if he has betrayed you then FUCK HIM
my dad betrayed my family about 5 years ago he made his choices
so in my eyes he can live with them and die a very lonely old man
no 2nd chances , he even sent my eldest son a birthday present in the
post , soon as it got here it went straight back in the post he got the
message , life is just fine without him in it for me and the rest of the family