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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:03 PM
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Default It was such a lovely day........

Met up with some very good friends Matt & Lorraine (Guzzler & Sassy) at their lovely house, their boys Chase & Finlay had an Easter egg hunt with Matt and myself hiding eggs all over the garden for them to find, and then Lorraine did a smashing bit of dinner which went down a treat. A very pleasant afternoon and really nice to catch up with some friends who I don't see anywhere near enough of.

Thankyou to you both

then, without going into a longwinded explanation of how it came about, my ex who I split up with very recently tells me she has started seeing someone else and is away with him this weekend.

I'm struggling a bit right now.
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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:07 PM
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Chin up Stu
just think of the lovely time uv'e had with lorraine matt and kids
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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:08 PM
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Ouch mate. Think happy thoughts.
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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:10 PM
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top people Matt and Lorraine.

Chin up Stuart,not the best situation to be in but it will get better as time goes on.
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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:17 PM
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Keep ya pecker up mate ,hard to deal with but life goes on and as they say it gets better with time and there is plenty more fish in the sea
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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:27 PM
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thats a kick in the nuts mate about the ex.sounds like a good day otherwise
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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:30 PM
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Awwwwwwwwwwwww hunny

Look up!! And look to the future!!!! She is an EX for a reason!! And you know this babe!!!! You are an amzing person Stu, with a massive massive heart, and your miss right IS out there....

Dont get caught up about her honey!!!

I saw some pics today of you and matt arsing about in the garden... looks like you had a lovely day!
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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:33 PM
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thats nice of her to rub your nose in it.
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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:38 PM
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To be fair to her (and it really goes against the grain to say this) she wasn't mate - as I said I'm not going into semantics, but she wasn't rubbing my nose in it. I suspected she was seeing someone else after we split anyway (and she wasn't seeing anyone when we were together, that I do know) so it came as no surprise, but to have it confirmed is a bit of a kick in the nuts.

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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:43 PM
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why did she feel the need to tell you so soon after you splitting up if it wasnt giving her some sort of kick? women are devious like that.
my mates ex still plays games like that even though he kicked her into touch 3 years ago. except my mate really doesnt care.
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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted by fuzzy
why did she feel the need to tell you so soon after you splitting up if it wasnt giving her some sort of kick?
That's a fair point.......and I don't have an answer for you fella. Maybe you're right.......
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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 08:58 PM
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Sorry to hear it - that sort of thing has happened to us all. Took me from feeling top of the world to feeling like I wanted to puke in 5 seconds flat. In time it all settles down.

I recommend a bunch of really bad rebound affairs that have no chance of lasting whatsoever, however they are like a hurdle you need to jump on your way to the rest of yours days (the way I see it anyway).

Good luck.

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Old Apr 12, 2009 | 10:12 PM
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fecking caffer
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