Originally Posted by saphlover
Like everyone keeps saying mate just keep your chin up and whatever you do dont get back with her, if she has dropped you like a hot spud after everything you have done for her then its not worth it. My ex was one of those girls that wants new things all the time, she bought a brand new car 6 months later she wanted to part ex it for a newer one coz she didnt like it anymore, she asked me to have a kid with her when i said no she left me for a few weeks then came crawling back because she apparently missed me so much., then we got a dog after about 2 weeks she wanted rid because she didnt like it anymore.
what im trying to say here is if your ex has dropped you once she will do it again, its best it has happend now and not in 10 - 20 years time. look at it this way you are still young enough to go out and get yourself someone new and time is the greatest healer.
yeah know what ur saying mate she wants me to jack my job in and get a closer to home job which i can understand but the thing is when she falls ill shes losses her job eventually and we'd be fucked as i wouldnt earn the money working local and the hours would be different ie she wants me home every night!!!!, so she falls ill she losses her job or is on ssp for ages and we'd lose everything..thing is everybody can see this apart from her,ive got to lok at the whole picture for our future.......plus i wouldnt be happy sat at home every night having no money.........there would be arguements money related and we'd probably end up splitting up anyway
.......she also wanted me to get rid of my cossie but i aint going there
