Best advice given on this thread so far IMHO:
Originally Posted by DazS1Turbo
Listen and read to people's experience's LESS
Things will and do get better you have to help yourself tho mate..........
Only YOU control your own state of mind, its just such a fucking weak willed copout attitude when people start saying its the fualt of others or the state of the country etc.
I have a family member who has just lost a grandchild, had to sell their house due to the collapse of a business venture, has to do a job they dont really like very much, and has some quite bad health problems.
And yet everytime i see her she is smiling, not cause life is dealing her fantastic cards, is it fuck! but just cause she has the right outlook.
Likewise i know of some right miserable twats who havent really got any reason to be, it just turns into a viscous circle and also becomes a self-fulling prophecy, if you REALLY believe you are a piece of shit that only bad things will happen to, thats basically what is going to happen in the long run, cause your attitude will make it, like if you spend the whole time miserable etc then eventually the people who do care (like your bird or whoever) will just fuck off, a lack of motivation will lose you your job, etc