mate or you will end up losing him as a mate

 

Tell him you'll meet him at the gate at a specific time that suits you.

If he's fucked you off that badly change the lock and get a key only for yourself...

I would be worrying about getting my car back in one piece aswell

 

More patience then me i would have twated the prick by now and told him to get fucked,

Friends would not do this to any body they would be so appericiative


Mike

 

When you say Raping the car.....

 

he's not a 'good mate' if he's nailing the shit out of your BM, and wrecking your gaff.

 

go piss in his water supply!

complete cunt!

i had 'friends' like that.... once

 

Sounds like hes taking the piss out of a mate he doesnt deserve and needs to learn some fooking respect.

Ive had a "few" of those sadly and one by one ive fooked them all off.

 

As above, sounds like the geezer is taking the piss out of you pal...

You say he's a really good/close mate but I can't help but wonder - is it more so that he's a mate that YOU really like, but he's not actually that fussed about you? We've all had those kinda mates, a friend that you really like and wanna be good mates with, but the "love" (for want of a better word) isn't mutual and in reality he isn't that fussed about being a good mate with you, so milks whatever is coming his way....

If thats the case, wake up and ship the cunt out - you don't need that kinda "friendship" in your life pal - I know, I've been there and it's actually very self destructive......

 

Until readding about the keys I was going to say that some people just can't change being untidy - especially when he's got other things on his mind - so he may have moved out to not do your friendship any more harm.

The keys thing did fook that up though