Im lost as to what they atually want? whats the dangerous bit talking to someone or not using two hands for the wheel?

Use blue tooth or a parrot and you're ok? so its not the talking to someone, so it can only be using two hands on the wheel at all times? in which case i should imagine theres alot of drivers on here that should be " banned and rightly so " if it was up to the PF jury for only having one hand on the wheel