How do i knwo if my fuel pump relay is fooked?

got under it from under me dash today as car wont start......



anyway from the start....

got me car sorted and turned her over and (turn over sound) not starting...

anyway couldnt hear the fuel pump coming on so guessed fuel pump...but few peeps said...relay....they said you should hear it click when ya turn ya ignition on.....

anyway i cant hear it click.......but on the other side everyone telling me its pink and mines black...and it says fuel pump relay on it...and there was only 2 relays under me dash! and a big scary black box thing (alarm?) and a fook load of bad wireing!...when ment to be four relays right?....any help would be great!

oh got the relay open and nothing screams out that its fooked....no burns or owt!