no i just thought that you wasnt getting some sort of bond for the kids,, alot of people do this as " its not there kid" but needs to be thought of as your getting a relationship with 3 people and not one

maybe its cause im a parent i think different but moving in with someone with kids is TOTALLY differnt to moving a bird in

also she may not have a house now,, but shes gonna be fucked to get one if she moves in with you then a year later it breaks up

IMO you should keep things as they are till you wanna get married IMO as you could be held responsable after 2 years to house them DUE to her having kids,,,, becomes comon law and it WILL be the kids ACTUAL HOME,,,,, no mater if you aint the dad or not