thanks for the kind words, as i said though we decided to call it a day as she wasnt happy which is the correct thing to do tbh and we have a very strong relationship still,,, we still look after each other and talk on the phone every day and see each other every few days,,,,, its strange cause we moved in with each other within a week of getting together and we lasted 10 years and had a little monster too

main thing is we are big enough and respect each other enough not to do the bitchy thing and instead still work as parents to our little one ect ect ect