Yeah we do both work full time, so maybe that is part of it, she reads her school books regulaly to us and we tkae her to bed and do kisses and cuddles daily etc. Star chart ive thought of doing as not only is it giving her something to work to but its something she can do with us and she can be proud of and show off to mummy and daddy.

Like i said im going to have a chat with her again in the morning and see what can sort out, im actually doing the school run all next week so might treat her if shes good and take her somewhere, although when its not the childminder picking her up, she tends to get in more trouble than normal!!!