Crikey, hasn't this turned into a batty fest.

I totally believe that gays are mostly born that way and whilst I don't want to have it forced upon me because to me it's not something I want to see, I have no issue with botty bandits and for me it is just banter, I think if the truth be known, Dan/Gracey/Alex know that.

The whole point of the thread was that it appears as though gays seek some further and more dangerous level of excitement and I genuinely wondered if that is the case or just the way the media expose it?

I'm also intrigued as to how and why many men, once they come out of the closet, begin to talk like an absolute mincer, when they didn't before. Is there a switch up your arse that once it's been tripped makes certain changes to you, like giving you a homo-voice, making you wear skinny jeans and calling everyone 'sweety'?

Further to this, Radders has had a Rampant Rabbit up his arse and he doesn't appear that gay, so maybe this switch is cock-sensitive?