Originally Posted by Thrush
On the other side of the coin, I still feel he DOES owe me, and I want to keep the money to show that. It's not about the money per say - the item in question could be a fucking frog for all I care - it's the principal.
The above said, I don't want him to think that by accepting the "gifts" that he has won me over, as that is very much not the case. He hasn't won shit - actually he's lost, as I have his "gifts" and he still not got shit from me. But then I might feel like a cunt (not cause I feel guilty or whatever, but cos I don't like intentionall hurting anyone - whether I like them or not. I am a very moral person, but often confused

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I still don't know what to do tho.
It sounds like your mind is well and truely made up and none of us can help you change that.
I hope you've made the right choice for yourself.