Right, got a date tonight with a lovely young lady I met through work. The problem I have is I know already I don't want anymore than mates, preferably mates with benefits!!

We've only really been contacting each other lots these last coupla days and I'm getting the feeling she's after too much already.. She's hinting about going on holiday, and asking me too much to soon if ya know what I mean. I told her I was only after mates and see how it goes, and I was looking forward to just having a meal and a laugh!

The thing is her and her whole family are very close to a mate of mine, and said mate's been telling them how sound I am etc etc and I won't fuck her about. And he's basically threatened to kill me if I do! She's only 21 bless her, I'm 31!!

In fairness she may say herself after tonight she ain't interested, and that's cool. But if she is, do I have me fun and face some abuse, or just fuck her off in a nice way?

Help!!