Why is it that when you go out of your way to help someone, do them favours and do a bit of chasing stuff for them, they then decide not to bother with you when you have arranged something because someone has turned up at their place and they don't have the bottle to say to them "I've got other plans, can you come round another day as I'm off out tonight" ?

Really pisses me off and feels like I've been shit on from a great height yet again

Guess you find out who your friends are the hard way sometimes

 

sup paul

 

too many people are like that mate.fooking irratating.ive had it before too.now i just make my views very clear to them and if they dont like it tough!

 

Losers mate, they dont deserve you.

 

whats up buddy?

 

I'll talk to you on msn later Alex

Stu - you're right, but I've known the lad over 5 years

 

yep i notice more and more that most mates only bother with you when they want something

 

Lost count of the times i've sorted things out for people at my own cost and time, only for them to say "oh it dosen't matter" when it's all ready to roll.

 

Oh dear,so it was that type of mate was it !!!!!

 

Happens all the time, the world is full of Cunts

 

My mates let me down one too many times...well my 'main' mates. In the end i just stopped contact, i was sick of getting let down but being there for em.....

 

I think you'll find he's talking about me, so cheers to all you people calling me a cunt etc.

You were totally fine with it, when i explained the situation to you and were more than happy to arrange another day so i can't see why you suddenly decide that this is how you feel.

Theres more to it than you've made out anyway, it's not like i've just fucked you off cos i can't be arsed at all and you know it's not.

Firstly i've just got with the new bird so been spending a lot of time with her.

Secondly i crashed my car so been trying to sort that out asap and as i said to you on the phone, your help with trying to sort parts was much appreciated. Thanks again.

Plus the fact i'm going on holiday next week so am trying to sort everything for that too.

But yeah, obviously i'm a cunt.

Cheers

 

Thats the way of the world unfortunately, i dont know anything about this situation so i'm not judging anyone but i've got lots of mates and a cousin who i never hear from unless they want something, and i'm too much of a softie to say bollox to them.

 

so so true, or you do load of favours for them, then when you wnat something doing they are to busy or just fob you off

 

No names were mentioned.


I was being polite.


Not the first time you've decided to stay home at the 11th hour when we have sorted something out tho is it?


Friends are for life - birds come and go.


No problem on that front, as you know I am always happy to help where I can. Many people on here can vouch for that aswell.


You never said anything about going on holiday next week untill we tried to re-arrange at the 11th hour.


If that whats you think then go for it, but I don't think that




Anyway, I'm not getting into an arguement about it - Theres no point and we'll only fall out big time - It would be a stupid waste of over 5 years of friendship if we did So enjoy your holiday and bring me back something nice

 

Just kiss and make up you poofters