Honestly tho, REALLY think about this, have you girl mates that you dont fancy in the slightest?

When ive thought about it ive came to the conclusion that only birds I ever bother treating as mates was ones I fancied and where slipping one into em looked a possibility at some point

Soon as that possibility dissapeared or they got not as fit the interest in spending any time with em or speaking to them suddenly dissapeared...

My oh my im shallow

TBH I think most people are like that, they just in denial...