Is It right to keep in close touch with all ex's when you start a new relationship?

 

Hmmmmmm Depends on the individual cases. But in general I sse it as a sign of being unable to move on

 

Providing no kids are involved, simple answer. No it isnt.

If you care about your previous, then sort yourself out. Shouldnt make a difference at all.

How would you feel if it were the other way round.

Move on, and get on with your new life, or stop wasting your new girfriends/ boyfriends time

JJ

 

I agree there

Ex's are past so why bring them into your future.

Personally i like to keep ex's at a distance, dont see why they should want to know / or comment on your relationship.

 

keep them well at bay, it will only complicate your new relationship

 

you should not stay in contact with an x unless it for the kids sake

the only exception to this is if your gf has dumped u and u need a shag always easier to get a shag from an x perfic

 

...i think you should bury the x and move on

 

Contact, maybe, but not close touch, I don't think it's a good idea for anyone involved.

 

how far should he bury her phil the mandatory 6 feet

 

.....8ft if she smells bad alive.

 

I think it depends on circumstances, I was properly good friends with one of my Ex's for a couple of years (still went climbing with her and her new boyfriend every week), and after that stopped when we had Caitie, I still keep in contact now by the odd email every now and again and she always invites myself and Jen over for a meal on Boxing Day (where she has an open house) every single year (despite the fact that we have never been able to go due to the fact that we always go to Jen's Dad's in Doncaster on that day).

However, I understand that is unusual, as she is the only one of my ex's that I have stayed in contact with . She's just one of those unusual people that are genuinely just nice with no hang-ups or physcological problems .

 

should she still be alive when he burries her or is he best killing her first phil

 

Mike......you and Pon deffo have a good outside relationship ..

 

Tony thats personal preference....for me if the bint wont shut up,killing first is essential.

 

how does jen feel about it mike do you go and have dinner with jens x's too I suspect dinner with her dad is to stop u having dinner with your x

 

Tony.....Jen's x is me and i am currently giving her a service in between posting.

 

I would not mind if the Ex was ok with you, but in my experience the first time i met Dave's ex she had a personal dig at me, so got my back up straight away, and it went downhill on her part from there on

 

some one has to give her a good service mike is gay and she can't take it up the rs anymore lol

 

Isn't that what most women are like

 

It's both of us who are invited . We have always gone to Doncaster on Boxing day though, but you never know, you might be right .

 

I was prepared to give her the benifit of the doubt, but she fooked it up

 

Phil,
Apparently you're hung like a hamster according to your Jen, so I know that my Jen would just laugh at you (like she does me ) .

 

do i hear wedding bells mike you are getting on abit now or are you going to be a cliff richard

 

He cant marry as he is already married to Pon

 

Sorry, you're not my type - and even if you were, you're too old and wrinkly .

 

...anyway enuff of this talk about Mike and his homo ways...Tony how is the affair with Redkop goin?Bought her anything else?

 

I find it extremely hard to get over people once I have gotten attached. Worst is my ex at work here, proper gorgeous girl but she's not so pretty on the inside. Still gets to me every time I see her though.

 

plenty more prettier fish in the sea .
How can you get attached to someone who is nasty on the inside
Fat girls never say no

 

my bird just has issues plain and simply with me talking to any girls from my past which is hard to deal with cos i dont see why i should ignore them not like they done anything wrong

And the argument rears its ugly head every now and again

 

thats women slim treat men like possesions, bet it is fine for your gf to talk to her x's
they live by different rules, been like this since time began, so much for equality .I look forwrd to the day when men are classed as equal

 

would you like it if your bird was doing the same??

 

you ever seen desperate house wives