Ok, I think I've the splined bit sorted. I think there are 2 types, all powersteering are the same and all manual are the same.
What about the rubber donut. Ive looked through loads of old threads saying use a land rover one but I don't see them listed anymore. I tried a solid one but I don't think it's a good job as the column is not 100 percent true with the rack, it's slightly off and would be putting pressure on it.