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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 09:55 AM
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Rest in peace Sybil

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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 09:58 AM
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R.I.P SYBIL

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Looked a gorgous dog

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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 09:59 AM
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sorry to hear that mate, god knows how im gonna feel wen my dog one day leaves us. thats the thing bout havin pets like this. hope ya feel better soon tho
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:00 AM
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Aww wah – and what a beautiful dog.

Sorry to hear it Alex. No consolation but I can still have a good bawl over my old cocker spaniel Doob.. and he passed over five years ago now.

It does get a bit better though!
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:02 AM
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Sybil was a girl lol

but thanks for making me smile today

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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:02 AM
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hi mate, its absolutly horrid had my last dog for 15years a border collie and me and my wife couldent stop cryin when she died.. we had her put to sleep and i held her while thay put the needle in and then took her home and burried her with all her toys and lead, absolutly heart breakin , said we woudent have another but...... we did and got a rescue border collie hes so loving you wouldent believe it

all the best mate
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:02 AM
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feel for you dude. as with everything though, time eases the pain a bit.
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:05 AM
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Sorry to hear that Alex deep breath and head up mate................
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Ha Ha. I thought that might be the case Alex, so I went in and changed it incase it upset ya… but alas
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:06 AM
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Sorry to read this

Losing a pet is always hard as they give you 100% unrequited love and trust.

This is sad, but I like to think it could be true....

The Rainbow Bridge

There is a bridge connecting Heaven and Earth. It is called the Rainbow Bridge because of its many colours. Just this side of the Rainbow Bridge there is a land of meadows, hills, and valleys with lush green grass. When a beloved pet dies, the pet goes to this place. There is always food and water and warm Spring weather. The old frail animals are young again. They play all day with each other. There is only one thing missing, they are not with their special person who loved them so much on Earth.
Each day they all run and play until the day comes when one suddenly stops playing and looks up! The nose twitches! The ears rise up! The eyes are staring! Then suddenly, this one runs from the group! You have been seen, and when you and your special friend meet, you take him or her into your arms and you both embrace. Your face is licked again and again and you look once more into the eyes of your trusting pet.
Then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together, never again to be separate


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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:08 AM
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Sorry to heat this mate
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:15 AM
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Redkop that has made my eyes fill up so lovely tho

Sorry to hear this Alex RIP Sybil
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:17 AM
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coz u get attached to it and its a real family member


sorry to hear tho mate but that's life
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:18 AM
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they dont get called mans best friend for nothing eh?

i have only had my own dog abt nine months(had others when growing up)he's a chocolate lab and is like a f**king tornado going through the house leaving nothing but destruction in his wake!! he then looks at me as if to say whats this nutter shouting at me for!!lol

sorry for the loss tho cos they r like a family member.

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Lynne - I'm now crying at my desk.

Please don't post that again.. or at least put a warning on it first!
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:23 AM
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Sorry to hear this Alex Love that photo though

Time is a wonderful healer though mate, try and remember that!
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:24 AM
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really sorry for you mate, must be horrible, it is THE worst part of dog/pet ownership, just have to try and think of all the good times and how she had the best life possible.

as said though it will get better,

RIP - Sybil
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:34 AM
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Awww A Cocker Spaniel We lost 2 of our spaniels recently I Know how hard it is fella.
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:52 AM
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Really sorry to hear this - must be terrible.


My GSD is 9 now & its something i dread


Lynne`s poem post - OMG tearjerker to any dog owner
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 10:58 AM
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Alex... Thoughts with you mate, Hated it when Ellie went






PS: When I saw the thread title, I actually thought you was trying to lose a dog
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 11:07 AM
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Really and truly sorry to read this Alex. Its so incredibly hard because you loved each other so much mate.

One of the few things in life i dread on an almost daily basis is losing suzie my staffy cross.

Chin up pal, it will get easier mate, but your sad for a good reason, and the dog will have felt that reason (love) all her life, and thats a good thing.


Lynne, that made me cry.
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 11:19 AM
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Sorry to hear this Mate

best of luck
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 12:21 PM
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know how it feels buddy

heres my cocker spanial that had to be put down due to cancer





i cried like i big girl at the time and aint embarrased to say so


Chin up tho matey !!
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Oh what a cutie. Paws inwards like every spaniel I've ever met lol. Ours had cancer too. He held out for Christmas (and all of his wrapped pressies as per) and passed away on Dec 27th. So sad.
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I still get a tear in my eye when I read that poem again too, the first time I read it.... I shed buckets
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its hard isnt it mate, i just lost an animal closest to me, but my girlfried brought me a cute fluffy bunny rabbit called COSSIE to make it a bit easier!

Its just like loosing a loved one, especially if its man's best friend
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Sorry to hear this mate. Had to have my springer spaniel Buster, put down earlier in the year. It's just like losing a best friend. Infact it's bringing tears to my eye writing this.
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Originally Posted by Redkop
Sorry to read this

Losing a pet is always hard as they give you 100% unrequited love and trust.

This is sad, but I like to think it could be true....

The Rainbow Bridge

There is a bridge connecting Heaven and Earth. It is called the Rainbow Bridge because of its many colours. Just this side of the Rainbow Bridge there is a land of meadows, hills, and valleys with lush green grass. When a beloved pet dies, the pet goes to this place. There is always food and water and warm Spring weather. The old frail animals are young again. They play all day with each other. There is only one thing missing, they are not with their special person who loved them so much on Earth.
Each day they all run and play until the day comes when one suddenly stops playing and looks up! The nose twitches! The ears rise up! The eyes are staring! Then suddenly, this one runs from the group! You have been seen, and when you and your special friend meet, you take him or her into your arms and you both embrace. Your face is licked again and again and you look once more into the eyes of your trusting pet.
Then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together, never again to be separate


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I'm sorry but FPMSL what a load of cock.
Very insensitive and I apologise but honestly what good does that nonsense actually do.

Sorry about the dog tho, did look very cute
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Originally Posted by Redkop
Sorry to read this

Losing a pet is always hard as they give you 100% unrequited love and trust.

This is sad, but I like to think it could be true....

The Rainbow Bridge

There is a bridge connecting Heaven and Earth. It is called the Rainbow Bridge because of its many colours. Just this side of the Rainbow Bridge there is a land of meadows, hills, and valleys with lush green grass. When a beloved pet dies, the pet goes to this place. There is always food and water and warm Spring weather. The old frail animals are young again. They play all day with each other. There is only one thing missing, they are not with their special person who loved them so much on Earth.
Each day they all run and play until the day comes when one suddenly stops playing and looks up! The nose twitches! The ears rise up! The eyes are staring! Then suddenly, this one runs from the group! You have been seen, and when you and your special friend meet, you take him or her into your arms and you both embrace. Your face is licked again and again and you look once more into the eyes of your trusting pet.
Then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together, never again to be separate


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I'm sorry but FPMSL what a load of cock.
Very insensitive and I apologise but honestly what good does that nonsense actually do.

Sorry about the dog tho, did look very cute
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 12:36 PM
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Sorry to hear it alex, we lost a cat a few years ago and she still is very much in our thoughts.
Like Stu, we have an older cat and while she's still full of life, I dread the day when that will end.

The best thing to do, is remember the good times you've had, and the bad/rough ones you may have had. It will be tough at first, but eventually, it will bring a smile to your face rather than sorrow, and that will feel good
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 12:41 PM
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Sorry to hear it mate. I have been through it twice and I always take it worse than the wife however I am usually the strong one but when it comes to my dogs I find it very hard.

What everyone says is correct, it does get easier but I know you will never forget her as I do not forget mine. It is the hardest thing a dog owner can go through however it will never stop me owning one.

Take care

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RIP
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Originally Posted by Matt J
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Originally Posted by Redkop
Sorry to read this

Losing a pet is always hard as they give you 100% unrequited love and trust.

This is sad, but I like to think it could be true....

The Rainbow Bridge

There is a bridge connecting Heaven and Earth. It is called the Rainbow Bridge because of its many colours. Just this side of the Rainbow Bridge there is a land of meadows, hills, and valleys with lush green grass. When a beloved pet dies, the pet goes to this place. There is always food and water and warm Spring weather. The old frail animals are young again. They play all day with each other. There is only one thing missing, they are not with their special person who loved them so much on Earth.
Each day they all run and play until the day comes when one suddenly stops playing and looks up! The nose twitches! The ears rise up! The eyes are staring! Then suddenly, this one runs from the group! You have been seen, and when you and your special friend meet, you take him or her into your arms and you both embrace. Your face is licked again and again and you look once more into the eyes of your trusting pet.
Then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together, never again to be separate


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I'm sorry but FPMSL what a load of cock.
Very insensitive and I apologise but honestly what good does that nonsense actually do.

Sorry about the dog tho, did look very cute
Not a dog lover then
not particularly but thats beside the point.

all im getting at, is when someone is upset and in mourning the last thing they really need is some cock and bull about the dog waiting for them on a rainbow. i mean ffs what a load of trash, yes it would be nice to believe but come on!

all it achieves is making the poor guy cry even more, even people that havent lost a dog for 5 years are now crying.
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Old Aug 3, 2006 | 01:34 PM
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Bog off and take your unwanted crass comments elsewhere!
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ballin you can tell you have never lost a pet close to you then.....
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i think its your comments that arent really needed at this time matey. clearly this is a thread for dog lovers, so why are you in here?
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Sorry to hear mate,

RIP
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