That text is harsh, not really sure what to make of it, women are so hard work i think you should ring her and apologise and just go from there.

although she has 2 kids like said above, don't mean shit, my ex and i were together for 5yrs, we have a nearly 5yr old kid, and she cheated on me 4 times the first being when lil'un was 1, the last being when he was nearly 3