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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:09 PM
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A few ups, mostly down. Its Boxing Day and spent most of the time with my best friend, who's mother passed away today at 6pm from Cancer. Along with my grandfather's death a few months ago and a lot of other things I never want to remember, I hope to god that 2010 will bring a bit more hope and luck!

Merry Christmas and hope everyone has a good new year!

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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:11 PM
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life`s a shitter mate at times..ive lost mate`s ive served with and family over the years.
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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:13 PM
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Aye, but every year you seem to realise more and more why those depressing adverts come on the t.v. at Christmas time...what a depressing time of year for most
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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:15 PM
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Shit mate not good hope the new year is better for you
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Aye, but every year you seem to realise more and more why those depressing adverts come on the t.v. at Christmas time...what a depressing time of year for most
agreee with ya there...you just gota keep ya chin up and smile.
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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:16 PM
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I'm with you mate. My 2009 has been a fucking disgrace. Can't wait to see the back of it and use 2010 as a fresh start
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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:17 PM
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It's been a cunt of a year for me too

Promised myself that 2010 is going to be alot better.

Chin Up lads!!
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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:18 PM
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hated 09 from start to fin tbh , serious lack of work , dad passed away on fathers day and just other genral shite from start to finish including scrapping the cos s2 and having to start again


although its been just over a year since i started dating my current girlfriend ,and shes the dogs danglies , supported me throughout ,loves me to bits ( must do to put up with this nutta ) and just a absolute daimond ,

so hopefully i can take one positive through to 2010 and go from there !!!

chin up fella , got to keep moving forward as they say ,



all the best for 2010

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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:20 PM
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Optimism seems hard at times, but hey....

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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:22 PM
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it always seems like bad things happen in three,s so hopefully your luck will change now mate ,and god what a shit year this has been for almost everyone i know both financially and personally.
so here,s to 2010


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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:23 PM
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both my grandparent died on christmas eve but a few years apart when i was younger. i wish id had a tenner on the odds of that happening.
christmas time can be depressing for many. is there many that actually enjoy the whole thing rather than trying to live upto a level of pretend happiness that they feel pressured into?
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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 09:28 PM
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Lost a Uncle and Aunt this year.
Will have to have my cat put to sleep before the year is out as well, had him 15 years.
2010 is also going to be crap, im sure my mother in law will pass away very soon. This is going to devastate my wife and make life very hard.

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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 11:12 PM
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Tbh, i'll be glad to see the back of this decade, in 2001 my mum was diagnosed with breast cancer, then just after she recovered from that, my stepdad was diagnosed with prostate cancer and died in '06, shortly after that, my mum became severely depressed, she's taken 2 overdoses and i had to get her sectioned last year, now she's on the verge of becoming an alcoholic.
2010 has GOT to be better! lol
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Old Dec 26, 2009 | 11:27 PM
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lost a friend this year that i went to school with to cancer,she was one of those people whenever you spoke to or saw you always had a laugh at some point in the conversation(despite many tragic events in her life),her eldest and middle child are the same age as mine and my wife and i have both wondered what her house will have been like this christmas without her

we are both thankfull for our health and general happiness as i know in the great scheme of things she and i have got it ok

so as i write this i wish all out there have a better one in 2010


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I'll be glad to see the back of 2009 too.

So far, it's been the worst year of my life.
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Old Dec 27, 2009 | 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Kitchen Devil
I'll be glad to see the back of 2009 too.

So far, it's been the worst year of my life.

my gf grandad died canser crimbo eve so no what it like
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Old Dec 27, 2009 | 01:33 AM
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tbh i have hated 2009 but in 09 i got with the gf im with now and love her to bits and were having a child due in march but i lost my job also and got my st repossed i also lost a very dear and close friend this year and theres other stuff happend i dont wont to mention but the only good thing is the gf im with atm, and my child shes carrying
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Old Dec 27, 2009 | 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted by RUPERT THE BIG HAIRY BEAR
tbh i have hated 2009 but in 09 i got with the gf im with now and love her to bits and were having a child due in march but i lost my job also and got my st repossed i also lost a very dear and close friend this year and theres other stuff happend i dont wont to mention but the only good thing is the gf im with atm, and my child shes carrying
I had two good friends die (one in a very nasty accident) the year my eldest was born 13 years ago which completeley changed my outlook for '96
Now I'm not sayting you will see 09 similarly but it did demonstrate to me that nice things can happen when shit is also happening if you know what I mean

ps good luck with ya wee person on the way chap
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Old Dec 27, 2009 | 08:19 AM
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Not good mate a good family friend passed away on tuesday fron cancer
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Old Dec 27, 2009 | 10:14 AM
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I'm with you on 2009 being an utterly shit year, never want to have to go though some of the things that have happened ever again
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Old Dec 27, 2009 | 10:41 AM
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2009 has for once been an O.K/Good Year!

Managed to get a business virtually off the ground
But most importantly, on 18th December, my first child was born!

And basically, thanks to Little Thomas, It has been my best year to date!
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Old Dec 27, 2009 | 01:50 PM
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Sorry to hear of the woes above, hope next year is better for you all, now where is the phone number as my BOSCH(top of range)washer dryer packed up christmas eve!!
Phew glad I took out extended warranty on it, hint don't buy a bosch!!
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Old Dec 27, 2009 | 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by natehall
2009 has for once been an O.K/Good Year!

Managed to get a business virtually off the ground
But most importantly, on 18th December, my first child was born!

And basically, thanks to Little Thomas, It has been my best year to date!
Congrats on ya lil un mate,every cloud ad that.
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sorry to here that you havent had a good year. I had a bit of a bad year last year both my mam and mother in law got breast cancer. Oh and i got married lol i hope you have a better year in 2010. Hope to see you at some ford shows alan.
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Will deffo be there with plenty of sausages and burgers Glenny boy Motor is looking good so far, give it another couple of weeks and she'll be better than before

But on a seperate note mate, we're all surprised you got hitched as well xxx
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I do hope people are right when they say problems come in threes, as washer dryer broke, then printer, now today toad alarm has a mind of it's own, mind you it did go swimming at Hemsby in a flood a few years back!!
best of luck to everyone in 2010.
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looks like alot of peaple had a shit 2009. mine was diabolical to say the least

lost my well payed job for a truck dealership, broke up with fiance, lost my brand new flat thanks to her, lost my focus thanks to her, ended up in debt because of it with nothing to show then to top it off lost my grandad to whom i was extremly close to around 6 weeks ago.

roll on 2010 with what looks like a good start to a relationship & a new job offer for end jan feb time
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Originally Posted by COCHYN
Will deffo be there with plenty of sausages and burgers Glenny boy Motor is looking good so far, give it another couple of weeks and she'll be better than before

But on a seperate note mate, we're all surprised you got hitched as well xxx
well im looking forward to seeing you there bud. Im a happily married man mate. Im glad your car is coming along nicely too. I would love to go out in it with you.
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looks like alot of peaple had a shit 2009. mine was diabolical to say the least

lost my well payed job for a truck dealership, broke up with fiance, lost my brand new flat thanks to her, lost my focus thanks to her, ended up in debt because of it with nothing to show then to top it off lost my grandad to whom i was extremly close to around 6 weeks ago.

roll on 2010 with what looks like a good start to a relationship & a new job offer for end jan feb time
Bloody hell mate you have had a bad year. I really hope it picks up for you fella.
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Originally Posted by Cragrat
Congrats on ya lil un mate,every cloud ad that.
I'll second that.
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Apart from feeling Ill everyday with apparent IBS and panic attacks this year has been ok for me.

Spents lots of time with my Son, got me Esc Cos back on road at 500bhp, got an unsuspected XMas present which I've always wanted, got a big tv, surround sound, etc, found a game I love playing on the ps3 (Normally I get bored after a week) and have a good girlfriend.

Life couldn't get much better really, so why am I always depressed
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09 Has been shite for me aswell.

Parents split at the start of the year after an affair. (stupid bitch threw away her life) i stayed with my dads side, the divisions in the family have been unreal!.

My Grandad was diagnosed with cancer in April less than a month after my Nan was given the all clear from breast cancer, he died a week before christmas.

Work Has been on and off. I've had a few quiet months of sitting at home not earning anything.

Blew my car up late march and left it with NMS for a month whilst i saved some cash. got it back with a big bill (3 times what i paid for the car ) and the gearbox died 4 days later. got a new box, clutch slipped straigt away, faulty pressure plate. new clutch and its been ok since. *touch wood*

I'm hoping 2010 will be a better year. I've got some stuff planned and a positive outlook. Life is too short for you to sit around and wait for it to do you a good turn you need to get out there, make some luck for yourself and have some fun doing it!

Bring on 2010
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2009 has been a great year for me if I give it some thought. If things keep going the way they are, 2010 can only get better too. I could and probably have moaned about this year, but when I sit and think about it, it hasn't at all. I hope all you lads having a bad time of it, things get better for you all.

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Bloody hell mate you have had a bad year. I really hope it picks up for you fella.

cheers glenn, thers a fair bit i can add to that too, but so far 2010 can only start on a high by the looks of things,

hope you have a good one mate
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chin up my little welsh mate

2010 will be a good one
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Old Dec 29, 2009 | 10:33 PM
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a) Spent 12k+ on an RST, never got to use it
b) Granddad passed away

Nasty year

Got a LOT of money coming my way at some point and certainly wont be blowing it.
I'll get a nice properly sorted 400bhp EsCos, enjoy that for a few months, then sell..

Too old for it all I guess ..

Fancy another Saff tho, so the light is still sorta there
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Jesus, my moans seem embarrasing by contrast now!!
Lets all wish each other the best of luck in 2010, less than 48 hrs away.
I got me TYPE R luminscent gauges today, well smart they are, so happy today, get the results of my brain scan on 7th, wonder if they found it!!
Life has been transformed since finding the secret cure for many ailments, new thread today!!
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Sorry to hear of your losschristmas was shite for my family as my mum couldnt get one of her customer aslo she was a family freind for the last 13 years and was no answer (very unusual) went back christmas day heard the dog again but still no answer she called the police to go up the smashed the door down and found her liying deadthen my parents had to identify her as she has no family herenightmareplus a couple of weks ago a freind took his own life a couple of month before that another freind and a couple of month before that i lost my aunti to cancer and also my dog to cancer yep its bn a shite year for me also and thats no the half of it

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Come on Guys here's to a better Year 2010!!!



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ive had a shit 2009,2 car accidents,motorbike accident 10 wks ago,lost my bro in law in august,and then got woken up at 5am on xmas day to be told my wifes grandad had died

2010 has to be a better year for me
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