At the end of the day, we are all complicated in our own little ways, but fundamentally life is simple, you either look for the good or you look for the bad, and it doesnt matter how bad your life is if you look for the good you will be happy and it doesnt matter how good your life is if you look for the bad you will be unhappy, you only have to look at all the popstars etc with depression despite having a seemingly fantastic lifestlye, happiness is just a state of mind it doesnt really rely on much external influence