Depends on what you use your everyday car for really, personally i feel that on the road you dont really need 4wd levels of grip really as visibility of other road users etc tends to limit what speed is safe more than the amount of traction available.
Personally i would probably take the M3 evo, but then i always have half a dozen "fun" cars as well as my daily driver so possibly that makes me less interested in the rally slag side of things for my daily driver than other people might be.