as above whats the best product to get brake fluid of paint work??
i have tried autoglym resin polish and tar remover, also tried poorboys polish, and even a little bit of safe cut, and white spirit! but still wont shift it!!

 

Have you tried some petrol

 

doesnt brake fluid strip your paint off?

 

Yes, it usually does damage it severely. I would suggest you get to a decent bodyshop asap and let them take a look.