in my opinion you shud have gone round to view b4 bidding
i am happy for ppl to collect from my gaf but i sold a roof on ebay (esc cab) and had 20+ pics in a link to a online albumn
bloke turns up and says "i got another to look at ill get back to you"
i said get back to me if you like but you bought this 1 !!
ill give you a hand to you car
he paid and off he went
but hes not come round to look at it or anything
it was what it was so its his
but...
i see your point so if i were you i would just turn up at his house and have a look. if he says bugger off, you done your best, tell him you will neg his FB
least you only have a few FB so its not a wrench to get a new user and start again (if you care about your rating)
i have 100% pos and 100 fb