Why is it that benders can't do conventional sexual things?

I read about another presenter that has died in 'unexplained' circumstances, I know it's pretty vague, but I'll bet he had his fella in his hand and a belt round his neck, or something like that.

http://news.sky.com/skynews/Home/UK-...is_London_Flat

WTF?

Do queers somehow end up in some kind of ridiculous pattern of needing more and more bizarre ways to get themselves off?