warrren seriously when the kids move in they NEED to be treated like your own, you WILL need to get closeto them and allow yourself to get emotionally tied to them, its NOT just the missus your getting with,,,, the fact you dont seem to get this means she aint the person for you mate

ive got a mate whos kid aint hes and you would never tell and hes VERY happy,,,,, they are a family which is what your about move into... think of the kids also mate honestly and not look at them as " i aint there real dad"