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Old May 11, 2007 | 11:12 PM
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Was talking about this in the pub today after work so was just wondering...would you sleep with one of your mates exs or not?

Conversation came up coz a mate of ours has just split up with his (quite fit) girlfriend about a fortnight ago and shes supposed to be dirty as fuck anyway another mate has been chatting her up by text but now hes pretty much got her knickers off hes having second thoughts

personally I said to him go for it, afterall shes worth a squirt and its not as though shes still with our other mate, so nothing wrong there really?

The tits still reluctant to get in there mind
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Old May 11, 2007 | 11:17 PM
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fooking wrong that is . wouldnt do that to a 'proper' mate , to someone i just know i deffo would
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Old May 11, 2007 | 11:21 PM
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Too soon IMO
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Old May 11, 2007 | 11:30 PM
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ive got the WORST willpower in the world, so i have, a few times

infact ive done worse than that.

im deffo not proud of what ive done.

but who ive done, i am
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Old May 11, 2007 | 11:31 PM
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Jenny???
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Old May 11, 2007 | 11:35 PM
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Depends how serious it was
if going out for years then what a cunt he is
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Old May 11, 2007 | 11:36 PM
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Me n one of me oldest mates have diddled a few of the same girls, never been a problem between us. We both know the score TBH.
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Originally Posted by rs_daz
Jenny???
whos jenny? ive done more than 1 of them

hunt?

no, never been there, she shown me her pussy once in fez years ago mind, but no, never been there

done no badness with people i really shouldnt for at least a year i think, nothings ever came up unlike wils, who it comes up for, constantly, the bastard, lol

but done some bad things, tho
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Old May 11, 2007 | 11:44 PM
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Yeah thats the one from cleeve Stunning

Wils fair play to him lol lucky man
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Old May 11, 2007 | 11:55 PM
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aye, she lovely, but no, never have, and the proper loved up these days anyhow, and fair play, he sound, unlike her ex whos a cock so she was fair game then

heres an old pic from the good old days when she was with her old bf mind





im not gonna go any deeper into people i did mean tho, as, erm, well id be stupid to say wouldnt i
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Old May 11, 2007 | 11:56 PM
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It depends on your mate, if he is still getting over her dont do it, if he doesnt give a toss then it might be ok, but maybe worth asking him subtly first? I've had two of my best friends now go off with my gf's whilst we were together because I was working away and its a really f-ing horrible thing for them to do.

Another one of my friends went off with another mates gf the day they broke up, that was bad and they didnt speak for a year (I still dont speak to the wankers who did it to me, and feel like decking them when i see them).

On the other hand, if they were dating for like 3 days, it doesnt really count, or if he dumped her cos she was a squico that is ok too, ive done that and found out quickly that she really was a nutter and got outta there myself pretty quickish!
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Old May 12, 2007 | 12:01 AM
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Yeah Lukes sound

Nice pic
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Old May 12, 2007 | 12:03 AM
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Yes, and i have been with her for 2.5years now
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Old May 12, 2007 | 12:04 AM
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Yeah, she totally changed when she met Luke, she was always the comedy naughty bird to mess about with, and never imagined em to get all sensible, but they both like a right married couple, she totally different, fair play to him, tamed her, legend

Its the other way round ones you need to worry about, the ones who are mint but seem so innocent, they the right dodgy ones, oh so dodgy...
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Old May 12, 2007 | 08:15 AM
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Score at the moment is that they split up about a fortnight ago but have been on and off for 3 months or so now, breaking up, getting back together etc...

In all honesty I dont think my mate would be too bothered as hes currently busy shagging away with his twin brothers ex g/f

Got a party tonight though so gonna try persuade my mate to get stuck in and if he doesnt might have a go myself (good job my g/f doesnt use the internet innit )
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Old May 12, 2007 | 08:17 AM
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jus do it on the sly, nobody knows nobody minds.

get in there 1st tho, fuck sloppy 2nds, if everyones all gonna have a go, get in there 1st so u can take the piss
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Old May 12, 2007 | 08:27 AM
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I wouldnt do it, not worth all the hassle tbh
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Old May 12, 2007 | 08:41 AM
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i like your style stavros

na it is wrong & i heard roumors of a mate doing it to me a few years ago & he's no longer a mate & she's long gone now aswell, so there is allot to be lost like, but you wouldnt be finished with her if you didnt want anyone else with her would you

but on the other hand i have done it myself, but not after a mates long term relationship if that makes sense
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Old May 12, 2007 | 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Stavros
jus do it on the sly, nobody knows nobody minds.

get in there 1st tho, fuck sloppy 2nds, if everyones all gonna have a go, get in there 1st so u can take the piss
Exactly do it on the sly much more fun and it causes no shit, and if you do get caught just blame the lass and say she's only trying to cause shit and upset her ex
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Old May 12, 2007 | 10:22 AM
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yer naughty lol nice pic
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Wrong! but i have done it myself!
worse is getting with one of your best mates sisters when they have a boyfriend! goes down like a lead baloon i can tell you! especially when they find out and so does the boyfriend! oh well.... a year on and we are together and there aint much anyone can do about it! we are both definately happer than we have ever been before!
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Originally Posted by CabrioTurbo
oh well.... a year on and we are together and there aint much anyone can do about it!!
have you not seen csi !?! guys probably got his plan perfected and ready by now.
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Old May 12, 2007 | 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Stavros
aye, she lovely, but no, never have, and the proper loved up these days anyhow, and fair play, he sound, unlike her ex whos a cock so she was fair game then

heres an old pic from the good old days when she was with her old bf mind





im not gonna go any deeper into people i did mean tho, as, erm, well id be stupid to say wouldnt i
how fit is she, looks a familiar face

The good old ring road in the background
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Old May 12, 2007 | 02:24 PM
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round of applause for the lady
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I`d hit it any time!!!!
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Old May 12, 2007 | 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Nash
Yes, and i have been with her for 2.5years now

You've been with who......your mates leftovers
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Old May 12, 2007 | 02:44 PM
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i probably wouldnt sleep with them . i would shag her though
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Originally Posted by PT
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Yes, and i have been with her for 2.5years now

You've been with who......your mates leftovers
that would make for an uncomortable drink in the pub.sitting with your mate and bird knowing he'd given her a good shafting before you
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My best mate is going out with a girl who half of us have drilled. I bet it pisses him right off, she is a right slag but at least he is happy
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Tbh use and abuse imo, but sparking up a proper relationship with a lass that most of your mates have hung out the back off is jst not on. He should be inviting you all round to fuck the shit out of her or have a day each pumping her. Women are only good for 1 thing bummng end of
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I went to uni with her and she was a slag in the first year. My mate came down for a night out from back home and he shagged her. Now they are going out and she is moving up to live near him
I would be lying if I told you everytime I saw her it didnt remind me of her sucking my knob
Just split up with my missus of two years so no relationships for me for a long time, sorry if this is new info to passionforders, I didnt feel the need to put up another ive split up with missus post on a ford forum lol
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Yes, and i have been with her for 2.5years now

You've been with who......your mates leftovers
that would make for an uncomortable drink in the pub.sitting with your mate and bird knowing he'd given her a good shafting before you
WTF do you know about it dick head?

They only went out for a couple of months and she finished him a good while before we started going out. I have never had a problem with it[mind you i do know hes got a tiny dick so that might help] and neither does Steph.

Dont talk to said mate anymore as he pissed me off after they split because of something totally different.
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never touch a mates bird at all, even if there a shite mate its still a personal goal not to

its alot easier to fuck a bird who you know and she offers it than fuck a bird you dont know

thats the ONLY reason why people do it, the amount of people ive met over the years that have met my missus and then cause she talks to them they think shes gonna fuck em and carry on talking to her pretending the old " where just mates" line

i was about to fuck up a mates brother recently for the exact same thing, i LOVE the way people get REAL cheap and start trouble trying to fuck with the heads too,, just cause you got a normal relationship and got a bird whos able to talk in a conversation rather than a moody bitch whos too busy t being jealous of her bloke talking to other people to care about actually talking to other people

all the people i grew up with i no longer talk to proper cause of 1 person wanting to get with nikki and all my other mates trying to cause trouble,,,, and they was talking shite too and was expecting me to either ignore it or not say anything to them

why do you need to drill your mates ex bird ?...... if hes one of the "cool" mates then you wouldnt think of it incase you lost him as a mate,,,,,, if hes a geeky mate who you think is a wanker then you think hes pulled a bird whos gonna be any good in bed ?

cant see the point being with my mates ex bird who was so dry in bed that hes got rid of her


get a new bird and leave the old slags to your mates stories

if i broke up with a bird and a mate of mine even SPOKE to her id fuck him off as a mate,,,, hes only met the bird through me,, we brake up he looses her as a mate just like i have

oh and the people who say they find a bird interesting as a mate


STOP TALKING SUCH FUCKING BOLLOX,. most women cant even have more than 2 good close mates for 6 months wihout breaking up or having some sort of fall out about some fucking pointless thing

when guys fall out we have a fight and sort it out the next day UNLESS the row got his bird involved then the same mate aint allowed to talkl to you untill SHES happy with forgetting about it

when girls fall out,, they fall out and NEVER get close again and cant forget about the reason they had that cat fight


women and NOT interesting to have as mates, theres a few who are interesting to talk to about certain things or have a few jokes with

you cant go pub with a bird as a mate and NOT think in the back of your head " theres only us 2, wonder if i can give her one onthe sly"


notice that guys never have fat minger birds as good mates to go and have a drink with at lunch time just the two of them ????


so no dont fuck your mates ex,,,, as he may be a quiet guy who mixes with a new crowd and then when he sees you next with his mates may decide to show you how he feels

strange that aint it


oh btw this same person who tried it on with my bird when i seen him another pub a while later he got his older cousin whos a boxer to try and bully me

i had a fucking fight with a boxer outside a pub and the cunt broke my nose all cause the sad prick couldnt pull a bird and didnt like me showing him that i dont like being taken for a cunt and so he used another person t bully me and was laughing thinking i would back down

broken nose was worth it though as he crosses the street when he sees me now on his own and his cousin aint bothered comming back to me since i had a row even though i got beat up

world is full of enough cunts,,, dont add to the list
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Yes, and i have been with her for 2.5years now

You've been with who......your mates leftovers
that would make for an uncomortable drink in the pub.sitting with your mate and bird knowing he'd given her a good shafting before you
WTF do you know about it dick head?

They only went out for a couple of months and she finished him a good while before we started going out. I have never had a problem with it[mind you i do know hes got a tiny dick so that might help] and neither does Steph.

Dont talk to said mate anymore as he pissed me off after they split because of something totally different.
imo theres too many girls about that i wouldnt wanna be giving a mates bird one

but thats me,,, im not perfect though as i chased my missus when she had a partner and i had a partner,,,,, who was her BEST MATE

but thats different as,,, well its different
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WTF do you know about it dick head?

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Ginge !

Any women is fair game imo aslong as they aint seeing someone cause thats just rude. I must admit though i wouldnt do it to close friends but people who you know of its fair game imo
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Yes, and i have been with her for 2.5years now

You've been with who......your mates leftovers
that would make for an uncomortable drink in the pub.sitting with your mate and bird knowing he'd given her a good shafting before you
WTF do you know about it dick head?

They only went out for a couple of months and she finished him a good while before we started going out. I have never had a problem with it[mind you i do know hes got a tiny dick so that might help] and neither does Steph.

Dont talk to said mate anymore as he pissed me off after they split because of something totally different.
imo theres too many girls about that i wouldnt wanna be giving a mates bird one

but thats me,,, im not perfect though as i chased my missus when she had a partner and i had a partner,,,,, who was her BEST MATE

but thats different as,,, well its different
Fair point.

Just need to add though, neither of us chased each other. Nothing happened when we were going out with our ex's. Infact it was about 5.5months after she finished my mate and i didnt talk to him by time anyway. I had been down the Falklands for 4months aswell.

I can see the points people are putting across though, but every situation is different.
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Old May 12, 2007 | 05:18 PM
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i agree what your saying
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Old May 12, 2007 | 05:56 PM
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If there over then who cares, especially if she is fit

Years ago i shagged my mates ex missus (only split up a few weeks before, if that) and my other mate was fast asleep in the same bed
He was out of it so didnt wake him and it was only about 2 weeks later that i told him. The girls ex (my other mate) never found out
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Old May 12, 2007 | 06:01 PM
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Just ask the girls ex if he minds as you/whoever obviously know him.

Just ask him, say something could happen and would he mind if it did.

If he doesn't mind then go for it, if he does and you value the friendship, don't bother.
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