as soon as she moves in with you, housing are going to say you've agree'd to look after her and the kids, so you won't be able to boot them out if things all of a sudden turn all polish and she brings her heavies in
seriously, it's a very tricky situation and one that you'e got to think about from all angles, no matter how much you want to follow your gut instincts
the thought of being a hero is great, but a lot of potential hero's tend to get fucked along the way