hey everyone well a mate of mine an the lass im seein committed suicide on the weekend, i havent spoke to himn in a few years but he had been speaking to her recently an tell her how low he was feelin an that he didnt want to live any more,

Well me an the lass were having something to eat on saturday an a few drinks an headed to bed about 12ish, he texted her about this time asking to meet but not saying why,she said she was with me an asked whats up, the guy said it doesnt matter hes out with his mates,

So we woke up in the morning she has 4 missed calls from him an a answer phone message wishing her good luck with her degree an hope she has a nice life an that he was on the edge of a railway with a belt round his neck, so we both try to call everyone we know who could get in touch with him an everyone says hes at his mums an is ok, but we find out later he had told his mates this an went an hung himself,

Now the lass im seeing is getting really down an is angry with herself an keeps going over the scene in her head an keeps thinking what if she didnt have her phone on silent,

now i know he had tryed this befor an even if she was able to stop him he would of tryed it again, but she cant see this an is blaming herself.

So what im asking is some ideas for things to get her out this rut (i know itll take time) an help her get back to her normal life, (its also her last few months of uni an she has alot on her plate) any advice is welcome an will consider any ideas for things to cheer her up,

Hope use lot can help as im running out of ideas,

Mark.